I just did 6 real pushups, not modified! You guys inspire me. I did 6 more modified (on my knees, not my toes) after that.
Danielle....Thank goodness your mom doesn't have to stay there too long. Is she in a rehab facility? Or is it a nursing home? Will she be able to go home and live independantly after the 2-4 weeks or will she need in home care? Anyway...prayers continuing for you all.
She is in a nursing home, but she is mostly there because they do PT. She has a live-in care-giver when she is home, because she has been paralyzed on her left side for 10 years, since her first stroke at age 69. One of the reasons I can't give up on my quest for health is because I don't want the same heartache for myself and my loved ones that we have all experienced because of my mom's health problems. There are so many things I admire about my mom, but when it comes to health, I look to my MIL. She is 74, and the only time she has spent in the hospital in the 26 years I've known her is when she fell and broke her pelvis in her aerobics class. She is not naturally thin, but makes the decision everyday to watch what she eats and to get up and move. She is such a great role model!
Speaking of which (minor rant ahead), I hate that in magazines, or TV shows like the Biggest Loser, that they post weights and weight losses without height! Height makes a HUGE difference in what you look like at different weights.
I also hate when they just plain lie about the weight. Every 4th of July my friend buys the tabloid with the fat or fit pictures of celebs (OK I know it's trashy, but it's our summer tradition). One picture said how fat Drew Barrymore was (and she wasn't), then it said she was 5' 5" and weighed 123 lbs. That would be somewhere around size 2 or 4, and I know she's not that small. Then it had a picture of Queen Latifah, and it said she was something like 5' 8" and 173 lbs. Now I think we all know she's somewhere north of 200, and I personally feel that she is beautiful, but why lie about the weight? I'm afraid someone else who really is that height and weight will think, "Gosh, I don't feel that big, but I must be." I guess that's what I get for thinking I would find truth in the tabloids.
Whenever I'm with him, I just want to sit with him forever. Darn't. I just don't want to get hurt (which I'm afraid will happen because that is always what ends up happening to me). Although he has done nothing yet to hurt me. We shall see.
That is the risk we all take when we enter a relationship. That's why it takes years to build real trust and intimacy. When you say that hurt is what always happens to you, just remember, that's what has happened to most people on their journey to happiness. We kiss a few frogs before we find a prince. So just think of the past as some lessons in what you don't want, and allow this friendship to blossom into what it will be. I have always told DH that I never regret all the carp I went through before I met him, because that is what formed me into the woman I am, the woman he loves and who truly loves and appreciates him.
OK, it's already Sunday where most of you are, so there's your first sermon of the day. Have a blessed day. (I'm gonna do one more set of pushups).