
Know what you're going through and all I can offer is let your DH enjoy his "retirement" for now. I got made redundant two years ago after 16 years in a senior position in Public Relations with a large bank. I was fully prepared for it (most of my marketing colleagues had been made redundant two years before me), I even chose my own redundancy date and was able to have summer off with my DD for the first time ever

I was so worried about not finding something else, but I'm one of those people for whom redundancy gave me the opportunity to sit back and decide what was important for me . . . that was easy, my family.
I'm now a part-time school secretary, my "career" is on hold for a few years and I love every minute of it. Of course the financial side was a bit of a shock, but we had a cracking trip to Florida and then St Lucia on my hard-earned redundancy, new car and more treats. Savings were bumped up considerably and now I have a happy work/life balance.
I am a born worrier - worry for the world, me. My DH has been made redundant four times in the last 10 years, each time it's been for the better because his positions have just gotten even better. He is an account manager in retail (a very hit and miss industry), so we're never too sure what's around the corner.
If you want to find work, it'll find you is my motto.
Just let him enjoy some time off, get used to the change because that's a long time working for the same company, even after 16 years I'd become institutionalised for **** bank

Now I just check their share prices and snicker when I see them being slated in the papers, just feeling glad it's not me any more having to defend them
Good luck to your family, relax and enjoy your DH getting tea ready for you
