Pretty soon, even this sentiment will fade. I liken it to going skiing. Back when lift tickets were $25, I would go irrespective of the conditions. Now, with lift tickets for a family of three costing $270 or more per day, conditions have to be pretty darn near perfect to get me to bite. It is no longer "good enough" to be out on the mountain. I am not going to spend $270 plus $70 more for ski lodge food to ski on ice, bare patches, or in -10 degree weather. For that amount of money, I want a perfect day, or at least as close as nature will allow.
I am now getting that same feeling about WDW. If a bunch of rides are closed, others are out of commission for long stretches due to breakdowns, there are rides that are limited to "FP+ Only", and my best efforts to score FPs at midnight didn't net us what we wanted, I have to seriously reconsider the cost and time investment. While no trip can ever be perfect, I can certainly narrow my opportunities down to "practically perfect." Is three FP+s for rides I used to walk on to, coupled with no hope of getting a 4th (or 5th, or 9th FP) coupled with 45+ minute SB waits for rides "better than being at home"? Not any more. I can't imagine that I will ever go back at a time when crowds levels are anticipated to be 8, 9 or 10.