Can you skip the dining?

Thank you so much for the replies.

As I have never been on a cruise before I imagined the dining options would be more akin to eating at Victoria and Albert in the Grand Floridian. After looking at some reviews I can see the food and dining atmosphere aren't as reserved as I had mistakenly thought and I will gladly eat with the family in the dining rooms.

My next 'problem' I foresee is enjoying the 4 day cruise so much that we end up booking a longer cruise each year.

Off to read though the past helpful posts on this forum to increase my knowledge of Disney cruise ships and activities.

Don't be afraid to ask for alterations to items on the menu to make them plainer or more to your liking. The MDR's are really good about this.

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I'm not sure why people Skip the MDRs.

We skip it sometimes, especially on shorter cruises. Through the years dining room food on all cruise lines has taken a step back with the popularity of the "premium" dining rooms. To us, it simply isn't worth the 3 hours it takes (getting dressed, eating, etc) every night. We love the MDR, the staff and how much they do for our family but sometimes we use a night or two and take advantage of short aquaduck lines, empty pools and mini golf course, etc.
 
For the first time I am looking at a Disney cruise. Everything seems great apart from we are not a family who sit down to fine dining in restaurants as my tastes are unrefined. I prefer the basic buffet type as I admit I am not very adventurous food wise.

Is it ok to not visit the main dining places and if so do you have to inform your assigned server?

Thanks for any help as it is information overload when you haven't been on a cruise before.
I wadn't crazy about our main dining room experiences on the Magic (though we love table service at Disney World). Mediocre food at best, slow service...just not my cup of tea. Skipping is fine- you don't have to tell your server. We had pizza on deck on the days we skipped dining- very relaxing.
 
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Also you can wear pretty much whater to the MDR so don't let thay stop you either. The suggestion is a polo and slacks or khaki shorts but you won't be turned away in t-shirts and shorts or anything like that.


Actually DCL does not "suggest" a polo and slacks or khaki shorts. They just say "no swimwear and tank tops". And in fact, seem to suggest tshirts and shorts as proper dining attire on their website:

"In general, most onboard dining locations are "cruise casual,” so casual attire, such as shorts and T-shirts, is permitted, with the exception of swimwear and tank tops"

https://disneycruise.disney.go.com/faq/dining-food-beverages/dining-dress-codes/
 
I am in the same boat as you. I am not a refined eater either. Steak on the grill, baked potato and I am good to go. I don't need a 25 word name for "steak", "chicken" etc. Put a little seasoning on it, seer it, grill it, and get it to me.
 
Simply prepared chicken, pork, fish or beef can be prepared for you and your family.

And they make a good mac&cheese on the kid's menu. Order that, maybe some broccoli...I'm good to go. Especially on Pirate Night, as the vegetarian menu that night is very very bad to our tastebuds.

the main dining rooms are not fine dining.

So true.

They only LOOK refined and fine.

sometimes we use a night or two and take advantage of short aquaduck lines, empty pools and mini golf course, etc.

Good idea. I like it. Should I ever go with DCL again, that's what I'm doing Enchanted Garden night.
 
Actually DCL does not "suggest" a polo and slacks or khaki shorts. They just say "no swimwear and tank tops". And in fact, seem to suggest tshirts and shorts as proper dining attire on their website:

"In general, most onboard dining locations are "cruise casual,” so casual attire, such as shorts and T-shirts, is permitted, with the exception of swimwear and tank tops"

https://disneycruise.disney.go.com/faq/dining-food-beverages/dining-dress-codes/

I didn't say DCL suggests it. It is just what most people will say you should wear. Disney did use to have a stricter MDR dress code. Like I said anything is allowed besides swimwear and tank tops.
 
Thank you so much for the replies.

As I have never been on a cruise before I imagined the dining options would be more akin to eating at Victoria and Albert in the Grand Floridian. After looking at some reviews I can see the food and dining atmosphere aren't as reserved as I had mistakenly thought and I will gladly eat with the family in the dining rooms.

My next 'problem' I foresee is enjoying the 4 day cruise so much that we end up booking a longer cruise each year.

Off to read though the past helpful posts on this forum to increase my knowledge of Disney cruise ships and activities.


Glad to see that you're open to trying it. My husband is a very picky, very boring eater. He always finds something easily, and they're willing to make modifications if necessary. Actually on our first cruise, one night he didn't really see much he wanted, and our server just said, did you like what you had last night? He did, so he got it from the other restaurant's menu. Remember that they're all really still preparing food for all the restaurants in the same place so if you liked something else at another place, they have access to it.

Animator's Palate is definitely worth the experience just because it's unusual and you won't be able to see it anywhere else.
 
there are plenty of other places to eat.... however I would hardly call the restaurants on board "fine dining" or requiring refined tastes.
 
We just did a 4-night cruise on the Dream this past April, and I have to say, I didn't love dining in the dining rooms. We were seated with a family that we just didn't click with so dinner always started out with some awkward small talk for about 2 minutes, until we ran out of stuff to talk about and then we just ended up talking to our own families and pretending that it wasn't awkward.

Also, I wasn't crazy about the food and to be honest, I wasn't super crazy about out main waiter either. He and his helper never seemed to coordinate well and would bring food out at awkward times. DD likes bread or plain rolls with her meal and when we'd ask for them, it seemed to take forever to bring them out and once they brought the rolls that she had requested to the other family. They didn't realize she has asked for them and they proceeded to eat them and we had to ask again. Ugh. Also, the food choices, to me, were sorely lacking. The one thing I actually did like was those Pasta Pursettes appetizer from Animator's Palate, but the portion was SO small, they were gone in about two bites. I've heard people saying that you can always get more portions of the food you like, but it never felt like that was an option for us. Like I said, the waiter always seemed hurried and ran around sweating like crazy.

Finally, on our last night we ordered room service. It was delivered quickly, was just totally regular food and so good. And no, I didn't call our wait staff to ask them if it was okay to not come to the dining room, and no, I don't feel bad about that either.

So, to the OP, don't feel bad about skipping the MDRs. Eat where you want, when you want. I personally wish Cabanas had a buffet for dinner every night. I would go there every night.
 
Not always. If an item on the menu has a definite size (like a lobster tail) you can't get a 1/2 portion. Some things they can make smaller.

And darn it, isn't it always the way? Guess I'll just have to get a full lobster tail :rotfl2:

To the OP: the main dining rooms are not 'stuffy' so don't feel like it's The Love Boat from 1979 and everyone is in a ball gown! Besides not wearing shorts and flip flops, pretty much anything else is ok (well, no bikini's or swim trunks :eek: either). Give is a try, you will probably like it just fine. Maybe it's just me but I'm paying a good deal of $$$ for my cruises, so I'm going to enjoy being waited on!!! (hope that didn't sound elitist, that's not how I meant it)
 
For the first time I am looking at a Disney cruise. Everything seems great apart from we are not a family who sit down to fine dining in restaurants as my tastes are unrefined. I prefer the basic buffet type as I admit I am not very adventurous food wise.

I wouldn't call the dining rooms 'fine dining' as such,but the food can be more 'classy' than normal restaurant food. I totally hear you on the 'not very adventurous food wise' issue. I, and the rest of the family, are not particularly food adventurous and much prefer a very simple, basic meat (no seasoning) and two veg with gravy (UK style!) meal. Our previous cruise we found the menus very challenging to work with, but I can certainly share our experiences with you.

On the first night, we ate very little, but were given the option of the children's menu, which all three adults ordered from! We spoke with our head server after that night as we were in two minds about returning to the dining rooms the rest of the cruise. She did a really good job of helping us out with menu choices. After the first night, we were given the menus for all the dining rooms and could choose from any. We took the soup from another dining room, however, by the time it reached us it was a little cold. Even with the multiple options, the children's menu and the light menu, we were still struggling for a 'decent' meal. So the night before last, our server asked us if we could have any meal, what would it be, and we mentioned cottage pie and spaghetti bolognese. The next night, we went to the dining room as normal and we served four individually constructed cottage pies, and a spaghetti bolognese that was big enough to dish our four great sized helpings - and we were only a party of 3!!!! So they can, and will, go out of their way to help, where they can.

I think the most important thing is to make your server aware of your situation as soon as possible, which will likely mean heading to your dining room long before the first sitting and talk with your server. If they are aware, then they can do something about it. If they don't know, they can't help. Of course, it can be difficult for them to accommodate off-menu items on the first night, but they certainly can after that. There is the light menu, which really helps, and you can always request that any sauces, seasonings, dressings be removed.

We also have an IBS sufferer in our party who reacts badly to changes in food, and certain food types like fats/oils. We had debated about not going to the dining rooms at all this next cruise and just sticking to the pool food in the evenings, but have since thought about it further. So, now, we have made a note on our booking about dietary requirements, and plan to head to the dining rooms soon after boarding to speak directly with our team. I am confident that they will be able to work with us, and us with them, to create a great experience for everyone. We are certainly going to let them try first. I hope that helps a bit.
 
On our last cruise, we were seated next to a couple and their 20 something son. EVERY night, the son's meal consisted of a dozen mozzarella sticks. That was it. There weren't even mozzarella sticks listed on any of the menus. Just making the point that the dining rooms will make every effort to serve you something that appeals to you and your family.
 
o the OP: the main dining rooms are not 'stuffy' so don't feel like it's The Love Boat from 1979 and everyone is in a ball gown! Besides not wearing shorts and flip flops, pretty much anything else is ok (well, no bikini's or swim trunks :eek: either). Give is a try, you will probably like it just fine. Maybe it's just me but I'm paying a good deal of $$$ for my cruises, so I'm going to enjoy being waited on!!! (hope that didn't sound elitist, that's not how I meant it)
Actually Disney explicitly allows shorts in the dining rooms. Flipflops are not explicitly mentioned as allowed, but they are not listed as excluded either. From the DCL FAQs https://disneycruise.disney.go.com/faq/dining-food-beverages/dining-dress-codes/

Dining, Food & Beverages – Frequently Asked Questions

Q.
Are there dress codes or guidelines regarding dressing for dinner?

A.
In general, most onboard dining locations are "cruise casual,” so casual attire, such as shorts and T-shirts, is permitted, with the exception of swimwear and tank tops. Most cruises have special theme nights that provide opportunities to dress up for a one-of-a-kind family photo. Here's a breakdown of special dress events by cruise itinerary:

3-night cruises:

  • One cruise casual night—no swimwear or tank tops
  • One pirate night themed deck party
  • One optional “dress-up night"—jacket for men, dress or pantsuit for women


4-night cruises:

  • First night is cruise casual—no swimwear or tank tops
  • One pirate night themed deck party
  • One optional dress-up night—jacket for men, dress or pantsuit for women
  • Final night is cruise casual—no swimwear or tank tops


7-night cruises:

  • First night is cruise casual—no swimwear or tank tops
  • One pirate night or other themed deck party
  • 3 additional cruise casual nights—no swimwear or tank tops
  • One formal and one semi-formal night—both give you the opportunity to dress up and take advantage of the onboard photography services. Though optional, we recommend dress pants with a jacket or a suit for men, and dress or pantsuit for women


Dress Codes for Palo and Remy, Adults-Only Restaurants for Guests 18 and Older

So that we may provide an enjoyable and refined dining experience for all Guests, please be advised that tank tops, swimsuits, swimsuit cover-ups, shorts, hats, cut-offs, torn clothing, t-shirts with offensive language and/or graphics, flip-flops or tennis shoes are not permitted at Palo or Remy. We thank you for your understanding and your cooperation with the following dress requirements

At Palo: The elegant northern Italian-inspired dining venue aboard all 4 ships.

Dinner and Brunch
  • Men: dress pants or slacks and collared shirt; jacket is optional
  • Women: dress, skirt or pants with a blouse
  • Jeans may be worn if in good condition (no holes)
At Remy: Serving sophisticated French cuisine aboard the Disney Dream and Disney Fantasy.

Dinner
  • Men: dress pants with sports jacket or suit is required; tie is optional
  • Women: cocktail dress, pantsuit or skirt with blouse
Brunch
  • Men: dress pants and a dress shirt; jacket is optional
  • Women: dress or pantsuit
If you prefer more formal attire during the optional dress-up evenings, you're invited to pre-order tailored formalwear rentals and have them delivered directly to your stateroom upon arrival. To learn more, visit Cruiseline Formalwear.
 
I'm not sure why people Skip the MDRs. You can order what you want but it's more about the ambiance, getting to know your gracious and charming servers and just enjoying all the ship has to offer. We have been on 17 Disney cruises. I haven't skipped an MDR once. It is part of the Disney experience.

The only times in 11 cruises we've skipped the MDRs were 2 Palo dinners and one time DH was quarantined.

Beyond that, I've yet to get tired of them.

We really had plans to give Cabanas a try on our recent cruise, but it didn't happen. Maybe one day.

Just a little insight. I really dread the MDR dinners. I don't want to eat the rock-hard bread. The menus mostly aren't interesting to me. My last 19-20 nights on Disney ships I would order a double portion of whatever salad was on the menu + a lighter note steak on the side. I don't care for the desserts, not even the ever-popular soufflés. It's a long time to sit at the table politely pretending to enjoy the dinner service when really I just want to eat what I'm going to eat and move on. That's why I would skip the MDR dinners. I don't want to eat 95% of what's there and don't want to sit there for 1.5 hrs not enjoying myself.
 
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Thank you so much for the replies.

As I have never been on a cruise before I imagined the dining options would be more akin to eating at Victoria and Albert in the Grand Floridian. After looking at some reviews I can see the food and dining atmosphere aren't as reserved as I had mistakenly thought and I will gladly eat with the family in the dining rooms.

My next 'problem' I foresee is enjoying the 4 day cruise so much that we end up booking a longer cruise each year.

Off to read though the past helpful posts on this forum to increase my knowledge of Disney cruise ships and activities.

Yes, this is a real concern! Hide your visa!

I'm sure you will have a great time. I find the cruise staff very accommodating and they will try their best to make you happy with the food.
 

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