OT BUT IMPORTANT!
Starting October 27, 2009, Dining reservations are moving to 180 days again! Here's one source, but there are more:
http://www.disneyfoodblog.com/2009/...sney-dining-reservations-180-days-in-advance/
I stumbled on this in my insomnia and thought I'd post it here in case you are like me, and other than a few trip reports really only visit the Disbou thread!
I've decided theres no such this as "off topic" here- thats why I love it on this thread, and unless I'm planning a trip, I rarely venture onto the rest of the boards...LOL, I forget they are there! Thank you for this! I just need to count backwards from May 16th and figure out when 180 days is.
I have some fabric to cut and then I will be taking your package of corduroy and patterns to the PO- the patterns were given to me by someone else who had a boy (he is in his 40s now and lives down the street from me) so they are all older patterns, but stuff like jeans and vests are universal and timeless right? Feel free to pass on or throw out whatever you dont want.
First CONGRATULATIONS to your friends on their new twins!!! I have been thru the legal foster/adopt process twice now. We never knew whether we would get to keep our babies. For our son, it took 19 months of pure terror and fear that we might not get to keep him. (His case and the situation is also beyond description and very sad). We loved him from the moment we held him the very first time. Our hearts melted and he was OURS no matter how long he stayed in our home physically. He was our son and we rejoyced to that.
However, that was not the case with all our family and our friends. In the beginning, they all said things like well he is not "really" your son. Which really made me angry, as you might imagine! Our son never got a baby shower, he never even got a baby card from any of these relatives. It was not like I was expecting a ton of gifts but a card from his grandparents even, might have been nice. I have to admit that even after we finally were able to adopt him, NONE of my relatives or my husbands relatives sent a single card welcoming him to family. I hope I don't sound like an awful person here, but it really hurt my feelings, it still does actually when I think about it. They treat my children differently than they treat the bio children in our family and that IS JUST WRONG AND MEAN to me. I refuse to submit my beautiful, loving children to any of that! My babies are gifts from God and I will treasure them. I could NOT love them anymore than if I had given birth to them. They were meant to be mine and they are perfect.
So I say....if you can, treat your friend as if those babies are hers NOW and FOREVER. Do not wait....because their love for those children is real and they are here now. I know it would have made me feel so wonderful if someone had done something special for my kids when we brought them home.
Wow- I think thats so sad,heartbreaking really. When did you get him and when was it finalized? In the photo he looks like hes about 1 and half??
I thought I was the only one with wierd, insensitive, tactless in laws.
I will never forget 2 conversations shortly after meeting my husband's step mother... I had been dating him for several months and was pretty sure we would get married. Our first conversation she informed me that her side of hte family wouldnt come to his wedding since he wasn't her son (his mother was an alcoholic, who passed away, he didnt really even know his bio Mom) His step Mom had raised him since he was about 4. He tells me she never hugged him growing up, baked cookies or gave him hot soup after playing in the snow (these are the qualities a Mom should have IMO-

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The second conversation, shortly after that she told me if we were to adopt they wouldnt be her grandchildren and adoptive children are "really" your children anyway.
Nice, huh? Funny thing is he LOVES to hug and play with his girls, he plays with them so much it borders on him not being an adult. (like nap time, feeding them lunch, or appropriate meals, etc, I would think its like living with a favorite Uncle)
Okay, so back to sewing...
Im still trying to decide on what to buy for fabric. I need opinions....
First, here is the pattern.
This is a photo of the kit, showing the gown with fabrics the designer chose.
and here is one made by someone else who used similar fabrics
Should I do it with fabrics like what is above? (I could even buy the kit) or with what I mentioned before- Silk dupioni and organza.
Here is the silk I would use..
I am still waiting to talk to a shop owner who may be able to help me and I noticed when I was there she has embroidery machines in her shop- so maaaaaybe, just maybe she could help me do it on her machine. I would just have to buy the design.
Otherwise, I dont own an embroidery machine so couldnt do most of what's embroidered on the dress, it's possible I could pick some stitches on my machine that might work- but Im not certain they would.
They said she will be in the shop tomorrow.
thank you to the ladies who have bought fabric, it's helping me get closer!