Listen, we don't (nor ever could) live in a bubble or a vacuum. Things that occur in our daily lives that affect our moods are surely going to be mentioned, even in passing in some aspect of posting and there is no thread, board or otherwise completely devoid of human emotion. If I start a post, "I'm in a bad mood, and my mother in law is getting on my nerves..." I'm pretty sure A) this constitutes wedding banter and B) also is completely off topic.

Regardless of the situation, we all have posted something that has little or nothing to do with wedding planning past, present, or future. I.E., "I like your haircut."
Posts will never be devoid of this, regardless of how many people are infracted, reprimanded, or banned. Granted, a lot of us have gotten to know each other personally, but I suppose the mods are right, this isn't supposed to be a place for socializing, but more for finding more information about a particular topic.
I think I have found a solution:
For anyone feeling alienated our singled out, here is a place where we can go and just talk about whatever the heck we want:
Disbrides (past, present, and future)