I don't think there was a mystery person either which is what makes this case even sadder. I think Casey did spend a lot of time with Caylee in those 18 months or so so she did have a chance to bond with her and form a relationship. If she didn't have a relationship with her at all, I could see that she would just kill Caylee because she didn't care at all about her. Instead, from all accounts of past friends and family members,
Casey was actually a pretty decent mother for awhile (not mother of the year but there were certainly much worse parents walking around at that time). Yet, even after that bonding, she was able to not only kill her own daughter but not feel an ounce of remorse.
I've always found that aspect of people fascinating. You have the kids that hurt animals growing up, beat up their siblings, and were bullies in school so when you hear that they killed someone, it isn't much of a stretch.
I have never understood those that appear to be normal, have healthy relationships, brought up in fairly stable homes, and then they kill someone just to simplify their lives when there were so many other options.
Here's the thing (IMO)...I think that Casey was a "show" mom. I've met people like her. The people who play loudly with their children in public (meaning, in front of other people, be it on a video, in front of grandparents and friends, at a park, etc), laughing and joyously...doing the fun stuff. I don't necessarily mean that translates to NOT having fun with the child when no one is around, but I also don' t think that any of it shows how the parent FEELS about the child. Cindy and George were doing, it seems, a lot of the caretaking. Even when Casey may have had to do that bit of "mothering", I don't think she really felt the warmth and unconditional love for Caylee. I think she doesn't truly connect, with anyone.
I've wondered that too about "normal homes" that produce ****ed up people. I don't know.
Were they that normal? Maybe they really were born with certain tendencies, and for a while, their good upbringing carried them through life, when below the surface, there were traits that were lurking that lead to some horrendous outcome. I know...it's confusing, and fascinating. I've asked some of these same questions about some of my relatives.
I agree with all of that. I know that is exactly what most teen moms go through. Thankfully, most don't end up killing their child. Most either put on their big girl panties and handle their responsibilities or they pawn the kid off on their parents. Why, oh why couldn't Casey have just given Caylee to G & C? They would have gladly raised her while Casey partied on. Some teens are in horrible situations where they don't have anyone to turn to and zero help. Casey had such an easy answer but she was too selfish to take it.
See, I don't believe that could have happened for a few reasons. I think that George and Cindy wanted Casey to take responsibility for her daughter. Of course they loved Caylee...as grandparents. George and Cindy are around my age, and I tell you...as a soon-to-be grandmother, I do NOT want to be a parent again! Surely, if I ever foresaw my child MURDERING my grandchild, I'd be taking that child in a second. But my FIRST goal would be to try to facilitate my child's parenting of his/her child.
And, I don't think Casey would let George and Cindy have Caylee. Caylee was the biggest weapon she had against her parents. I would LOVE to know what went on behind closed doors between Cindy, George and Casey. We've gotten some info...Casey lying, George standing up to her and being told by Cindy to step back, Cindy either trying to smooth things over or having confrontations herself with Casey. But the actual play by play? Wow. Must've been something. Even if Casey would EVER consider letting her parents have Caylee, it wasn't going to be at that point, when all hell was brreaking loose with her parents.
You got it!

Casey is an attention ho. What better way to get attention than with a pregnancy and baby! However, I don't think Casey ever thought things through about what happens when your friends no longer find your baby (or your talk about your baby) interesting. Especially when they cannot relate and would rather be partying ...
Apparently, Casey never thinks things through properly ...
Exactly. Supposedly, she wanted to give her up for adoption (did we only hear that from that friend of hers who gave an interview to the Enquirer...the friend who used to go to the pet burials with Casey?), but even if that were true, once Caylee was born and she saw the attention they both got, she was loving it. For a while.
My DD is close to 9 months pregnant.

(Oh my God, I'm so not ready!) She and my other DD got together about a week and half ago, and sent me a picture. With what pregnant DD was wearing, it's very difficult to tell she's even pregnant. A few days before, she and I went to buy the crib...the salesperson asked if she already had the baby. And she was over 8 months pregnant. Where am I going with this you ask?

I think Casey could very well have easily hidden the pregnancy for a very long time. I used to think that a skinny person couldn't, but DD is 5'9+" and normally 120 lbs or so. And I think that Casey enjoyed "showing" at that wedding, for that picture. I think she liked sticking it to her parents. Maybe I'm wrong. But I think that was all part of the sticking it to her parents that eventually contributed to her killing Caylee.
Refresh my memory ... did she discuss Zanny the Nanny prior to going to the apartment complex and seeing Zenaida Gonsalez's info.? Because if she came up with the name Zanny months before seeing this woman's name at the complex well, wow -- talk about a "lucky break" for her! Bought her some time, you know?
Don't know when Zanny the Nanny came into the picture. I'm wondering if "she" was Xanax, and the extended name only came about after Casey saw the name at the apartment complex and said "wha la!" (Cuz Casey wouldn't say "voila!" LOL) and filed it away for future use. Cindy said that Caylee talked about Zanny's dog, but who knows...did Cindy lie? Did Casey spin some story to Caylee? Show her a dog (real or plush) and say "That's Zanny's dog" or some such thing? I think Casey had to, at that point, start making Zanny "real" for Caylee, in some way, because she WAS starting to talk about things. Maybe that was getting harder to pull off.
This may have been covered during the trial and I just forgot about it or missed it but the part in the book about her trying to get into Universal was hilarious. I remember them talking about her walk through Universal and all the hallways but I just don't remember her at the gate.
She gives the guard her name....nope, not in the computer. She gives her bosses name....nope, not in the computer, either. She is relentless though. There must be some mistake, try again, etc. She never gave up! The guard was not in on it so he had no idea what was going on but there was another employee there with the detectives that knew the back-story and he was eventually allowed to use his ID to get her in. She wasn't prepared at that point to admit she didn't work there yet what did she think would happen once they got inside? It really is comical the lengths she went to to keep the lies going. I think she was so used to Cindy accepting every lie from her no matter how ridiculous, that she assumed the detectives would buy it, too.
I hoped to get a lot of reading in this weekend...didn't happen! But I think Casey's "balls" in situations like you stated is what eventually worked to her advantage at the trial. All the lawyers thinking a plea deal would be a good idea, and Casey just sitting there, basically digging her heals in. Oh boy, what a different place we'd be in now if she had accepted that plea deal. *Mare bangs head against the wall* Damn, on the one hand, it gives me a certain amount of pleasure to know that the defense lawyers HAD TO know she was guilty, and the trial was proving it (oh yeah...to everyone but the 12 fools on the jury), but on the other hand, it just burns my ptootie to think that Casey just dug her heels in and WON.