We are actually a very blessed and somewhat sheltered culture for the hardships endured away from our own backyards. Of course we have poverty issues here, but you can't compare the hardships in these countries to our own.
So yeah, in a way, even those kids that could afford to come up...I can really sympathize with them in all their obnoxious yelling glory-I lived it, I know the small things that bring joy to them (and perhaps annoyance for us).
I'm not too sure about that ... here's a brief little story ...
My DH was away on a business trip a couple of weeks ago in Dallas, Texas when he became suddenly ill ... his hotel directed him to the nearest hospital emergency room ... when he arrived, the waiting room that he could see was extremely full ... ok, not unusual, emergency room waiting rooms are usually like that ... when he finally found a seat, he then noticed that there was not only one waiting room that was full but there were at least two more waiting rooms, that he could see, that were exactly the same way ... he estimated that there must have been about 200 people waiting for medical attention ... he started talking to a very nice woman next to him who explained that this particular hospital was a community/county hospital and most, if not all, of the people waiting there had no medical insurance ... she herself had already been waiting for 12 hours to be seen by a doctor/nurse... it took two hours for her to just register her name ... she was expecting to wait for at least another 6 hours before being seen by a doctor ... my DH and his business associate, who was there with him, we're so saddened by what they were seeing and hearing ... the young woman explained that the people there were used to these long waits because without insurance, there was no other way they could get the medical help they needed ... she then suggested to my DH that he go to another emergency room down the road where they took fewer patients without insurance ... my DH and his associate, two big, strong men, left in tears ...
Now I'm not saying that other countries don't have hardships, etc., but please do not downplay the hardships and struggles that are faced by MANY men, woman and children in this country also ... I could go into many more examples of what actually goes on in our "backyards", as I'm sure many of you can, but I would be writing for days ... so with all do respect, and I'm not being sarcastic, but maybe you should get out a little more in your "backyard" here in the US ...
But regardless of hardships, struggles, whatever reason, people should know how to behave and respect others around them always ... period.