mommaU4
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Oct 8, 2005
I sometimes wonder if I am ready too. I say it all the time. "I gotta lose weight." At night I'll be so disgusted with myself for over eating that day and so determined that tomorrow will be the day it all changes. Well, nothing ever does. I've even thought about that surgery, but I am a big chicken. I couldn't go through with it.MUFFYCAT said:First, Trish, I so happy to hear about your recovery-amazing!
All of you ladies have wonderful stories, Id like to congradulate you all for joining the challenge.
As you all know one has to ready to step up and lose weight.
Unfortunely for me, it hasn't hit me to do it.
So when I meet you all you'll see a person who is about 40 pounds oerweight.
Who knows? Maybe when I hear about the success you all will have,
that might push me!
For me, food is my drug of choice. It is addicting. I would almost rather be an alcoholic. That may raise a few eyebrows but I don't care. You don't have to drink. You don't have to walk into a bar. I have to eat to live. I have to grocery shop and prepare food for a family of 6. It's like being an alcoholic and working in a bar. It's nuts. No one who was trying to quit drinking would do that to themselves. It's like torture. But as a food addict I still have to surround myself with it.
And some might say well, just don't buy junk. It doesn't matter. I can and will binge on anything. Over-eating is over-eating no matter what it's on. It's all a compulsive behaviour. I went to OA meetings when I lived in CA and they helped for awhile. But the urge to binge was stronger than their support and I was embarrassed to go knowing I was still bingeing. So I stopped going. I wish there was one around here but there's not and I don't have a car anyways so to get there would be almost impossible.
That's why I am so happy with this. I think we can all support each other. So far it seems everyone has been brutally honest with their problems and challenges and that's the first step.
So I guess I'm just trying to say that if you want to do this we will all be there for you. Heck, if someone needs more support than here online I will give you my home number and you can call me whenever. I have no problem doing that. We ca do this one step at a time.