Disboutiquers Part 16 Kids Disney Boutique / Customs Clothes psst..we sew

[karebear1]

(of course, I've also been told things like simply because of their biofamily my boys are destined to grow up and murder us in our sleep-SERIOUSLY!-, that they aren't "really" ours, etc).

Oy vey.

That's absolutely outrageous and so insensitive! Some people.....

 

[Rebecuberduber]

I love this, so simple and classic. It's very cute.



I lost the quoet, but I also really looooved the minnie mouse dress. Beautiful work!



Ok, I have some news I'm so excited to share! We got our trip all booked, yesterday. Flight reservations, hotel reservations, and everything. We're going to be staying in the new Treehouse Villas!!! I'm so excited! We're keeping it as a surprise to the kids, but they are going to flip out. They love tree houses, I mean what kid doesn't? And they always fantasize about one day our family living in a big tree house like the Swiss Family Robinson. Well, now we can stay in a tree house at Disney World. I love that the renovated those!



Ok, so on to my sewing question. I'm diving in to make outfits for the trip, already. (It will be the first trip I've sewed for!) I remember that Theresa Joy made a skirt and shirt Snow White set a while ago for a Big Give. I loved that idea as an informal princess dress. I was thinking about making a Snow White and a Cinderella one. They will be for younger girls, and I'd really like to make a button-down blouse as the top to go with a CarlaC twirly skirt. I can't find a YCMT blouse pattern, but I found this Burda one:

Has anyone made this? I'm still a beginner, so I'm looking for something easy. I was considering the short puff-sleeved style one. Any input or ideas?



I've finished a lot of outfits, lately, and made a couple Simply Sweets for the first time that I'm excited to share, but I haven't gotten around to taking pictures, yet. I will soon, though.

 

[Rebecuberduber]

That is so incredibly sweet and thoughtful of you. It will mean the world to them that you treat this event like the wonderful celebration it is, whether or not the children stay forever in their home.

One item I might suggest is a "handprint" frame that they can put each child's hand in, no matter how old they are now. It's one of the things you "miss out" on when you don't have them from day one. Since this is their "day one" they can now have their own (and it may be an even more precious item for them if the twins leave).

I applaud you on the way you are thinking about all this and handling it. I wish I had people like you in my family. The totality of what was done for our adoption of the boys? An ecard. Yep, that's it. One person sent an ecard. We got much more love, support, and celebration from the people online than from anyone in our "real" life. We didn't expect a party, heck, or even presents- but a handwritten card or something would have been nice as a keepsake for the boys, y'know? (of course, I've also been told things like simply because of their biofamily my boys are destined to grow up and murder us in our sleep-SERIOUSLY!-, that they aren't "really" ours, etc).

Oy vey.

That's HORRIBLE! I can't believe some people think this way, let alone say these things out loud. Do they even hear themselves??? I am so, so sorry to all you adoption families out there who receive this kind of treatment. That is absolutely outrageous and inexcusable. I hope that the children can remain sheltered and unaware of all of that rubbish. How hurtful.

 

[eeyore3847]

I applaud you on the way you are thinking about all this and handling it. I wish I had people like you in my family. The totality of what was done for our adoption of the boys? An ecard. Yep, that's it. One person sent an ecard. We got much more love, support, and celebration from the people online than from anyone in our "real" life. We didn't expect a party, heck, or even presents- but a handwritten card or something would have been nice as a keepsake for the boys, y'know? (of course, I've also been told things like simply because of their biofamily my boys are destined to grow up and murder us in our sleep-SERIOUSLY!-, that they aren't "really" ours, etc).

Oy vey.

wow what is wrong with some people... I have heard the "why would you adopt there not even yours" speech from so many people. idiots really. Before I did fertility with my 2 youngest we had been making plans to adopt overseas, and my own dad said if we did that the child would never be blood or welcomed. and that they would never fit in. It is rediculous and ignorant and stupid.... Kids want love, stability and a place to call home, blood does not give that... and the child are a product of there environment not there Blood.... some people amaze me!

 

[MommyBoo!]

This is a great set! And a clever idea!

It looks beautiful! And you are a wonderful friend!

The first set ie really cute and I can't wait to see the next one finished. I love white capris!

Lori

OK, now I am really sorry that I didn't buy all of those plush Minnies dressed as princesses. This is wonderful!

 

[angel23321]

That is so incredibly sweet and thoughtful of you. It will mean the world to them that you treat this event like the wonderful celebration it is, whether or not the children stay forever in their home.

One item I might suggest is a "handprint" frame that they can put each child's hand in, no matter how old they are now. It's one of the things you "miss out" on when you don't have them from day one. Since this is their "day one" they can now have their own (and it may be an even more precious item for them if the twins leave).

I applaud you on the way you are thinking about all this and handling it. I wish I had people like you in my family. The totality of what was done for our adoption of the boys? An ecard. Yep, that's it. One person sent an ecard. We got much more love, support, and celebration from the people online than from anyone in our "real" life. We didn't expect a party, heck, or even presents- but a handwritten card or something would have been nice as a keepsake for the boys, y'know? (of course, I've also been told things like simply because of their biofamily my boys are destined to grow up and murder us in our sleep-SERIOUSLY!-, that they aren't "really" ours, etc).

Oy vey.

OMG! I can't believe the insensitivity of what we call our FAMILIES! It's beyond me. You all are so great to do this for a child and to not have them welcomed like any other part of the family is beyond me. HUGS to you all.

 

[snubie]

All the talk about adoption and extended families not accepting it just makes me sick. These kids deserve love and affection just like any biologically related child.

The Menendez brothers were biological and they killed their parents.
http://www.nytimes.com/1996/03/21/us/menendez-brothers-guilty-of-killing-their-parents.html So that puts holes in Marah's familys' theories right there.

 

[MommyBoo!]

That is really cute and I don't think it's loud at all.

That would be great at Prime Time!

I wanted to know about storage for PES designs. If I buy a card can I then copy the designs to my computer? Then pull them from the computer when I want to use them?

How does the brother system work?

No clue but congrats on your new machine!

That fabric is so pretty!

these are the fabrics for the quilt- what do you think? Are they ok? I hope so- they cost a fortune! Today I cut the strips- tomorrow I cut the squares. I do it in steps so I don't overwhelm myself trying to get it all done in one day!

I think those fabrics look great!

To those who have had/are having problems with insensitive family members, I am sorry. We have adopted kids in our family and we did the whole congratulations/gift/party when they came home (they were adopted from Russia). I couldn't imagine not doing that or treating them differently! We are just a great big family! (Although I wouldn't mind not being related to certain adult family members now and then. )

 

[3huskymom]

well this weekend and today was busy! I was busy doing this dress! wheww it took a while!

sorry for the amount of pics, but wanted to show all the appliques

Lori

Very cute! SO you are the one she's been making all those applique designs for??? I plan on getting them and doing something similar for Hayleigh. I was just finding pics online last night with minnie dressed as princess to use as appliques on vidas.

So... you'll never guess!! I'm gonna start sewing again- and my 1st project is a red and white quilt for the guest bedroom. I'm doing red, white and a pale yellow in the room.

these are the fabrics for the quilt- what do you think? Are they ok? I hope so- they cost a fortune! Today I cut the strips- tomorrow I cut the squares. I do it in steps so I don't overwhelm myself trying to get it all done in one day!

And..... I've been organizing again! Last time you saw my desk in my craft room, it looked like this:

And now that I have (inadvertantly) accumulated too many things, it now looks like this: Is it any better then before? Any suggestions? Inside the little silver boxes are embellishments for scrapping. I have 2 more of the black cubby things ordered- when those get here, I'll have plenty of space. Looking at the new pic, I think I want to do something else with those cricut cartridges- they look a little funky stretching all the way across the wall like that - don't they?

And I just KNOW you guys didn't notice the cords under the desk STILL look the same!

WOW! I don't think I've ever seen so many Cricut cartridges in someone's house!

I'm not sure where you would have to start to get more research done, but I know that Singer Futura's (I have one) all can use downloaded designs. You connect a computer to the machine via a USB cable, and that is why you can do it. I got a CE-350 (was a gift from my in-laws but I know it was from http://www.sewvacdirect.com for $850, the other models are less but come with less software usually).

I just saw the Futura 150 with all the software programs on HSN the other night for under $800.

 

[eeyore3847]

This is a great set! And a clever idea!


OK, now I am really sorry that I didn't buy all of those plush Minnies dressed as princesses. This is wonderful!

those appliques are amazing arn't they! Thank you

Lori

 

[eeyore3847]

Very cute! SO you are the one she's been making all those applique designs for??? I plan on getting them and doing something similar for Hayleigh. I was just finding pics online last night with minnie dressed as princess to use as appliques on vidas.

you know I got those appliques from 3 different sellers So I think they are all doing some now.

 

[Rymer]

Teresa.....I can't send you a PM 'cause your inbox is full!! LOL!! when you clear it out let me know!
Amy


I love it! Have you tried the tension trick for doing ruffles? I love it! You just crank the tension up on your machine, set your stitch to the longest, then run your machine slowly and only guide the fabric, try not to touch it too much, and VOILA! Ruffles!

 

[Tinker_]

All the talk about adoption and extended families not accepting it just makes me sick. These kids deserve love and affection just like any biologically related child.

The Menendez brothers were biological and they killed their parents.
http://www.nytimes.com/1996/03/21/us/menendez-brothers-guilty-of-killing-their-parents.html So that puts holes in Marah's familys' theories right there.

Hmm- I know it is horrible that everyone has these problems, but it makes me feel better to know I am not the only one! My DS3 is not adopted, however we have a "split" family- To make a long story short, my DBF has been in my DS life since he was born, he is not his "dad" to him, but his "Chaddy" and DBF's family does not treat DS at all like the bios! In fact, most of DBF's family have never even met DS! DBF's mom and sister treat us both more like "friends of the family"- It's horrible! Talk about feeling out of place! And let's not mention the fact that I was DBF's dad's caregiver while he died from cancer this year, and was beside his bed every single hour of every day with DS playing in the next room! I will never understand ppl I swear!

OK, sorry just needed to step on the podium, lol!

 

[JohnsonsLoveDisney]

you know I got those appliques from 3 different sellers So I think they are all doing some now.

By any chance would you be willing to share where you got those? pretty please?

 

[ireland_nicole]

That is so incredibly sweet and thoughtful of you. It will mean the world to them that you treat this event like the wonderful celebration it is, whether or not the children stay forever in their home.

One item I might suggest is a "handprint" frame that they can put each child's hand in, no matter how old they are now. It's one of the things you "miss out" on when you don't have them from day one. Since this is their "day one" they can now have their own (and it may be an even more precious item for them if the twins leave).

I applaud you on the way you are thinking about all this and handling it. I wish I had people like you in my family. The totality of what was done for our adoption of the boys? An ecard. Yep, that's it. One person sent an ecard. We got much more love, support, and celebration from the people online than from anyone in our "real" life. We didn't expect a party, heck, or even presents- but a handwritten card or something would have been nice as a keepsake for the boys, y'know? (of course, I've also been told things like simply because of their biofamily my boys are destined to grow up and murder us in our sleep-SERIOUSLY!-, that they aren't "really" ours, etc).

Oy vey.

Wow; just WOW; It's not that I don't believe you, but I am so completely blown away that someone could think or say that. How medievil. How sick, how cruel, how ignorant...ok, I'm done now...I think.

I really just can't comprehend how people think there's a difference between the child of your heart and the child of your body. What makes a mother is love, not an egg. I'm so sorry that y'all and those beautiful boys have had to hear that.

As far as me being a "great" friend ; nah, I'm just blessed enough to have great friends; how could I not respond? Not to mention, I'm ever so slightly obsessive and need projects to do

 

[ireland_nicole]

Lori:
Where'd ya get the red fabric w/ pink polka dots? That's the second time I've seen it and I really need some

 

[eeyore3847]

Lori:
Where'd ya get the red fabric w/ pink polka dots? That's the second time I've seen it and I really need some

it is michael miller dot fabric!! quilt shops $9 a yard

 

[MouseTriper]

Thanks a lot; I'm sorry for your experience. We had a vaguely similar experience with DD. She was so early and sick, that no one wanted to "congratulate" us (i assume in case the worst happened). But we had just had our first child, and although we were scared, we were thrilled and excited to. And even if we had lost her, having her would have been the happiest time in our lives, even if losing her would have been the saddest. I wasn't sure if this might be a similar experience for them, and really didn't want to presume anything, or do anything to hurt them. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.

Awwww I am so sorry to hear that your DD was early and so sick. I can only imagine how terrified you must have been. I know exactly what you mean though. I think what you are doing for your friend is wonderful and so sweet of you.

I am so saddened by this. I feel terrible your families are acting the way they are. thankfully, however, both your children are blessed to have wonderful parents like the two of you. So many people just have children, or "accidents" as many are called - but you chose to welcome these children into your home and fought to keep them so they'd be forever yours - that makes you as much a real family as if you carried them yourself in your womb, if not more! I cannot even begin to imagine what a struggle that must have been not knowing for so long, thankfully it all turned out for the best. It the the other family member's loss if they choose to treat them differently or not get close to them, but sad all the same.

Aww thank you. I couldn't agree with you more, it is THEIR loss. I have two beautiful children and they are missing out!!! It was extremely stressfull and I was scared to death but every minute was so worth it. Adoption is the best thing that has ever happened to us!!!

Beth...that's terrible! Shame on your family. A card would have been the least they could have done! I'm so sorry

Thanks! It really is sad and it hurts. I just do not understand some people. I could never treat anyone like that, especially a child.

When my two youngest came to live with us (many years ago now...DS7 was only 6 mos old!) my office gave me a 'shower'! neither of them had any clothes that came with them, and my youngest at that point was in college! They gave me a surprise luncheon with tons and tons of clothes. (and I got some extra days off from my manager...which REALLY came in handy!) I can't begin to tell you how much the thought was appreciated! Even though, at that time, we thought it was only temporary, my friends went all out for these kids.

Nini

Awwww how sweet of your friends to do that. That was really nice. I am so glad your situation was not temporary!!!! We brought our DD home when she was 7 months old and she had already been in 3 other homes. The case worker said she had never seen DD bond with anyone until she bonded with me. That still makes my heart melt. It took 9 more months before her adoption was finalized.

Beth, this is so sad that your families have not embraced your children as fully part of your family. That is just not fair to your children.
Hugs to you for welcoming in these children and opening your heart to them.

Thank you so much!! It totally is not fair to my kids and that is why I do my best to keep our distance from these members of the family. As our DD gets older and older though she is starting to notice differential treatment and it breaks my heart!

Wow- I think thats so sad,heartbreaking really. When did you get him and when was it finalized? In the photo he looks like hes about 1 and half??

I thought I was the only one with wierd, insensitive, tactless in laws.
I will never forget 2 conversations shortly after meeting my husband's step mother... I had been dating him for several months and was pretty sure we would get married. Our first conversation she informed me that her side of hte family wouldnt come to his wedding since he wasn't her son (his mother was an alcoholic, who passed away, he didnt really even know his bio Mom) His step Mom had raised him since he was about 4. He tells me she never hugged him growing up, baked cookies or gave him hot soup after playing in the snow (these are the qualities a Mom should have IMO- )
The second conversation, shortly after that she told me if we were to adopt they wouldnt be her grandchildren and adoptive children are "really" your children anyway.
Nice, huh? Funny thing is he LOVES to hug and play with his girls, he plays with them so much it borders on him not being an adult. (like nap time, feeding them lunch, or appropriate meals, etc, I would think its like living with a favorite Uncle)!

Oh my gosh that just breaks my heart that someone would treat a little boy like that. That is so sad!! Thankfully he now has you and the girls. It sounds like he adores you all and is a great father. Bless his heart! I just can not imagine ever treating a child badly....!!

We brought our son home when he was 3 days old and it took 19 VERY long months before we could adopt him. He is now 20 months old. It was very worrisome and stressful. I really don't think I got a peaceful night sleep the whole time, I was just so worried...however, it was ALL worth it, and I would do it all again if I had to.

Okay, so back to sewing...
Im still trying to decide on what to buy for fabric. I need opinions....

First, here is the pattern.
This is a photo of the kit, showing the gown with fabrics the designer chose.

and here is one made by someone else who used similar fabrics



Should I do it with fabrics like what is above? (I could even buy the kit) or with what I mentioned before- Silk dupioni and organza.
Here is the silk I would use..

I am still waiting to talk to a shop owner who may be able to help me and I noticed when I was there she has embroidery machines in her shop- so maaaaaybe, just maybe she could help me do it on her machine. I would just have to buy the design.
Otherwise, I dont own an embroidery machine so couldnt do most of what's embroidered on the dress, it's possible I could pick some stitches on my machine that might work- but Im not certain they would.

They said she will be in the shop tomorrow.

thank you to the ladies who have bought fabric, it's helping me get closer!

Wow that is going to be adorable!! I need to find something for my DS for his baptism this fall. Since he will almost be 2 years old, I need something bigger for a boy. Where did you find that pattern? I wonder if I should look for some kind of pattern and try to make one??? ....uh, wait, did I just say that....prolly not a good idea, way too complicated for me. I better start doing some internet searches instead!! Hahaha. Can't wait to see yours all finished, it will look beautiful!

 

[MouseTriper]

To me, he was your son from day one too.

TOTALLY!!!!

So... you'll never guess!! I'm gonna start sewing again- and my 1st project is a red and white quilt for the guest bedroom. I'm doing red, white and a pale yellow in the room.

these are the fabrics for the quilt- what do you think? Are they ok? I hope so- they cost a fortune! Today I cut the strips- tomorrow I cut the squares. I do it in steps so I don't overwhelm myself trying to get it all done in one day!

And..... I've been organizing again! Last time you saw my desk in my craft room, it looked like this:

And now that I have (inadvertantly) accumulated too many things, it now looks like this: Is it any better then before? Any suggestions? Inside the little silver boxes are embellishments for scrapping. I have 2 more of the black cubby things ordered- when those get here, I'll have plenty of space. Looking at the new pic, I think I want to do something else with those cricut cartridges- they look a little funky stretching all the way across the wall like that - don't they?

And I just KNOW you guys didn't notice the cords under the desk STILL look the same!

Oh my goodness, I can't wait to see your red quilt, I think it will be beautiful. I love the fabrics you choose; red is my favorite color!!!

Ohh and I think your desk looks wonderful!!!

Thanks ladies for your advice for my friends. I already called her and wished her congratulations, and set up a schedule for meals for the next two weeks and some help with childcare for the babies and her toddler so he doesn't get left out, and mom and dad can get some sleep. I guess for now we'll just focus on the joy of today and try not to fear the possibilities. For once, I'll take Scarlett O'hara's advice and remember: Tomorrow is another day...

FWIW, she was laughing and crying (happy tears, I think) on the phone. I'm pretty sure she was pleasantly surprised and not just extremely sleep deprived
now, to start planning the shower

Awwww that is SOOOO sweet!!! You are a great friend!

Question:

I am doing a mini give for the DS of a wonderful family. Their DD3 has cancer is undering a treatment that will keep her and her mom at the hospital for 9-12 months. Their DS is starting school and he misses his mom and sister so much. I know his having a little difficultly with so much attention on the sister and is feeling very left out. So I decided to send him so stuff to let him know that he is still very special. He is truely a wonderful , caring boy.I have run out of ideas on what to send him. So far I have crayon rolls and coloring books. Any ideas on what else? They already had their make a wish trip. Thanks

Awww how sad, I can't imagine how hard that must be for the whole family. To have such a sick little one and then another one back at home missing you. That has to break a mom's heart. I am so happy that they got to go on a Make a Wish trip. Maybe some other things you could send would be some new movies for the little guy....might take his mind off things at least for a little while. Or maybe some gift certificates to Dairy Queen or McDonalds or something like that. This is really nice of you to do this for them.

This just made me cry. I am so sorry they treated you that way and shame on them for treating your children differently. You have risked so much to love those children knowing you could have lost them and now that they are forever yours they should have thrown you a party. These kind of things just tick me off. Families are the most important thing in the world you gave these children the most wonderful thing in the world by giving them a home. I just don't understand why people have to be so mean. . .

Awww thank you so much for your kind words. I don't understand how people can be so mean either. All I know is that I have two wonderful children and I will treasure and cherish them every single day!!! I am very blessed!!!

That is so incredibly sweet and thoughtful of you. It will mean the world to them that you treat this event like the wonderful celebration it is, whether or not the children stay forever in their home.

One item I might suggest is a "handprint" frame that they can put each child's hand in, no matter how old they are now. It's one of the things you "miss out" on when you don't have them from day one. Since this is their "day one" they can now have their own (and it may be an even more precious item for them if the twins leave).

I applaud you on the way you are thinking about all this and handling it. I wish I had people like you in my family. The totality of what was done for our adoption of the boys? An ecard. Yep, that's it. One person sent an ecard. We got much more love, support, and celebration from the people online than from anyone in our "real" life. We didn't expect a party, heck, or even presents- but a handwritten card or something would have been nice as a keepsake for the boys, y'know? (of course, I've also been told things like simply because of their biofamily my boys are destined to grow up and murder us in our sleep-SERIOUSLY!-, that they aren't "really" ours, etc).

Oy vey.

Oh Marah....I am soooooo very sorry. I know exactly what you mean. That is just awful of them to say that about your boys. It just blows my mind how insensitive and cruel people can be, even family members!!

We are just a great big family! (Although I wouldn't mind not being related to certain adult family members now and then. )

Sorry I just had to laugh here, because sometimes I feel the very same way!!!

Hmm- I know it is horrible that everyone has these problems, but it makes me feel better to know I am not the only one! My DS3 is not adopted, however we have a "split" family- To make a long story short, my DBF has been in my DS life since he was born, he is not his "dad" to him, but his "Chaddy" and DBF's family does not treat DS at all like the bios! In fact, most of DBF's family have never even met DS! DBF's mom and sister treat us both more like "friends of the family"- It's horrible! Talk about feeling out of place! And let's not mention the fact that I was DBF's dad's caregiver while he died from cancer this year, and was beside his bed every single hour of every day with DS playing in the next room! I will never understand ppl I swear!

OK, sorry just needed to step on the podium, lol!

Awww I am so sorry they do not treat your DS right, that is just awful. I just don't get people. You obviously treated his Dad lile your own and took care of him when he was dying, yet these other relatives treat yopur son poorly. Ugg, I am so sorry!!!

 

[WDWAtLast]

After reading off and on for 2 days, I am finally on page 146 - hopefully I will catch up soon - I can't bear to miss any of the awesome creations!! I am ready to try out the Vida pattern for the first time, but I am afraid my 8 year old won't wear it (but the 5 year old will!) She refused to wear the patchwork twirl dress at WDW - anyone have any "tween" patterns that she might like?