babytrees
<font color=blue>I hate when you've been salivatin
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Vicki, Follow your heart with Becky. It will be hard, but bite your lip before you say anything. Let others around her say their piece but you keep mum.
Hal and I were going crazy when Guenna was going with this one guy cause he was such a jerk. We really thought he was being abusive but could not pinpoint anything. It took her brothers to keep harping on him and she finally admitted he was being abusive. It took her friends to really get on her and she finally told him to hit the highway. It was all I could do to be civil when he was around. I really wanted to give him the same kind of abuse he was giving my daughter.
I even went to see his mother and she agreed with me but even she could not convince Guenna. Love is so very blind.
If all else fails, be there when he finally does the one thing that stops her world because she will need you then.
I am always amazed that no matter what "thing" one of us is going through...another DDA'er has been there done that and can give us such wonderful advice.
