The difference is that universal has never encouraged their guests to plan months ahead of time, and i understand this is a new world but they should know their guests expect a level of communication that has simply not been there and with each announcement the restrictions keep coming with not a lot of "magic" involved.
As to lack of theming and lower food quality you clearly have not visited IOA, actually built by imagineers with the same level of detail.
But that's ok cause we all know where you stand on the universal property
Disney should be more forth coming, universal stopped taking reservations when they knew the parks and hotels wouldn't open, and reopened them only when they knew they could
Universal kept constant communication with their guests, actually being able to solve problems
And for the obvious comeback that Disney is a bigger property, that is true but that's by their own design, if you continue to take guests money you should at least provide a clearer path forward