We just returned from WDW and our site visit and are confused as to the timing of the days events, do we take the chance of reserving the Cali grill (napa room)(not being able to see it until January (when we go back next). (Wedding will be may 2014). I don't have any idea what the menu will be like, we are not adventurous eaters. There's so many options and scenarios and its all a little overwhelming. Any suggestions?! Opinions?!