We got stuck with second seating too becasue we didn't book until June. Emily usually goes to bed at 8pm so I don't know what we are going to do. I love to go to dinner and we are cruising with my parents and my in-laws. We will have to see how it goes.
Before we were blessed with Emily, we always had second seating and I loved it. We never had to worry about getting back to the ship in time for dinner while at port.
Maura,
According to some postings on the DIS cruise threads,
DCL just started the photopass on the ships. I think it was either this week or next. So, they should have all the kinks worked out by the time we cruise!
In Nassau, they stamp your passports in the building right next to the tall yellow building at the port, I think they are connected. You don't have to walk far, you can see it from the ship. This will be the first time we are having our passports stamped.