I had the exact same argument with my aunt and cousins about hair. I always either wear my hair straight and down or in a ponytail. Never have I had my hair done in an updo. It would see so weird for me. My mom told me to do what I wanted and not what everyone else wants.
So at my trial I had a picture of what I liked and that's exactly what I got, my hair down, wavy and that makes me so much more comfortable than having an updo with my neck and chest all naked. That's weird for me.