With all due respect, you are only speaking of 3 or rows on any given plane that you cannot sit in with small children...and secondly, most airlines reserve exit rows for frequent flyers so you often cannot get them even if you want them. While it would be nice to be notified about every change and "read the original reservation", understand that this is a massive airline with a massive schedule, and computers are making these changes. If you have special needs, as do many other customers, you should speak with special services at the airline...just understand the other problems or restrictions you may inheirt with such a request. by adrock1976
Well four rows is quite a bit of the plane that is off limits if it is a plane with 14 rows like our flight is. They do not let you book the first row, then we can't sit in the emergency row or the row in front or in back so that is 4 rows out of 14 gone leaving us 10 rows. Then we have the problem of the carseat that has to go in the middle seat or the window.....so, that limits us again. DS needs a aisle for his wheelchair . You don't need to remind me that we are a family that needs some special attention and yes, I know there are others who need it to. Yup this is a problem especially when DELTA never told us by mail, email or phone that our flights have been changed and we need to re-confirm the seats....again...and again...and again...We are not the first to get to pick seats. If we were notified I could get seats quicker than me checking the flights on my own once a week or twice a week and finding out yet again we are on an unconfirmed list adn then trying to get seats again that will work for my family. We are on one flight right now and my 3 year old is sitting alone. And yes on the last leg of the trip we are in the emergency row....we are not frequent flyers. I was told to keep the seats and when we get to the airport they will be changed.
We have dealt with the special services people and we are "in the system" but being "in the system" does not get them to contact you. I know I am asking for special treatment but I think they should let you know you need to re-book and confirm seats and flights. I have dealt with Speical Services every time we book. Special Services really can't do anything SPECIAL for us. "We are in the system". This is why we make our reservations so far in advance so that we can plan flights with a nice padding of time before we have to get our connection, we try to fly flights that are not full, we try to fly flights that use a jetway adn we try to fly first thing in the morning and not late at night so the kids are happy We also book flights so our seats are TOGETHER. This is the problem..
I know that we are a family that has some special problems but we try to minimize them and I really think the airline should help. Maybe if they contacted people "in the system" there would not be such a problem for me. I would gladly change circumstances with a single travelor who is traveling alone and has to pick another seat.
Being told that I might "inherit some restrictions" is not the issue and it is not fair. It is called discrimination and there are laws about it. What restrictions should I expect to inherit for having a child in a wheelchair? I didnt put the restrictions on the seat the airline did. How about having him sit alone? Umm the person sitting with him might not like that. I also think the person sitting with my 3 year old may have a problem that I am sitting 7 rows behind her. Guess what, they both have tickets and paid the same price as everyone else on the plane.
The big issue is they are no letting us know that we are losing the seats we have so carefully requested and booked. I know computers make the changes. Guess what, when my order at JC penney is back ordered the computer emails me and tells me it is backordered. It also gives me a chance to cancel etc. When my flight is changed...NOTHING......the airline could do that others do. Many other airlines do it. I would think that maybe there is a way you can flag people who have special circumstances....seeing eye dog, wheelchair, infants etc and they could be sent and email letting them know they need to re-book their special seating requests. That is the real problem I have...

That is my Delta problem.....my Delta sob story.