Sparkie
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I wanted to add a comment here too.
I gave up on being on Strike- I am on a Leave of Absence
I told my teenagers that I will no longer be washing their clothes or picking them up and so on. I said I didnt care if they went to school in dirty clothes or naked. Well- they decided they like clean clothes- and guess what- they can run a washer.
I remember one time when my son was little- about 7 or so- he was refusing to get up and get dressed for school- so I told him that the bus came at 7am and whatever he had on at that time was what he was going to school in-
Well, 7am came, and he went to the bus stop in his PJ's- never had a problem after that. I'm a member of the "mean mama club"- or so my children will tell you. And we live in the land of "thats not fair".
I am not the best mother and no where near perfect but I have learned that kids can do more than we give them credit for- and if you require things of them and give them an opportunityto learn you will be suprised at the independence they gain.
I gave up on being on Strike- I am on a Leave of Absence

I told my teenagers that I will no longer be washing their clothes or picking them up and so on. I said I didnt care if they went to school in dirty clothes or naked. Well- they decided they like clean clothes- and guess what- they can run a washer.
I remember one time when my son was little- about 7 or so- he was refusing to get up and get dressed for school- so I told him that the bus came at 7am and whatever he had on at that time was what he was going to school in-
Well, 7am came, and he went to the bus stop in his PJ's- never had a problem after that. I'm a member of the "mean mama club"- or so my children will tell you. And we live in the land of "thats not fair".
I am not the best mother and no where near perfect but I have learned that kids can do more than we give them credit for- and if you require things of them and give them an opportunityto learn you will be suprised at the independence they gain.