Sure. Just like there are rules against certain behaviors in the park (like cutting in lines) and other behaviors are not covered by the rules. Some behaviors are practically un-governable, that does not always mean they are correct or proper.
I watched a pair of teens at WDW last year who thought it was great sport to openly but not loudly insult the people ahead of them in line to each other. The conversation was obviously for the 'benefit' of the person being mocked, and when that person voiced disapproval, they simply replied that they were not talking to her. There was no rule Disney could enforce here, so you might say they were doing nothing wrong?
Boorish people often fall short in their behavior of violating the rules, but that does not make them couth.
I'm not sure what any of this has to do with the debate at hand...But I'll reply anyway...
I mean I don't know, is it really up to Disney to keep someone from mocking someone else? I don't think so... I'm not saying that it's appropriate to mock others I'm simply saying it's not Disney's responsibility to police that behavior IMO. Secondly, how old was this individual? Are we talking teens mocking some adults or teens mocking kids? If we are talking kids then the parents should step in and put a stop to it if it's bothering the kids, however if it was some teens mocking some adults....I'm sorry, but who cares? You're an adult...DO you care what some dumb teenager in a WDW queue is saying and laughing at? I surely don't...
Who said anything about people being couth or sophisticated? That's a completely different argument...If you think because someone decides to dress up for CG it automatically makes them somehow better or superior than the individual that shows up in park attire then I got news for you...A-holes come in all sorts of packaging. For all you know the man in his Ralph Lauren outfit may go home and beat his wife and kids every night, while the man in the park attire is simply trying to provide his family with the best experience possible. Here you are claiming he is boorish because he didn't go all the way back to his off property hotel to change into some outfit you think he should wear to eat at a Disney restaurant? How dare you....You sir or ma'am are the the one who is un-couth.
And yet you, in a suit and tie, distract from the curated elegance of a fine dining establishment far less.
The experience of fine dining is every bit as much elements of visual, aural, and olfactory as it is simply the taste of the food. This is why so much time and effort is put into making them look nice. It is not asking much that guest also put a little bit of time and effort into the same.
But this wasn't the argument. The poster implied that people behave differently in different clothes. I was simply stating that I do not...Nothing more nothing less. A suit or flip flops does not make me who I am or how I choose to behave.
If we were talking about a Waffle House I would agree. Eat at a wafflehouse, dress like a wafflehouse. But if you go to the CG dressed like a wafflehouse, you're being a little disrespectful to the establishment. One can say that as long as they aren't technically breaking the rules and as long as the establishment grins and bears it then their behavior must be beyond reproach. One can say that about a lot of horrible behavior.
Who said anything about dressing like the Waffle House? I'm simply saying that if someone comes to CG from a theme park in their park attire, which CG is a part of said park because The Contemporary is a DRH and even listed a MK Resort, why would you let that bother you? That's it....That's my point. Furthermore, my opinion still stands. Regardless of whether I am eating at Waffle House, McDonalds, or The Sundial in Atlanta, if I am with my family that's what I am paying attention to. I don't care about anyone else's attire, food choices, or anything else that doesn't impede my personal space.
Disney Signature Restaurants would like you to not dress like a slob. CG is asking you to not dress like a slob. A legalese interpretation or a loophole will not turn board shorts and a t-shirt into appropriate dinner wear.
If your rules for what is correct behavior relies only on what will not be punished, you have set an incredibly low bar.
Again I don't think anyone is suggesting it should be ok to dress like a slob. There's a huge distance between park attire and dressing like a slob. I also don't think it's a fear of punishment...It's simply ridiculous to not expect people to patron CG in park attire when the theme park is literally walking distance away, and the hotel is specifically for said theme park....But maybe that's just me.
Because most people understand what dining etiquette is expected of them and are happy to comply, and on the occasion that someone doesn't it is simply easier to put on a smile and find them a table in the corner.
Again, you show how you really feel...
I have been a patron to CG on MANY occasions. Sometimes dressed up, sometimes not. More often than not I am there straight from the parks in a Disney tee of some sort, shorts and tennis shoes. Never once has CG ever implied I was out of dress, never once have they placed me at "a table in the corner". The day they do decide to turn me away for being in park attire then I will decide for myself if the food and view there warrants the extra planning to be able to patron CG.