Can you be fat and healthy.

Well I am 100 pounds overweight and I don't think it's healthy. My blood pressure, etc. is all fine, but I feel the toll it's taking on my breathing, knees, hips, etc. I think the real question is, how do you deal with the mental issues that keep you obese? I'd love to be 100 pounds thinner, not only for myself but for my DD13, but how do you get there? It's such an insurmountable number. The more I think about it, the more depressing it becomes and the more I eat. I kidded myself that I'd never go over 200 pounds, that that number would be my wake up call. Well at 243, I keep thinking 250 will be my limit, but I doubt it. I'm not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and listening to others complain about fat people and how much room we take up on airplane seats, and walking down the sidewalk, and how horrible it is to look at someone my size sure doesn't help. It also doesn't help to hear I'm the cause for higher medical rates. What about the smokers, alcoholics, Jon & Kate having 8 kids... Sometimes being positive rubs off on others, but if you keep pointing the negative finger at them, they're only too happy to oblige.
 
I'm in nursing school and during my clinical rotations, I care for patients in different hospitals. One thing I have noticed that I would have Never thought of was stitching fat. I am not violating HIPPA laws because I am not listing names, etc. just a situation I have seen many times.

One person was in the hospital for a few weeks when it should have been only a few days. This person had a surgical procedure which was supposedly something simple but because this patient was obese, it was anything but. I think it was a gallbladder surgery where there are a few small openings cut in one general area. Every single one of those small openings became infected.
My friend had to "pack" these wounds, which were about four inches deep straight into fat. The person screamed and yelled, it was so painful, while my friend was removing the packing and then reinserting new packing. I asked why this particular person was having such a hard time and my professor told me, "because fat doesn't stitch well". Fat is fat, not skin, and when fat is stitched, it rips easily. Sounds gross, but it's true. Not a pretty sight to watch or listen to, and I'm sure, a horrible feeling to experience:guilty:
 
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Underweight person here - with health issues.. Being very underweight - or 100 lbs. overweight - is equally dangerous and definitely not "healthy"..

If someone is 100 lb.s overweight right now - and saying that they currently aren't having any health problems - is the equivalent to the attitude of a smoker - who doesn't have health problems "yet".. Eventually they will both catch up with you - in one way or another..

You are exactly right. I love that analogy too. None of us thinks we're really going to die. We're kinda like teenagers with that "live forever" attitude, even when we smoke, drink, drug, or eat ourselves to death. The first 10-20 years may not do anything bad to us, but eventually all those bad habits take their toll on our hearts, blood vessels, kidneys, and even our brains.

Obesity "runs" in my family. My mother is fat, I'm fat, my sisters are fat. My mother's mother was fat, my father's aunts were fat. Personally, I *don't* think it is our destiny. I see all of us eating too much non-nutrional foods, not exercising, not paying attention to what our bodies are telling us. So we get fatter and fatter and it's like we lose sight of how big we really are.

I recently had a "come to Jesus" moment when I truly looked at myself--I was horrified. I have gained over 100 lbs since I got married. Most of the weight gain has been in the last 12 years. I have developed severe sleep apnea, high triglycerides, borderline high blood pressure, foot pain, knee pain. I am at very high risk for heart attack and stroke and diabetes. How did this happen?? Too much food, too little movement.

Now I'm doing Weight Watchers, attending support groups which help me learn not to fill the empty places in my life with food. I walk now and I track every bit of food that goes into my mouth. Just seeing it in black & white has been quite sobering. I celebrate every 10 lbs lost--I'm done 28 lbs, Yay! I still have a looooonnng way to go and I fall off the wagon about 4-6 days a month. But I get back on.

I promise you, anyone who says carrying around an extra 100-lbs or more is fooling only themselves. That extra weight is slowly eroding their health in the most insidious ways. Like putting a frog in warm water and slowly heating it up--before he knows it he's in trouble and there's no turning back.
 
On the one hand, yeah. You can be 100 lbs. overweight and not have any current symptoms of illness or whatever. You can also be an alcoholic and have no current illness.

But you carry that much extra fat around or drink a fifth daily and it will catch up with you eventually.

Hospitals have lots of people in them who thought the smoking, obesity, drinking, etc. would never catch up with them. And they're damn sorry when it does.
 

I come from a line of smart, proud, beautiful women who struggle with this, and I bust my butt ... literally, miles upon miles on the treadmill and lots of salads ... to stay under 150 lbs. Can 100+ lbs overweight be healthy? I think on the right person, likely. But can 100+ lbs overweight be graceful? sexy? magnetic? elegant? comfortable? It's possible but it's a HECK of a lot harder.
 
I think this thread is proof of the discriminatory attitude our country has against the overweight. No one but a person's doctor can decide if they are healthy or not healthy. Yes extra weight is bad for the joints, etc, but there are plenty of "unhealthy" things for thin people too. One of the thinest people I know has super high cholesterol. Another thin person has to take blood pressure medicine.

Personally, I am well over weight. I have some medical issues (knee and hip pains, reactive airway disorder, allergies, and depression). Some of these condition would probably get better if I lost weight, but others of these conditions have a cause effect on weight gain.

Like a previous poster I have GREAT blood pressure, pulse rate, cholesterol, sugar levels, etc. In these ways I am healthy.

medical "issues: isn't "unhealthy"?
I am 40 pounds overweight. It IS unhealthy, even though, currently, my blood pressure, blood sugar levels, etc. are fine.

I'm the cause for higher medical rates. What about the smokers, .

I also smoke, which is also unhealthy. no one here is comparing
obesity to smokers, alcoholics, underweight people, etc. all are unhealthy. It is not discrimination.

we all know that person who did everything right and got sick anyway. my sister: eats right, never smoked. exercises,. she got breast cancer. Me? I am overweight and smoke, exercise little.
does that mean I am healthy? of course not! I should lose weight, exercise, and quit smoking! It's not a contest. we all know it is unhealthy to smoke, overeat, and exercise little.
Just because someone is ok now, doesn't mean they are healthy. they(we) are just lucky, for now.
yes, I am working on losing weight, and hubby and I set a date to quit smoking together.. but of course medical insurance rates are higher for obese people (or smokers. ). just like car insurance rates are higher for higher risk groups (teenagers). knee and hip replacements are expensive.
and to what was mentioned earlier, I'm sorry, but, on an airplane, I paid for a full seat, and I want my full seat. It doesn't discriminate against someone else for me to get what I paid for .
I agree, the social 'image" of a pretty girl is ridiculous. looking anorexic, like the models look. and I hate the way it is so much more acceptable for a man to be overweight than for a woman. and I love the way they have come out with clothes for the "larger" woman, that don't all look like "tents"!
however, it deosn't change the fact that being overweight is not healthy.
 
I'd suggest that the question is not worded correctly and that is what causes the debate here.

The question is can you be fat and healthy? Of course you can. That question suggests we are addressing the present state of a person's health and many posters have illustrated how one can be overweight and healthy at any given time. As stated before, any smoker can be healthy at any given time - probably for years.

The question should be "is it healthy to be overweight?" Is the condition of being overweight good for you? Of course it isn't.

Until you figure out what the real question is, this thread will go back and forth forever with one person saying "well so and so is fat and healthy" and another citing all of the ways it is bad for you. Both sides are correct, but you all aren't talking about the same thing.
 
If you are overweight, you are more likely to develop health problems, such as heart disease, stroke, diabetes, certain types of cancer, gout (joint pain caused by excess uric acid), and gallbladder disease. Being overweight can also cause problems such as sleep apnea (interrupted breathing during sleep) and osteoarthritis (wearing away of the joints). The more overweight you are, the more likely you are to have health problems. Weight loss can help improve the harmful effects of being overweight. However, many overweight people have difficulty reaching their healthy body weight. Studies show that you can improve your health by losing as little as 10 to 20 pounds.

Are You Overweight?

Use the weight-for-height chart below to see if you are overweight. Find your height in the left-hand column and move across the row to find your weight. If your weight falls within the moderate to severe overweight range on the chart, you are more likely to have health problems. Weights above the healthy weight range are less healthy for most people.

What Is Your Waist Measurement?

If you are a woman and your waist measures more than 35 inches, or if you are a man and your waist measures more than 40 inches, you are more likely to develop heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and certain cancers. You may want to talk to your doctor or other health professional about the health risks of your weight.

What Are the Risks to Your Health of Being Overweight?

Heart Disease and Stroke

Heart disease and stroke are the leading causes of death and disability for both men and women in the United States. Overweight people are more likely to have high blood pressure, a major risk factor for heart disease and stroke, than people who are not overweight. Very high blood levels of cholesterol and triglycerides (blood fats) can also lead to heart disease and often are linked to being overweight. Being overweight also contributes to angina (chest pain caused by decreased oxygen to the heart) and sudden death from heart disease or stroke without any signs or symptoms.

The good news is that losing a small amount of weight can reduce your chances of developing heart disease or a stroke. Reducing your weight by 10 percent can decrease your chance of developing heart disease by improving how your heart works, blood pressure, and levels of blood cholesterol and triglycerides.

Diabetes

Noninsulin-dependent diabetes mellitus (type 2 diabetes) is the most common type of diabetes in the United States. Type 2 diabetes reduces your body's ability to control your blood sugar. It is a major cause of early death, heart disease, kidney disease, stroke, and blindness. Overweight people are twice as likely to develop type 2 diabetes as people who are not overweight. You can reduce your risk of developing this type of diabetes by losing weight and by increasing your physical activity.

If you have type 2 diabetes, losing weight and becoming more physically active can help control your blood sugar levels. If you use medicine to control your blood sugar, weight loss and physical activity may make it possible for your doctor to decrease the amount of medication you need.

Cancer

Several types of cancer are associated with being overweight. In women, these include cancer of the uterus, gallbladder, cervix, ovary, breast, and colon. Overweight men are at greater risk for developing cancer of the colon, rectum, and prostate. For some types of cancer, such as colon or breast, it is not clear whether the increased risk is due to the extra weight or to a high-fat and high-calorie diet.

Sleep Apnea

Sleep apnea is a serious condition that is closely associated with being overweight. Sleep apnea can cause a person to stop breathing for short periods during sleep and to snore heavily. Sleep apnea may cause daytime sleepiness and even heart failure. The risk for sleep apnea increases with higher body weights. Weight loss usually improves sleep apnea.

Osteoarthritis

Osteoarthritis is a common joint disorder that most often affects the joints in your knees, hips, and lower back. Extra weight appears to increase the risk of osteoarthritis by placing extra pressure on these joints and wearing away the cartilage (tissue that cushions the joints) that normally protects them. Weight loss can decrease stress on the knees, hips, and lower back and may improve the symptoms of osteoarthritis.

Gout

Gout is a joint disease caused by high levels of uric acid in the blood. Uric acid sometimes forms into solid stone or crystal masses that become deposited in the joints. Gout is more common in overweight people and the risk of developing the disorder increases with higher body weights.

Note: Over the short term, some diets may lead to an attack of gout in people who have high levels of uric acid or who have had gout before. If you have a history of gout, check with your doctor or other health professional before trying to lose weight.

Gallbladder Disease

Gallbladder disease and gallstones are more common if you are overweight. Your risk of disease increases as your weight increases. It is not clear how being overweight may cause gallbladder disease.

Weight loss itself, particularly rapid weight loss or loss of a large amount of weight, can actually increase your chances of developing gallstones. Modest, slow weight loss of about 1 pound a week is less likely to cause gallstones.

How You Can Lower Your Health Risks

If you are overweight, losing as little as 5 to 10 percent of your body weight may improve many of the problems linked to being overweight, such as high blood pressure and diabetes. For example, if you weigh 200 pounds and are considered overweight on the weight-for-height chart, you would need to lose 10 to 20 pounds. Even a small weight loss can improve your health.

Slow and steady weight loss of no more than 1 pound per week is the safest way to lose weight. Very rapid weight loss can cause you to lose muscle rather than fat. It also increases your chances of developing other problems, such as gallstones, gout, and nutrient deficiencies. Making long-term changes in your eating and physical activity habits is the best way to lose weight and keep it off over time.

* Eat Better: Whether you are trying to lose weight or maintain your weight, you should take a look at your eating habits and try to improve them. Try to eat a variety of foods, especially pasta, rice, bread, and other whole-grain foods. You should also eat plenty of fruits and vegetables. These foods will fill you up and are lower in calories than foods full of oils or fats. For more information on healthy eating, see the Nutrition and Your Health: Dietary Guidelines for Americans booklet that is available from the Weight-control Information Network (WIN).


* Increase Physical Activity: Making physical activity a part of your daily life is an important way to help control your weight and lower your risk for health problems. Spend less time in activities that use little energy like watching television and playing video games and more time in physical activities. Try to do at least 30 minutes of physical activity a day on most days of the week. The activity does not have to be done all at once. It can be done in short spurts--10 minutes here, 20 minutes there--as long as it adds up to 30 minutes a day. Simple ways to become more physically active include walking to the store or taking the stairs instead of the elevator.

If you are not overweight but health problems related to being overweight run in your family, it is important that you try to keep your weight steady. If you have family members with weight-related health problems, you are more likely to develop them yourself. If you are not sure of your risk of developing a weight-related health problem, you should talk to your health care provider.

That being said, for me, I'm more of a guy who likes a little bit to hold onto, if you get my drift. Big is sexy, if you know what I'm saying. I mean, I'm the kind of guy who likes sitting at the end of a bar nursing a beer all day, and my best friend has a few extra pounds in the middle, if you get my meaning.

In fact, here he is now! Normy!

Cheers!
 
That being said, for me, I'm more of a guy who likes a little bit to hold onto, if you get my drift. Big is sexy, if you know what I'm saying. I mean, I'm the kind of guy who likes sitting at the end of a bar nursing a beer all day, and my best friend has a few extra pounds in the middle, if you get my meaning.

In fact, here he is now! Normy!

Cheers!
:lmao:
 
No. I do not.

If we are talking about carrying 100 pounds of excess fat tissue. No, I do not believe that this could ever be 'healthy'.

I think that this is wishful thinking and an effort for those who suffer from obesity to try to feel better about it.

I found it interesting that they were comparing obesity to being healthier than things like binge dieting, taking dangerous diet supplements, eating disorders, etc... That is not a fair comparison.

Yes, the fat tissue part is key...

I have a family member who is 100 lbs. overweight. However, this person is very muscular and although a tiny bit "soft" is in great physical shape, works out daily, etc., can run a half marathon no problem! You would never look at this person and think he is 100 lbs. overweight, though. You would guess maybe 30?? So he definitely doesn't have 100 extra FAT pounds!
 
No 100lbs over weight is not healthy. There may not be problems now, but it will most definitely lead to them.
 
I am enjoying this thread.

As a female with almost 90lbs to lose total (down 20 though, woohoo!) I will agree that as of right now, I am healthy. I workout 5 times a week, intense cardio 4 hours a week and strength training one hour a week. I am a vegetarian, and I recently learned to eat healthy (whole grains only, and nothing processed! Real, clean food!). Hence why I am down 20lbs. I know that as healthy as my numbers are now, they will not stay that way forever. You cannot be 100lbs overweight and live to be 90. It doesn't happen. Will I ever be "skinny"...probably not. But I rather be a little overweight and actually exercise regularly and eat well, then to live the way I was, just pretending like everything was ok.
 
If you are overweight, you are more likely to develop health problems, such as heart disease, stroke, diabetes, certain types of cancer, gout (joint pain caused by excess uric acid), and gallbladder disease. Being overweight can also cause problems such as sleep apnea (interrupted breathing during sleep) and osteoarthritis (wearing away of the joints). The more overweight you are, the more likely you are to have health problems. Weight loss can help improve the harmful effects of being overweight. However, many overweight people have difficulty reaching their healthy body weight. Studies show that you can improve your health by losing as little as 10 to 20 pounds.

Are You Overweight?

Use the weight-for-height chart below to see if you are overweight. Find your height in the left-hand column and move across the row to find your weight. If your weight falls within the moderate to severe overweight range on the chart, you are more likely to have health problems. Weights above the healthy weight range are less healthy for most people.

What Is Your Waist Measurement?

If you are a woman and your waist measures more than 35 inches, or if you are a man and your waist measures more than 40 inches, you are more likely to develop heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and certain cancers. You may want to talk to your doctor or other health professional about the health risks of your weight.

What Are the Risks to Your Health of Being Overweight?

Heart Disease and Stroke

Heart disease and stroke are the leading causes of death and disability for both men and women in the United States. Overweight people are more likely to have high blood pressure, a major risk factor for heart disease and stroke, than people who are not overweight. Very high blood levels of cholesterol and triglycerides (blood fats) can also lead to heart disease and often are linked to being overweight. Being overweight also contributes to angina (chest pain caused by decreased oxygen to the heart) and sudden death from heart disease or stroke without any signs or symptoms.

The good news is that losing a small amount of weight can reduce your chances of developing heart disease or a stroke. Reducing your weight by 10 percent can decrease your chance of developing heart disease by improving how your heart works, blood pressure, and levels of blood cholesterol and triglycerides.

Diabetes

Noninsulin-dependent diabetes mellitus (type 2 diabetes) is the most common type of diabetes in the United States. Type 2 diabetes reduces your body's ability to control your blood sugar. It is a major cause of early death, heart disease, kidney disease, stroke, and blindness. Overweight people are twice as likely to develop type 2 diabetes as people who are not overweight. You can reduce your risk of developing this type of diabetes by losing weight and by increasing your physical activity.

If you have type 2 diabetes, losing weight and becoming more physically active can help control your blood sugar levels. If you use medicine to control your blood sugar, weight loss and physical activity may make it possible for your doctor to decrease the amount of medication you need.

Cancer

Several types of cancer are associated with being overweight. In women, these include cancer of the uterus, gallbladder, cervix, ovary, breast, and colon. Overweight men are at greater risk for developing cancer of the colon, rectum, and prostate. For some types of cancer, such as colon or breast, it is not clear whether the increased risk is due to the extra weight or to a high-fat and high-calorie diet.

Sleep Apnea

Sleep apnea is a serious condition that is closely associated with being overweight. Sleep apnea can cause a person to stop breathing for short periods during sleep and to snore heavily. Sleep apnea may cause daytime sleepiness and even heart failure. The risk for sleep apnea increases with higher body weights. Weight loss usually improves sleep apnea.

Osteoarthritis

Osteoarthritis is a common joint disorder that most often affects the joints in your knees, hips, and lower back. Extra weight appears to increase the risk of osteoarthritis by placing extra pressure on these joints and wearing away the cartilage (tissue that cushions the joints) that normally protects them. Weight loss can decrease stress on the knees, hips, and lower back and may improve the symptoms of osteoarthritis.

Gout

Gout is a joint disease caused by high levels of uric acid in the blood. Uric acid sometimes forms into solid stone or crystal masses that become deposited in the joints. Gout is more common in overweight people and the risk of developing the disorder increases with higher body weights.

Note: Over the short term, some diets may lead to an attack of gout in people who have high levels of uric acid or who have had gout before. If you have a history of gout, check with your doctor or other health professional before trying to lose weight.

Gallbladder Disease

Gallbladder disease and gallstones are more common if you are overweight. Your risk of disease increases as your weight increases. It is not clear how being overweight may cause gallbladder disease.

Weight loss itself, particularly rapid weight loss or loss of a large amount of weight, can actually increase your chances of developing gallstones. Modest, slow weight loss of about 1 pound a week is less likely to cause gallstones.

How You Can Lower Your Health Risks

If you are overweight, losing as little as 5 to 10 percent of your body weight may improve many of the problems linked to being overweight, such as high blood pressure and diabetes. For example, if you weigh 200 pounds and are considered overweight on the weight-for-height chart, you would need to lose 10 to 20 pounds. Even a small weight loss can improve your health.

Slow and steady weight loss of no more than 1 pound per week is the safest way to lose weight. Very rapid weight loss can cause you to lose muscle rather than fat. It also increases your chances of developing other problems, such as gallstones, gout, and nutrient deficiencies. Making long-term changes in your eating and physical activity habits is the best way to lose weight and keep it off over time.

* Eat Better: Whether you are trying to lose weight or maintain your weight, you should take a look at your eating habits and try to improve them. Try to eat a variety of foods, especially pasta, rice, bread, and other whole-grain foods. You should also eat plenty of fruits and vegetables. These foods will fill you up and are lower in calories than foods full of oils or fats. For more information on healthy eating, see the Nutrition and Your Health: Dietary Guidelines for Americans booklet that is available from the Weight-control Information Network (WIN).


* Increase Physical Activity: Making physical activity a part of your daily life is an important way to help control your weight and lower your risk for health problems. Spend less time in activities that use little energy like watching television and playing video games and more time in physical activities. Try to do at least 30 minutes of physical activity a day on most days of the week. The activity does not have to be done all at once. It can be done in short spurts--10 minutes here, 20 minutes there--as long as it adds up to 30 minutes a day. Simple ways to become more physically active include walking to the store or taking the stairs instead of the elevator.

If you are not overweight but health problems related to being overweight run in your family, it is important that you try to keep your weight steady. If you have family members with weight-related health problems, you are more likely to develop them yourself. If you are not sure of your risk of developing a weight-related health problem, you should talk to your health care provider.

That being said, for me, I'm more of a guy who likes a little bit to hold onto, if you get my drift. Big is sexy, if you know what I'm saying. I mean, I'm the kind of guy who likes sitting at the end of a bar nursing a beer all day, and my best friend has a few extra pounds in the middle, if you get my meaning.

In fact, here he is now! Normy!

Cheers!



Cliffy, I know you mean well and you're trying to help, but this is my point exactly. Just because I'm fat doesn't mean I'm stupid and don't know any of this. Everyone is well intentioned, but it's so much harder to actually change any of these behaviors, even when you know what the outcome will most likely be. You think I like knowing I'll probably drop dead of a heart attack before I see my daughter get married or see my grandchildren born? Don't you think that would have a greater impact on my decision to get healthy than strangers on a Disney board telling me what I'm doing wrong? I just don't see how repeating the same old statistics and facts is meant to encourage anyone to make a change. Maybe I'm preaching to the choir. Maybe I'm angry at the world because I'm angry with myself the most. One day you look around and think "How the heck did I let it get this far?" I'm sorry, I don't mean to vent at anyone in particular, but until you've been in my size 22 jeans, you have no idea what it's like on a daily basis. You don't know what it's like to have people laugh at you, or make comments like you're deaf and won't hear them. How people flinch when you move toward them because you might actually sit next to them, like fat is contagious or something.

Maybe I'm sharing too much, but I think people need to realize there are real people behind the fat faces. Maybe, even if just a little, you could feel like I do some days, you might be a little more compassionate. BTW, as I stated before, in my case it is my fault I'm like this. It's not a disease or a sickness that has caused me to be this way. I do need to take a stand and do something and, higher power willing, it will happen before it's too late.
 
Cliffy, I know you mean well and you're trying to help, but this is my point exactly. Just because I'm fat doesn't mean I'm stupid and don't know any of this. Everyone is well intentioned, but it's so much harder to actually change any of these behaviors, even when you know what the outcome will most likely be. You think I like knowing I'll probably drop dead of a heart attack before I see my daughter get married or see my grandchildren born? Don't you think that would have a greater impact on my decision to get healthy than strangers on a Disney board telling me what I'm doing wrong? I just don't see how repeating the same old statistics and facts is meant to encourage anyone to make a change. Maybe I'm preaching to the choir. Maybe I'm angry at the world because I'm angry with myself the most. One day you look around and think "How the heck did I let it get this far?" I'm sorry, I don't mean to vent at anyone in particular, but until you've been in my size 22 jeans, you have no idea what it's like on a daily basis. You don't know what it's like to have people laugh at you, or make comments like you're deaf and won't hear them. How people flinch when you move toward them because you might actually sit next to them, like fat is contagious or something.

Maybe I'm sharing too much, but I think people need to realize there are real people behind the fat faces. Maybe, even if just a little, you could feel like I do some days, you might be a little more compassionate. BTW, as I stated before, in my case it is my fault I'm like this. It's not a disease or a sickness that has caused me to be this way. I do need to take a stand and do something and, higher power willing, it will happen before it's too late.
What would you say to someone who is a former fatty like myself? Seriously I used to be very overweight and I am not very 'forgiving' when people say that you can be healthy and fat.

In fact because I was fat, I do realize that it is impossible to be very over weight and healthy. You might fool yourself into it, but it isn't true. I only say that because I fooled myself into thinking that i was for many years. Now I feel otherwise.

So no, you cannot be morbidly obese and healthy.
 
What would you say to someone who is a former fatty like myself? Seriously I used to be very overweight and I am not very 'forgiving' when people say that you can be healthy and fat.

In fact because I was fat, I do realize that it is impossible to be very over weight and healthy. You might fool yourself into it, but it isn't true. I only say that because I fooled myself into thinking that i was for many years. Now I feel otherwise.

So no, you cannot be morbidly obese and healthy.
Like I said earlier me and my hubby both are overweight and we are both healthy. Everyone keeps saying you won't be in the future. Can anyone say 100% they will be.
 
Maybe I'm preaching to the choir. Maybe I'm angry at the world because I'm angry with myself the most. One day you look around and think "How the heck did I let it get this far?" I'm sorry, I don't mean to vent at anyone in particular, but until you've been in my size 22 jeans, you have no idea what it's like on a daily basis. You don't know what it's like to have people laugh at you, or make comments like you're deaf and won't hear them. How people flinch when you move toward them because you might actually sit next to them, like fat is contagious or something.

Maybe I'm sharing too much, but I think people need to realize there are real people behind the fat faces. Maybe, even if just a little, you could feel like I do some days, you might be a little more compassionate. BTW, as I stated before, in my case it is my fault I'm like this. It's not a disease or a sickness that has caused me to be this way. I do need to take a stand and do something and, higher power willing, it will happen before it's too late.

I *do* know what it's like. It's embarrassing and humiliating to hear the comments, to wonder if you're going to fit into an airline seat, to not be able to find clothes that look decent, for people to assume that ALL your problems in life are due to your weight.

Well, I finally recognized that losing weight isn't the whole answer to my prayers. Sure, I can lose 100+ lbs and be healthier. But I'll still be that little girl who was abused and neglected. I'll still be looking for love in all the wrong places(like the fridge.) When I reach 135 lbs I'm still going to have all the emotional issues that I've always had.

That's why I entered therapy as well as Weight Watchers. I go to the WW meetings, rather than do the online program, because I need to face-to-face accountability. I also need the encouragement I find there. I'm working through the underlying issues with my therapist. Actually, weight rarely comes up, but a whole lot of other pain has and since I've been able to face it safely, I've been less inclined to turn to food to fill my hollow places.
 
Like I said earlier me and my hubby both are overweight and we are both healthy. Everyone keeps saying you won't be in the future. Can anyone say 100% they will be.

Of course no one can say with 100%, but what you can do is maximize your chances of staying healthy, and getting rid of excess weight is a big part of that.

Heck, we all try to minimize risk every day. Besides the fact that it's the law, why do you wear a seat belt in the car? That if there was an accident, you wouldn't be injured as badly. Sure you can still be seriously injured if you are wearing a seatbelt, but odds are, the chances of it happening is a lot less. Same with weight.
 
Isn't 100 lbs overweight considered morbid obesity? The morbid part says it all. You most likely will die from a weight related issue eventually. The strain it puts on the heart alone is enough to kill you. That said, I'm about 15 pounds overweight ( I blame my anti depressants, lol) and I'm no where near healthy. I'm so out of shape for my age, it's crazy. I know people who are overweight are probably cringing with every post they read. I would be sensitive too.
I don't eat right, don't excercise...I could have a heart attack long before anyone else on this board, and I'm only 35. I hope no one is offended by my post, but I honestly cannot say that being 100 lbs overweight can be considered healthy. Same thing with a smoker or a bulemic or heavy drinker etc.
 
DH is overweight - not 100 lbs...maybe 40 lbs...he works out a lot and cardio-wise is in much better shape than me. But when we hike, his knees kill him. So yes, now he's very healthy, but in the long run it would be a lot better on his joints if he lost the weight.
 


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