Not everyone needs to go, I get that, but if we had a proportion of people going and the volume drops precipitously, we should be asking graduating HS students and their families why.
Eh, as a long-time high school teacher, I don't think you're going to get truthful answers from high school students /their parents. We in high school can only tell you who was admitted to college. Many of those students are living in la-la land ... I know a whole bunch of seniors who have 2.0 GPAs, who skip school regularly and admit they aren't interested in education, but they're going to start at our local community college, then transfer to (insert competitive university here) and become Neurologists or Chemical Engineers or Unicorns.
If you could check on the kids a year out of college you'd get a more realistic picture of who's actually STAYING in college. By then you'd weed out the students who enrolled because it seemed to be the path of least resistance, etc.
We are starting to explore colleges. I want to encourage my ds to look at community colleges. It seems there is a stigma, does anyone know why? Everyone is pushing their kids to 4 year colleges it seems ...
My youngest was a very strong student in high school, and she chose community college (right choice for her). Her more snobby classmates did look at her as if they wanted to say, "But you're .... smart. I wonder if your parents are poor?" No one actually said this, of course, but that's how she interpreted it.
No, "everyone" isn't pushing for 4-year colleges. Our middle-of-the-road kids are all about community college, but the upper level kids (the ones in AP and Honors classes) do look down on those who go to community college.
And I've heard a bunch of students say they want to go to university for non-academic reasons:
- I'm planning to go to a 4-year party.
- I want to get out of my house /my state.
... Now it seems like everybody wants to go out of state ...
In all fairness, I've been teaching seniors for three decades, and kids have ALWAYS wanted to go out of state:
- Some of the more snobby think our state is not good enough for them.
- Many want to move out of their parents' house and be on their own.
- Some are ga-ga over big name schools for silly reasons: they have such a great football team, they have great Greek life, they're near the beach!
Many parents just won't allow this because of cost, and I think they're right. We have an excellent state school system, and it's pretty rare that a student can't get what he or she needs here.
I remember one student (a bit of a snooty girl), who was absolutely going to go out of state because NONE of the schools in our state are good enough! Yeah, UNC-Chapel Hill, NC State, Wake Forest, Duke ... not good enough for her, and she had the grades to get into a school of that level. She ONLY applied to one private out-of-state school. She was admitted, and she sat back to wait for the scholarships to roll in ... they didn't. She got zip, nada, nothing (this is not rare). Her parents were upper-middle-class, so no financial aid either. Her parents sat her down and explained that they simply could not afford it, especially as they had two other daughters to put through school, but it was too late to apply to a more reasonably priced school. She threw a temper tantrum for the ages. She never considered community college, but she suddenly picked up a huge desire to take "a gap year".
I've seen a lot over the years teaching seniors.
There are downsides to CC. Not all credits transfer, if you transfer to a 4 year college transfers aren’t usually eligible for FA ...
It's true that not all credits transfer. My husband started in community college, and he had only two options for university (because only two universities in our state offered Engineering at that point ... we're talking about the 80s). The one he really wanted said, "Nope, we will accept none of your community college credits". The other said, "We will accept 90% of your community college credits." It wasn't even a real choice.
When my youngest was in community college, she had already chosen her future university, and we were able to CAREFULLY choose community college classes based upon information on the university website ... but not every student understands that this will be an issue, and not every student knows where he or she intends to land after the Associate degree. They tend to just think 2 years + 2 years = graduation, when the reality is a whole lot more complicated.
Transfer students are absolutely eligible for financial aid!
... As someone who was a nurse ... From what I hear, even a 4 year degree isn't enough. It's a Masters now ...
My oldest is a nurse (finished college in 2016, so she's not all that far into her career). She went straight to university and has a BSN, but she says her co-workers at the hospital and later at the Urgent Care were split about 50-50 between BSNs and community college degrees.
She has now left what she calls "bedside nursing" and is in Nurse Management; that is, with a team of five, she staffs, trains and supervises all the RNs who work in 30-something Urgent Cares ... again, she has a BSN (Bachelor of Science in Nursing).
2) Community college isn't always the money-saver it is made out to be
Sometimes, sometimes not. So many moving parts:
- As I said, our youngest started in community college, and she ended up staying 3 years. She changed her major, so a bunch of classes she took as a freshman suddenly turned into useless electives, and she "found herself" and became comfortable in community college in a way she never was in high school. She finished her degree and stayed /took a bunch of art classes in that last semester. She was happy. Once she hit university, she had grown up a great deal, and she did great (started and finished her major-specific classes in 2 years with a 4.0) ... but she was in colleges 3 + 2 years. Our financial mistake was deducting her college expenses all 3 years of community college ... we should've skipped those deductions one year so we could've deducted both years of university.
- MANY students don't plan their transition from community college to university well ... and, admittedly, none of their advisors help them with this, so if their parents don't "get it", they're likely on their own. If they take a bunch of "wrong" classes, they'll end up staying in college more than 4 years. My daughter's roommate was a perfect example: she entered with a community college degree and (in theory) could've graduated from university in 2 years. She had taken all the classes to graduate from community college, but those classes didn't all match up with the requirements to enter her university major ... so she spent most of her first year qualifying for her major. Then she stayed 2 1/2
more years at university because she didn't plan her class load particularly well. So she did 2 + 3 1/2 years at her two colleges. Poor kid, she didn't have a mother, and her father paid for her school but rarely spoke to her ... but community college didn't save her anything.
- Some students will get lots of financial aid and scholarships, making university essentially free, but they are in the minority. Over the years I've seen scholarships especially dry up.
- And, of course, location of the potential schools makes a difference in your cost. Some students can easily live in their parents' home while attending university, etc.