You can't always blame the parents. Well in this case you can, but not always. My 7 yr old DD dances like a stripper. Loves to shake her butt, shimmy her hips, enen drop it to the ground. She doesn't watch BET or no rap videos and she's never seen it from me or her dad. Add to that she hates wearing clothes and I see a profitable future ahead of her. At least she can pay her way through college.[/QUOTE]
I'm having a hard time trying to decide if this post is real, or a joke?? If it's a joke, then, I get it and it's kinda funny.

But, if not...
I disagree, you can blame the parents. If I had a daughter, or if I saw my 7 yr. old niece doing that, I would nip it in the bud and explain to her that that behavior is not appropriate. That she has to respect her own body if she expects others to do the same. You have to teach kids the difference b/t right and wrong.
This is coming from someone who had lenient parents and who DID this kind of thing growing up and deeply regrets it b/c it did change the way people viewed/respected/treated me. And that, in turn, affected the way I felt about myself and behaved. It didn't turn out well... thank GOD I made it through those years and grew up!!
I will never understand how people can be so careless when it comes to the character of their children....[/QUOTE]
Well, we try explaining that it's not appropriate but she doesn't really understand why it's not. She thinks it's "fun" because she's dancing, moving, getting into the music. It is partially a joke and partially not. She really does dance this way, at home but not in public. She doesn't see it as disrespectful, or sexy or wrong becasue she has no frame of reference, KWIM? She doesn't really know what sex is, how you do it, or rather the motions that it involves which are so clearly demonstrated in the video. So for now, we let it slide, she doesn't get it but as she gets older, learns a little more about sex and what's appropriate and inappropriate, we'll put a stop to it.
I still have to say that in many situations you can't blame the parents. Even the most well reared children can behave in ways they know they shouldn't. Clearly not this one because they should all be hog tied, covered in honey and made to dance over an anthill.
