We've gone back and forth on this. At first we had the late seating (we booked late), but it was perfect since DD always napped around 4p. However, over the last few weeks, she has stopped napping and is just going to bed earlier. In the meantime, we were moved to the earlier dining time and that should work, but I'm afraid that DD will end up napping since we will be so busy during the day. I really want to make sure she gets a decent dinner (veggies, etc) and not just the fast service food on the pool deck and I've learned that Cabanas isn't open every night.
Last year I missed our anniversary dinner in the MDR. DH went to dinner with our family while I stayed in the room with DD. Mickey came to our table and we had a special cake delivered. I hope we make most of the dinners this year