Yes, your reply was one I had been wondering about (but felt too much time had gone by to reply to yours). I'm glad everything went smoothly for you, and you really did do the tourist bit with no problems - - I bought tickets ahead for everything from the baseball game in Seattle, to the ferry to Angel Island/Alcatraz, to the tour at Mystery Spot, and the one location I neglected (Space Needle) turned out to be so difficult that we almost didn't get to go up.
So, as I asked PP, any tips? Do you do anything at all beyond transportation and hotel? Visualize any "what ifs" at all? I really would like to try it your way someday but it's just my personality (and fear and preference play equal parts, too).
For the specific trips this summer, all we did prior was accommodations and travel to. Part of that is that for 2 out of the 3 destinations, we are pretty familiar with them, so we know that it's possible to do no planning and still be able to see everything we might want to see (and yes, we did new things at those destinations this year, so it's not like we're just visiting old favorites or something).
I do want to say that we do
research where we are going before the trip if it's an unfamiliar destination - in order to try and get that familiarity with the area that we have with places we've been before. That, to us, is different than
planning. Planning, to us, is a daily schedule of what we're going to do, or doing things like buying tickets ahead of time, etc. For example, if I was going to visit Washington D.C. and wanted to visit the White House, I would have done enough research to know that that is something I need to arrange in advance, as it isn't possible to do on the fly anymore. We would not, however, plan which days we would go to which Smithsonian museums, which day(s) we'd tour the monuments, etc. We would know what our options were and what we were interested in, but we would not have each day planned out with where we were going/eating. Those are decisions that would get made day of (maybe night before in the case of where we were heading the next day).
So I guess my tip would be to research where you're going and know what you need to plan and what you don't. I'm not totally anti-planning (I'm a pretty type A person by nature), but we are so scheduled in our day-to-day lives that we don't want to be as scheduled on our vacations. We will schedule what we need to, but try to minimize it as much as we can so that the vacation is truly more of a vacation, and not just an extension of the scheduled-ness we have in our daily lives.
As for visualizing "what-if" situations - TBH, for the trips this summer and our upcoming DLR trip, I can't say I've done that at all. Which is odd for me, as with a type-A personality I am usually a bit prone to that, it just didn't happen this summer. I will also say, I think the internet has also helped this a bit. Say we get rained out or shut out of something for some reason (didn't happen this summer, but hypothetically) - it's easy to hop online and do a search of things to do in the immediate area you're in. That was a bit more difficult back in the days of traveling with
AAA guide books in the back seat
