Ok, so I didn't have time to elaborate (and boy can I go on and on!

) but now I can better explain DR's Baby Steps. Buckle up and keep your hands inside the ride.
First, try to cut back spending, apply any holiday cash gifts or use the upcoming stimulus to get a mini emergency fund started. DR recommends $1000 which I agree with as a good start so you can move onto debt paydown before you have a chance to give up. Will this cover everything that might happen? No, of course not. It will however cover the many of things that come up that might temp you to charge to your credit card. Unexpected vet visit, flat tire that can't be repaired, kitchen faucet leaks and can't be repaired, cavity needs filling. You get the gist of it. It is not for when you've had a long week at work and don't feel like cooking, you're craving pizza and have a severe case of the fuggits. You can still have a pizza, just budget for it and know that the more times you treat yourself to take out, the longer it will take to paydown debt.
Keep this $1000 somewhat easy to reach, but not too easy. I still have it in the savings account that is linked to our checking account at our local bank. No ATM is attached to the savings account but if needed, I could transfer it. You know yourself well enough to know how hard you need to make it for you to not tap into it willy nilly.
Then list all of your debts from smallest to largest. List the balance and minimum payment for each and start with the smallest. For us it was our Sears bill that was $250 with a $25 min payment. Whatever it is, attack the crap out of it with all your might
while paying the minimum payments on all others. That part is important so that all your bills stay current and none are overdue. This first little bill will be relatively easy to conquer. Once it's paid off, you celebrate with a Woo Hoo!, pat yourself on the back and move on to the next. Take the min payment you were paying on debt #1 (in my case the $25 to Sears) and instead of me paying Sears that week, I paid it toward debt #2, our
Amazon card. This min payment was $75/month. Usually, for me to keep close track of it all, I had to make mulitple payments per month to the bill I was attacking so that the weekly list of bills for each paycheck was still the same, I just substitute the new names. Where it used to list Sears, (2nd paycheck of the month) I delete and enter Amazon and pay that week PLUS the other week I would have normally paid the Amazon bill. If you can manage to do this in one monthly payment that's great but for me each paycheck had a list of bills attached and I had to stick with that list. Attacking a bill, for me, very often meant making payments each week in varying amounts based on what bill it used to pay. I hope this part makes sense. For this reason, it is much easier to snowball if you pay bills online.
When bill # 2 is done, celebrate, and move on to #3, attack it with all you can. You attack #3 with minimum payments from bills #1, #2 & #3. Now this bill is bigger than the first two but you're paying much more than the minimum by this point, so it doesn't FEEL that big.
You keep going and each time you pay off a bill, your min monthly payments being applied to that one bill you're attacking keeps increasing like a snowball rolling down a hill. By the time I got to my last credit card, our snowball was like $1500 per month which was all money that was once going to bills, but no longer existed. Such a great feeling. By the time you get to your last bill, it's is a biggie, like climbing a mountain, your snowballs are huge and each month is taking big chomps out of it, so it's relatively not so hard to climb. For us that last one was dh's truck loan which we paid off a year early by being able to put all of the snowball on it each month, in addition to its regular monthly payment. The truck payment was like $500/month so when that was gone our snowball was up to $2000/month. At one point, it was all going toward different bills and now we get to keep it. Really, I wish I started doing this years sooner. Before that we were lucky to have
anything in savings. I would have never imagined having thousands in savings. Ever.
So you stop and think, maybe I should choose the highest interest debt first? Well, you can but if it's a biggie and you're taking tiny nibbles off of it early on, you don't see much progress and give up easily. As DR says, if we were really wanting to do the math, we wouldn't have gotten into debt in the first place. We wouldn't have been spending money we don't have. So keep in mind the snowball method, like debt accumulation, is around 90% psychological, 10% math. Attacking the little one first gets you a quick win, you see SOMETHING with a $0 balance and it's a huge motivator and confidence-builder. Huuuuge. I would often log in just to look at it display $0. Snap a pic and send it to dh, with a "Look Baby, we did it! Yay!"
Speaking of spouses, this whole thing is much easier to accomplish if your spouse/SO is onboard and helping, regardless of "who started it". If you want to end it, it has to be a joint venture. It's really hard if he/she is undermining your progress, closet spending, etc. It's like trying to eat healthy and snack on nuts, apple slices and baby carrots while dh stocks our cabinets & fridge with cookies, chips and Kozy Shack pudding.


If that happens, at some point you have a quiet sit down chat and discuss how DOABLE it now is and how important it is to you. Also knowing that it won't last forever is a great feeling. At some point yes you WILL be able to put all of that snowball into a savings account. Dh and I have done it for years. Then new goals pop up and the snowball attacks again.
If you look at all of it and it's overwhelming, try to just focus on that one bill you're attacking. Also at some point, I had to throttle back on our snowball. I was sending all the payments in such as Sears and Amazon at the appropriate times that I would have been paying those bills but did not have enough to pay all the other bills and still have enough to live on. Then it hit me like a brick. Duh, because we were overspending before! So some components of our snowball just had to be crossed off the list but not actually applied to the next bill and instead just let it go. That was truly frustrating but once I realized why it was happening, it made more sense. The most important part of keeping it successful was not merely having a huge snowball but living within our means and having the snowball as leftover money that could be applied toward debt. One can't have such a huge snowball that it's stealing from what you need to buy food, pay electric, etc.
That is the best part in that the snowball method teaches you to pay it down by living below your means. Once it becomes a habit, it's easy to keep following it. Unlike pulling equity out of our house to pay off bills, where we really didn't learn to live within our means. We never learned our lessson and continued to make the same mistakes again. The quick fix never works.
Good luck and if you have any questions, don't be afraid to speak up.