Boyfriend/Girlfriend

[SoccerTink]

Some people are really obessed with getting a boy or girlfriend and I personally think it is a little dumb at times. People can act desperate and go out with anybody. I think thats wrong. There are also poeple out there who are playas if you know what I mean(back to back relationships). OSme even hook up just to be popular! I understand that it is because maybe you would want to try new things and meet new people but its not really good if you don't know the person. You and others should keep you options open. BEsides, it's not like your going to be old the next day...get what I mean? I just wanted to write that down for others to read and see how they feeel about it.

 

[SoccerTink]

Sorry thats it is hard to read!! I picked a randum color but its too light

 

[2HOT2touch]

well, I have a bf, but hes my bf because I like him, not because I wanted one. before I had a bf, I used to hook up with people. Not to be popular, but because I wanted to. I'm not gunna lie, this may make me look like a Sl*t but the guys that I kissed before my bf, I didnt know for more than 3 days, one guy the day I met him, we hooked up. And I havent talked to them since. And I didnt do it to be popular, i just did it, sometimes I just do it cuz I'm bored. But thats the kind of person I am, I like to have fun and I am outgoing.

 

[Sparx]

well, I have a bf, but hes my bf because I like him, not because I wanted one. before I had a bf, I used to hook up with people. Not to be popular, but because I wanted to. I'm not gunna lie, this may make me look like a Sl*t but the guys that I kissed before my bf, I didnt know for more than 3 days, one guy the day I met him, we hooked up. And I havent talked to them since. And I didnt do it to be popular, i just did it, sometimes I just do it cuz I'm bored. But thats the kind of person I am, I like to have fun and I am outgoing.

I don't think that makes you look like a slut. I don't do that, but I don't think youre a slut.

I'll casually date, but it takes a lot for me to get into a relationship. Ive got some problems with comitment unless I really really like you.

 

[pugslee]

The couples in my grade I've barely ever seen together. My pal and I think they do it just for bragging rights.

I have yet to be in a relationship, and I'm fine with that. I think out of me and my 3 pals, I'm the only one who's never had a boyfriend.

 

[Loves Disney]

Call me lame, uncool, and weird, but I'm near 18 years old and haven't had one boyfriend, ever. Honestly, I'm not near desperate enough to go out with most any guy at the school I go to. I don't care about being "cool" enough to go out with any of those guys either, heh. If you need a bf to be cool, popular, or normal, then I must be the biggest loser around. Heh, not to say I don't want a bf...I would just rather spend my time with someone who won't fight me for my mascara or with someone who thinks he's a big shot. Arrogance never played well with me, lol.

 

[Nitrogen X Laced]

Call me lame, uncool, and weird, but I'm near 18 years old and haven't had one boyfriend, ever. Honestly, I'm not near desperate enough to go out with most any guy at the school I go to. I don't care about being "cool" enough to go out with any of those guys either, heh. If you need a bf to be cool, popular, or normal, then I must be the biggest loser around. Heh, not to say I don't want a bf...I would just rather spend my time with someone who won't fight me for my mascara or with someone who thinks he's a big shot. Arrogance never played well with me, lol.

I say good for you. Since when does a girl need a boyfriend to survive.

as for me, no I've never had a boyfriend. Yes it would be nice to have one but I'm not gonna go out with just any of the guys that show interest.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

Loves Disney - you are like a role model!! haha

 

[BlueEyes9605]

I haven't had a boyfriend either, and personally I'm fine with it. I'm not gonna go out with someone just to be like "Heh, well i have a boyfriend." I think that's pointless. I have a friend, who has admitted that she would go out with a guy if he asked her out and she was in no way attracted to him just so she could have a boyfriend. I was like WHY?? She claims that she's the only girl in our group of friends who hasn't had a boyfriend, i was like what am i then? Apparently guys like me, but they just never ask me out. I was like um okk.I think when the times right I'll have a boyfriend, but that's just my opinion.

 

[Maleficent909TL]

Thank you! I have found people like me! I am probably the only freshman in my high school who's never gone out with someone, and my friends are constantly trying to hook me up with people I don't like (like now, for instance). I don't have anything against dating, I would just rather date someone that I felt I really had feelings for, that I really believed could go somewhere. I wouldn't date someone just because I wanted to be popular, or because I felt left out because everyone else has had a boyfriend and I haven't. I figure when the right guy comes along, I'll know. But my best friend sees it differently, and that's about the only thing that we disagree about on a regular basis. I'm just not like those other girls who can casually date. I'd rather feel there's something there other than the urge to be popular, to create a name for myself that other's will actually pay attention to. Nope, I'm single and lovin' it. Plus, no guy would date me with my Orlando Bloom obsession!

 

[Babyjustrun]

In grades 5 - 7 I find that dating is only for bragging rights. They hardly talk, hardly hang out and have never got out on a date with each other. It's just to be able to say that they're going to the dance with someone.

However, I most people I know do go out, and spend tons of time together. Their relationship is built on something. Not just words.
I'm only semi-obsessed with finding a boyfriend. This doesn't mean I'll date anyone, it's just I've had feelings for this one guy forever. I mean since grade 1. I'm not joking. And it's just dream I've held onto for so long, and I still feel strongly for him.
A boyfriend would fill in that emotional void that I feel all the time. I can't stand to watch couples dance together, or cuddle. It makes me sad, it makes me long for something I've never had. This combined with the fear of never being loved, makes me semi-obsessed to find a boyfriend.

 

[belle7622]

I think most people want to have a boyfriend just because its the thing to do or to get attention. With me, I just like to stay boyfriendless because of all the restrictions they come with. I'm pretty independent and I don't want them getting in the way. I think if you want one and love him its great but for me I just want to stay the way I am. People obsess way too much over it.

 

[Sparx]

I think most people want to have a boyfriend just because its the thing to do or to get attention. With me, I just like to stay boyfriendless because of all the restrictions they come with. I'm pretty independent and I don't want them getting in the way. I think if you want one and love him its great but for me I just want to stay the way I am. People obsess way too much over it.

I had some problems with this post and I'm not sure what they are.

So basically, all I really want to do in life is have a family. You know, husband, kids, whole nine yards. Being a mother scares the hell out of me, but its a good kind of scared. I'm stubborn enough to make you crazy, and I'm insane anyway. So I'd have to find some guy who could deal with that, but I'm sure I will. I'm not going to say that I don't want to be in a relationship with someone, because all I've ever wanted since I was a little kid was to be married.

Sure I'm going to college, and I'm getting a job, but I have time for a life in there somewhere. And for all the bad that comes with people, there is a whole lot of good with them too.

I don't know if that makes sense or not, but thats basically it.

 

[tinkerbell12]

I had some problems with this post and I'm not sure what they are.

So basically, all I really want to do in life is have a family. You know, husband, kids, whole nine yards. Being a mother scares the hell out of me, but its a good kind of scared. I'm stubborn enough to make you crazy, and I'm insane anyway. So I'd have to find some guy who could deal with that, but I'm sure I will. I'm not going to say that I don't want to be in a relationship with someone, because all I've ever wanted since I was a little kid was to be married.

Sure I'm going to college, and I'm getting a job, but I have time for a life in there somewhere. And for all the bad that comes with people, there is a whole lot of good with them too.

I don't know if that makes sense or not, but thats basically it.

that makes nore sense than anything in thw world right now to me!!!!

 

[Sparx]

that makes nore sense than anything in thw world right now to me!!!!

well I'm glad I'm making sense to someone.

 

[Loves Disney]

I had some problems with this post and I'm not sure what they are.

So basically, all I really want to do in life is have a family. You know, husband, kids, whole nine yards. Being a mother scares the hell out of me, but its a good kind of scared. I'm stubborn enough to make you crazy, and I'm insane anyway. So I'd have to find some guy who could deal with that, but I'm sure I will. I'm not going to say that I don't want to be in a relationship with someone, because all I've ever wanted since I was a little kid was to be married.

Sure I'm going to college, and I'm getting a job, but I have time for a life in there somewhere. And for all the bad that comes with people, there is a whole lot of good with them too.

I don't know if that makes sense or not, but thats basically it.

That is so me. lol. I feel the EXACT same way.

 

[tinkerbell12]

yup, you sure are!!

 

[Babyjustrun]

I love the idea of being married, being with the one you love for the rest of your life. To have someone to whine to, a friend to joke around with, a shoulder to cry on, someone to love most 24 hours of the day, depending on work, etc.

The idea of kids scares me crapless. If the person I truly loved insisted that he wanted kids (like genetic kids) I would do it for him, if he didn't mind adopting, I'd do that too. But I know right now, they're not the first thing I see in the future when I think about it.

 

[Sparx]

I love the idea of being married, being with the one you love for the rest of your life. To have someone to whine to, a friend to joke around with, a shoulder to cry on, someone to love most 24 hours of the day, depending on work, etc.

The idea of kids scares me crapless. If the person I truly loved insisted that he wanted kids (like genetic kids) I would do it for him, if he didn't mind adopting, I'd do that too. But I know right now, they're not the first thing I see in the future when I think about it.

oh god, I totally understand. But then I realized that I do want to have my own children. It just took me awhile to realize that.

 

[Babyjustrun]

The things that scare me about kids:

I've never been good with them EVER.
The other night was my first experience with a baby (looking after) I failed.
Puking (number one problem)
I'm not very empathetic sometimes, or have a hard time showing that I care.
I can hardly be trusted making my own decisions.
The whole childbirth thing just scares me, adoption is just made for me