And thanks to you both! Thing is last night I was teasing her and we were having fun. She and Jeff were laying in our bed and I was hip hop dancing but exaggerated gangster type "yo yo yo homegirl" gesturing all over the place etc. Hamming it up right.

Saying I was going to do this during her hip hop class at her party. she was dying laughing then I said maybe I'll blow up baby pictures of you naked and bring there too. She cracked up. Then I went back to hip hop dancing Ice Cube Style!

She ran out of the room crying!
What had I done. I knew I was BAD. That was the point!
She said she was worried I would ruin her birthday party and make it the worst party ever.

Ummmmm ok. We reminded her that she has had some amazing bashes in her short little life and mom would NEVER do that in front of her friends but I will ALWAYS feel comfortable to do that at home in my OWN house. I told her I was never going to be the mom who was straight laced and never played and joked around and if that is what she wanted then it was too bad because she didnt get it and I was not going to change. Then she started crying that she was sorry and she loved her birthday parties in the past she just didnt want this one to be ruined. I think she was just tired. Dance started this week full fledged and its always tough getting into that rushed routine again.
But man she did not appreciate the FUNK I brought to the room.