Of the places we've tried, we like the following:
MK - CRT, Crystal Palace, Liberty Tree Tavern
MK Resort Area - California Grill (Contemporary) Chef Mickey's (breakfast only, Contemporary), Kona Cafe (Poly), Ohana (Poly), Whispering Canyon Cafe (Wilderness Lodge)
EPCOT - Garden Grill, Coral Reef, Le Cellier, San Angel
DHS - Sci-Fi, Mama Melrose's
AK - We like the character breakfast here, but we did it back it when it was still at Restaurantasauras, so I can't comment on its current location
AK Resort - Boma (at the Animal Kingdom Lodge)
For counter service, we like Columbia Harbor House (MK), Sunshine Seasons (EPCOT), Cantina De San Angel (EPCOT), the France Counter (EPCOT), Toy Story Pizza Planet (DHS), Flame Tree (AK), & Earl of Sandwich (DTD)
Does your DD like the princesses? If so, I'd plan for at least 1 princess meal (maybe even 2!

); I'd probably do either CRT and 1900 Park Fare or Akershus and 1900 Park Fare. I'd also want at least 1 character meal w/ Mickey. What I like about Chef Mickey's over the character meal at Tusker House is all 5 of the main characters are at Chef Mickey's - Mickey, Minnie, Donald, Goofy, & Pluto.
Depending on where you're staying and what parks you're planning for what days, I'd probably try for the following:
Arrival Night - Dinner at CRT (either pay OOP or use 2 TS credits) or, if you didn't want to use 2 TS credits or pay OOP, Whispering Canyon Cafe (table-service) or 'Ohana (table-service) or 1900 Park Fare (table-service) - something special for your 1st night!
MK Day - Lunch at Crystal Palace (table-service), Dinner at Columbia Harbor House (counter-service)
EPCOT Day - Lunch at Sunshine Seasons (table-service), Dinner at either Garden Grill (table-service) or Coral Reef (table-service) or Akershus (table-service) or 1900 Park Fare (table-service, Grand Floridian) - if I weren't doing CRT & my DD liked princesses, I would choose Akershus for breakfast, lunch or dinner on my EPCOT day & then do counter-service for the other meals.
DHS - Lunch at Toy Story Pizza Planet (counter-service), Dinner at Mama Melrose's (Fantasmic Dinner Package)
AK Day - Breakfast at Tusker House (OOP), Lunch at Flame Tree (counter-service) & Dinner at either Boma (table-service) or Earl of Sandwich (counter-service at DTD)
MK Day #2 - Lunch at MK Counter, Dinner at Whispering Canyon Cafe (table-service) or 'Ohana (table-service) or 1900 Park Fare (table-service) - depending on what you chose for your 1st night, but also something special for your last night!
Departure Day - Breakfast at Chef Mickey's (OOP)
Have fun planning & choosing!!! I love planning out our Disney meals!!