Hello all - I have been popping by and reading here and there through the week - but just went through now and had a thorough catch up. Wow Friday night already - where did this week go????? Monday I had a day off with DS13 who wasn't feeling well - to be honest I was kind of relieved I had woken up super tired and it was the perfect excuse. We had a day of sleeping, laying around and playing card/board games together - much needed on my behalf. Back to work and school and then same DS13 says to me in the car on the way home Wednesday night, my arm is a bit sore I got hit with a soccer ball today at school soccer. In the craziness of dinner, homework etc. super mum here forgets all about it and he wasn't making a fuss. Later that night

oops let me look at that arm. So elbow swollen, and he range of motion for flexion and extension is limited. Poked at him and he wasn't jumping out of his skin so - I am thinking some soft tissue damage from hyperextension (from his description of what happened). So decide will take him to Doctors in the morning. Wake up - still swollen and range of motion the same - no bruising obvious. Crazy day had a meeting booked for the afternoon I really had to keep - so paperwork and juggling DS13 - I debated the Drs or the hospital - but we both really didn't want to sit in emergency for ages. So decided to go with Dr.... who has a look and a feel and says hmmmm I have seen a lot of fractures lately ... lets have an xray - so

for an xray - xray tech says she isn't sure and I couldn't see anything obvious myself looking over her shoulder when the images came up on the computer - we have to see what the Dr says....

to my meeting

back to the Drs... can't see fracture on Xray but growth plates could be affecting the vision so we proceed as if it is a fracture but not with a full cast - so he gets a back-slab cast, bandaged and sling! Referred to hospital fracture clinic - waiting to hear from them for appointment - they may do MRI to see if that will show us what is happening .... DS13 kind of disappointed he did not a 'proper' cast. He slept with me last night - so hardly any sleep for me as I kept waking up and making sure he was propped on his pillows properly with arm firmly in place lol. He had day off today with his grandparents and I headed to work as usual. Wow no wonder this week disappeared in a blur!!!!!
Question of the day: How did you get on last week? Would you like to report progress towards your goal? Last week is now gone, if you have made progress towards your goal - well done, lets repeat it all again! If you have not, is there something you can do differently? Would you like to set up new weekly goal for this week?
Better answering late than never - well I really haven't had a true goal this month but I did decide a couple of weeks ago I wanted to start taking better care of my skin - kids bought be skincare products for Mother's day and I have managed to use them everyday since I got them - so that is kind of a looking after myself goal that I have been achieving. I am going to put some thought in over the next few days about next month and my goals - really feeling like I need to reboot this thing!
how has your life changed in the last 6 years? Tell us one thing for you personally that has improved since 2011. And which aspect of your life do you most want to work for changing between now and 6 years in the future?
Loved reading all of your answers by the way!
So six years ago I was 38 and half way through my University degree (Occupational Therapy).
On my own with kids and had been for sometime.
In retrospect I was probably the thinnest I have been since then - but not necessarily healthy - read lots of cola and chocolate to get me through the days. My weight has gone up and down and then up up up.
I graduated on the cusp of turning 40 and managed to land a job on the coast in my desired area (paediatrics) in a job with great flexibility to juggle my kids.
Even though I still doubt myself constantly - I am recognising that since starting I have come along way with experience and capability in my role. I am starting to give back by accepting student OTs for the practical experiences as part of the degree for supervision.
My kids are all in high school now DS16 in year 11 and the twins DS13 and DD13 in year 8.
I am the mother of teenagers and can I say the last few months the boys and I have started to get that fun experience of a hormonal teenage girl in the house - some days it is hilarious and others I just want to scream

I have healed a lot emotionally in the this time - particularly since 2014 after scrimping, saving and charging our way to
Disneyland for our first family overseas trip.
We have lost much loved family and friends some way to early - we have made wonderful new friends and had a cousin and her crazy kids come to live nearby.
All in all there have been very dark days and jump out of our skin joyful days.
In 6 years I will be 50!!! I can't believe I even just typed that.
All of my kids will have graduated high school and be in whatever that next phase of school/life brings them.
I am excited and anxious for them all at the same time.
I will likely be in a new phase of my life - not knowing what to do with myself - likely on my own for the first time in a very long time - I will share - the thought TERRIFIES me.
Most days I think I will still be single but am starting to hope that I won't be.
I want to be thinner and healthier than I am now
I hope to continue to grow in my career - but would be happy for that to be with my current employer.
We all know that somehow we will have another family Disneyland trip within that time. If not before maybe it will have to be for my 50th!!
In 2011, I was about a year post-divorce, my kids were both just out of HS, and I was laid off from my previous employer. I worked as a consultant for a few months before taking a position with the company where I work now. I have since been promoted to a management position, and am continuing to work on advancing my career. My kids are both now out of the house so it's just me and my 2 very spoiled Labs at home.
Six years from now, I would say the one thing I most want to work on is finding a stable long term relationship with a genuinely nice man. I had been with my ex for 21 years before the divorce and I have to say I'm a bit surprised how hard dating has been at this age.
Seems we have some similarities - to be honest I haven't even tried dating for the longest time - for lots of reasons - and the thought is scary - but I am also hoping that I manage to find a wonderful person to spend time with.
My woohoo is that I am going to see the new Pirates of the Caribbean movie tonight!! It opens officially tomorrow (all movies open on Thurdays here), but they have special previews tonight. And tomorrow is a holiday here in Germany, so I can sleep in and finally go for a run again! Did not manage to run at DLP (but walked 25.000 steps a day in the parks) and the last two mornings were horribly rushed.
Oohh - Did you like it?? Now remember it was mostly shot her in Queensland - in waters not too far from where I live

DD13 is going with friends tomorrow. The rest of us will get there at some stage but probably not this weekend.
It is Wednesday already, isn't it? The past week has been pretty rough for me, as I've been struggling with the stress, pace and volume of work coming at me.
I hear ya - my friend
My woohoo is that I did my first half marathon over the weekend. I was never able to get past 9.5 miles in my training runs prior to the race so I was pretty worried. I actually stressed myself out so much that my hair was falling out. I realize that this sounds ridiculous because the worst thing that could happen is being told to leave the course because I was too slow and not being able to finish which really isn't a big deal but it's my nature to worry about things like that.
My goal was to complete the race in less than 3 hours and I finished with a time of 2:51:44.77. There were some some steep hills that took their toll on me but my 195lb self did it. I have to admit I was tearing up when I ran across the finish.
This is fabulous big congratulations
So today has ended up being very emotionally draining. It started out with a lot of crying, but not bad crying. My daughter is moving to middle school and today was their 4th grade farewell. With this change we will be leaving a school that I love. The teachers all have been great. SO just emotional about the transition. nothing big here. Kind of normal for me.

these milestone transitions are hard.
Well this afternoon things went south. My husband watched my sons bus go by without him getting off. We panicked. Where is our son. My husband called the bus garage and they tell him he will be dropped off last. We meet the our son at the bus stop. The driver, blocking my son from getting off, tells us the reason why he was not dropped off until last was because my son called him an idiot. Yes wrong of my son but he did not deserve this. We have no clue what this driver said to my son while alone with him. We did tell the bus garage and got a reply that they talked to the bus driver. We could not talk to anyone else because the schools were closed. So I will have an impromptu meeting with the principle in the morning. If I have to I will meet with the superintendent as well. This is not ok. We had to ask the diver to let me son off the bus. I have a friend who her husband is a Park ranger and they think we should make a police report. That it was boarder line kidnapping. We are unsure what to do. I am going to talk to the Resource Officer at my daughters school tomorrow to see what he thinks.
I agree with
@HappyGrape - and your friend - file the police complaint - your son was detained by someone without the authority to do so and without your knowledge - when he should have been let off at his usual stop. If his behaviour was so offensive he could have told you/your husband and/or taken it up with the school or you when the bus route was finished. That must have been scary for your son. I absolutely know that feeling of terror when kids don't get off the bus when they are supposed to. There was a mix up when we moved house and my father went to the wrong stop to get DS14 at the time - and it didn't help that when I rang DS phone it rang beside me on the couch - he had forgotten it!!! I flew from here to the stop near me - no child - sped way too fast all the way to the stop he was told to get off at - no son - the people in the nearby shop had not seen him - I was hysterical. He did the right thing and walked to my parents - my dad must have missed seeing him as he drove along the same road (but it is a busy road). We are all super sensitive to young teens and busses on the coast as just before my twins were born a 14 year old boy went missing waiting for a bus to go Christmas shopping. A dirty paedophile had coerced him into a lift and he was never seen again - sadly some of his body was found only in the last few years. That boy went to the same school my kids go to now.
Less than month to California, I am really looking forward to it! I am going to look into what clothing we need this weekend.
So jealous hope you have a wonderful time - I saw some of your planning posts in the California section - I love that last month count down phase when it gets so real
Well I think I have made up for my absence this week and rambled enough

I have a crazy busy weekend ahead - I will try to stop by - have a great weekend everyone
