I have had cats that are declawed and not declawed. As a previous poster said, sometimes, it is better that a cat be declawed but be in a loving home than not be declawed and taken to a shelter.
With my family's experience, the laser declaw was the way to go. See if your vet offers this. I would only consider a laser declaw if I have to do this again. Our cat (kitten at the time) that had this done was up and about after a night at the hospital as if nothing had happened, even though we did our best to keep her from jumping and running. Didn't matter, she was not going to be slowed down.
I believe some cats are fine with their claws, and can be trained not to destroy furniture and our skin. However, some cats can't. This cat of ours in particular was a shelter cat that was found starving and ill, and reacted to every kindness by scratching viciously.
Give it food, it scratched your hand. Pet it, it scratched you (though she wanted to be petted!). Clean the litter box, she scratched you. Sliced a 4 inch gash into my daughter's chest as she slept one night because she rolled over while the cat slept and scared the cat (we assume).
However, we were not going to abandon this little girl, and we knew she had a good home with us, she just didn't know how to act without lashing out first. It was to the point where no one wanted to be around her, yet she wanted to be loved and craved our touch, she just didn't know what to do with it. I couldn't see staying away from her the rest of her life because we were all afraid of being scratched.
We declawed her front claws, and she has been so much easier to love now. She still has her back claws, and still can give a good scratch, but she has been here 7 years and is the picture of a healthy, happy cat. Maybe declawing isn't the answer for every cat, but for this one cat, it was better than heading back to the shelter where no one would give her a chance to be loved. Here, she is loved and protected. I do not regret doing a laser declaw for this cat. It is not something I would do with every cat, but for her, it was the best choice.