I believe I read in the last week on this board that the Banana Boat rides had been cancelled, at least until
DCL can find a new operator. My DS13 went on it in November and had a great time.
Regarding Serenity Bay, I think it really depends on the time of year and the weather. In mid-November, we had a day that was windy and cool. The waves were really choppy, and most of the water activities were cancelled. They did resume Banana Boat rides later in the day, but even sailing was only for very experienced sailors. Serenity Bay, that morning, was cold and the water way too rough to go in. On a nicer, less windy day, it would be great! That morning, not too many people were going in the water at the Family Beach either. I guess I would recommend you try it out and see. Later the same day, the wind died down, the sun came out and it was much nicer all around.
As you guessed, hammocks go very quickly. The one place that there always seems to be a couple available is at the far end of the beach, toward the Bar that's near the Sports and Teen Beaches (can't recall the name).
I personally think the Flying Dutchman makes a nicer photo from a distance, with or without the Magic in the background, but didn't do the wave runners, so I can't really address that. Only one side of it, though, is "finished"; the other is clearly a movie prop.
Hope some of that is helpful.