Today we are going to the mall to get the girls Christmas pictures taken, and then for them to see Santa, and to get their picture taken with him too. I have such a love/hate relationship with this day. I hate it, because of the stress of getting the girls looking all Christmasey and perfect, rushing to the mall, and thinking of the perfect Christmas items to bring from home to put in the picture with the girls (the props at Sears stink). I love it, because the pictures always turn out great, and people love them. One year, Sears used one for their example in the studio - I was very flattered!!!!!
This is Stephanie's first year of sitting on Santa's lap as a "non-believer"

To back peddle a little - Stephanie asked me to give her the truth about the Easter Bunny on Easter Eve

I was honest with her, because now that she has had her first communion, I really want her to focus on the real reason for Easter more than the Easter Bunny. Right after she turned 10 (this year) I told her that I was going to be honest with her with more things, because I feel she is older, and she is mature enough to handle it (I really want an open line of communication between us, and I want her to know that when she asks me a question, I'll answer with honesty (w/ discretion (sp?) of course) ). So the first thing she asked me, about 5 minutes later, was about Santa. So I answered her honestly, and told her that it was Kevin and I. She basically already knew (from friends at school), but just needed it confirmed by me. I told her though, that if she told her sister, that I would be so mad, and then Santa gifts would be over forever. I told her that if she keeps her sister believing, that there's a strong possibility, that she'll still get gifts from Santa when she's driving

I also told her, that telling friends who believe is totally forbidden (her best friend is 8, and is still a strong believer, and her mother would like to understandebly keep it that way). I also told her how much I love the spirit of Santa, and that now she can just have fun with it. She's still acting like she believes in Santa, which makes me happy, that she can still have fun with Christmas

It also makes me happy, because Katie won't get any negative vibes from her, to make her an early non-believer. I don't know if any of you remember me talking about how I have The Polar Express bell (one for each girl), and I've been waiting for the perfect time to give it to each DD. This is the perfect year for Stephanie!!! The bell will be tucked somewhere that she won't see it until all Santa gifts are open, and then there it will be. A symbol on how even though she doesn't believe in the actual person anymore, that the spirit of Santa and Christmas is in her heart, and as long as she hears the bell, it will always remain in her heart
Donna - What a beautiful post
Dan - Always so good to see you

Tell Marie to come join us
Bunchkin - We have so many AG Catalogs around here

As soon as they come in the mail, the girls swipe them, and I don't get a chance to see them

I'll have to check out the website to see if they are offering free shipping - thanks for letting me know!!!!
**That project was alot of money!!!!! Stephanie hasn't had to any real elaborate projects yet, and I"m so glad. Stephanie struggles more and more with school everyday, that a project like that would really stress her out

I'm sure they are in her future, but I hope not in her immediate future
Crissup - It's so sad when you hear of more and more places laying people off
Mac - I'm sure you can use the frozen, just remove the pickle
ID - Thanks for the congrats to Stephanie
**Lasagna!!! That sounds so

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Maybe I'll pick up a frozen one today, and make that for dinner tonight (Gordons makes a good lasagna).
Rose -
Kim - I agree about it being sad about your child not believing in Santa anymore

I'm sad about Stephanie, but I"ll be super sad when Katie doesn't believe anymore

I"m hoping that I have another 5/6 years to play Santa for her (if Stephanie's really smart, she'll do everything to keep her believing, because she'll reep the benefits

). Are you going to still give Kelly presents from Santa now that she doesn't believe? When both my girls don't believe anymore, I'll still do stockings, and a fun gift from Santa. Nothing huge, just a fun, little, something
Well, it's time for me to jump into shower, and then get the girls up, and fed. Both of them are having their up with fake hair today, so I don't have to stress out to much about that (unlike other years when I curled it). I bought Stephanie new fake hair, at a hair supply place, and it wasn't cheap, but it looks great!!! I can hardly wait to put it on her - it'll look like I spent hours on her hair, and I really didn't
Have a good day everyone!!
