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Ooo yay for DIY! Post some pics when you have them finished! Very cute idea with the jewellery boxes for your ladies.

We are having Rev. Jack for our wedding as well, and this far he has been amazing! He sends you everything you need, and is very quick to get back to any questions you may have. He is such a nice man, I am really excited to have him officiating our ceremony. Good choice!:goodvibes
 

I love your DIY projects! I agree with you that people should be considerate of the bride on her wedding day. They shouldn't have to compromise who they are for you, but coming to you before to let you know, or waiting until after the wedding, or promising to cover it up - something to let them know that they are not doing this to get you upset (because as your friend, they should know that something like this would upset you). I am not a tattoo person, but I don't think that they look nice in pictures - half the time you cannot tell what they are from the distance of the picture so it just looks like a patch of colour. Most people I know cover up tattoos even for their own wedding for this purpose. But try not to stress about it too much, you can't change the person, and I'm sure if you ask, they will be respectful and cover them up for you. If not, there is always photoshop!
 
Love your DIY projects and the idea of a welcome party at Bongos. Kind of wish we were doing something like that. We have SBP, Jack Day and Randy too. Randy had some kind of deal with us too. It was for our engagement shoot in Dec and think it was a slow time.
 
:sad2:...ok, so, a few months ago, DF and I made the decision to get married at Disney, and as I had previously mentioned, he is paying for 80% of the wedding. That being said, my MOH offered to design out invitations. Which was soooo nice! She's totally into designing, does beautiful work, etc. So, needless to say its been like months and, nothing. When I ask her questions about the invitations, she gets defensive and says that she has alot going on...:sad2:....and to make it more stressed, we're now 5 months away, no invititations and DF asks me every couple of days, "whats going on with the invites?"...:confused:...and it looks bad when I dont know.

I feel sad to say, I kinda wish I had just went with a company and gotten it done. I recently sent out a newsletter (I promise to post pix of it later!) with all of the necessary info, because we were getting a lot of questions, and it was a hit. But, it lets me know, that people are begining to make plans and I want to make sure that they have all the needed info.

I know she has her own life and she's got a lot on her plate, but I have to get these out to the guests, like, asap.

So what do you think I should do? I cant say, "Im gonna do the invites with a company" because then I look mean, etc.

But, the deal is, we're leaving for the PS next week, we'll be back home by mid June and we want to mail the invites out by the end of June. The reason being is, we need an idea of who's coming for budgeting, you all get it.

:sad2:
 
For destination weddings you would normally send out invites about 3 months out. You still have some time to decide if you want to change your mind. Could you give yur friend a deadline, like say the time you get back from your PS for them to be done? If they're not finished you'll go with a company.
 
Wow lots of updates since I was last here!

I love the hair style. They are all similar with little differences, but they all look really pretty. Are you having a hair trial (sorry I can't remember!)? If so, you could try out this style without bangs - I am sure the stylist will have some great ideas.

Your music choices are great, and will sound beautiful on the violin! I find music to be one of the hardest things to sort out.

I am sorry to hear about your invite troubles. I agree with the previous poster though, you can kindly let her know that you have a set date, and if they aren't ready you will have to go with a company. And just tell her that you understand that she has a lot going on, so you will not be crushed if she cannot make them for you. That way you won't come off as being mean.

One last thing, enjoy your trip!!
 
I just caught up! I love everything...As far as the tattoo bit...hopefully, they aren't on opposite foot and arm...just have Randy position that side away from the camera...So, for example-if it is on her left shoulder-you won't see it in the pics b/c her shoulder will be away from the camera. See what I'm saying???
I'm sorry your MOH isn't getting invites done. I hate it when people offer something up but don't follow thru...frustrating! :headache:

Can't wait to read more!
 














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