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Thought about going to the pool but in a crushing moment realized my swimming trunks would be too big lol.


Thought about going to the pool but in a crushing moment realized my swimming trunks would be too big lol.
Not going to find too many swimming trunks this time of year!
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1. Reduce our debt by a lot byQOTD for Thursday---
I am not a big fan of New Year's resolutions. Personally I think it's a recipe for failure. Having said that, do you have any goals for the upcoming year?
You have to be careful. One low calorie day thrown in sometimes will boost some weight loss, but too many puts your body into starvation mode. For me, I've found that mixing the calories up seems to keep my body hopping. Instead of 1200 a day, each and every day, maybe a 1000 cal day or two followed by a 1300 or so day or two. Does this makes sense?This is one of those mornings that my calories don't seem to make any sense! After all that calorie burn yesterday I did not lose anything! I think I might not have eaten enough calories.
I hate Christmas shoes. Sorry. But something that makes me cry that hard, well, my own life has enough of those moments. That being said, I was flipping through the stations and the song came on as I was driving by our TA's house. Just about killed me. The poor son is struggling so bad, as I understand all too well. I think I mentioned that the parents had been missionaries, so he has been brought up as a child of faith. He has absolutely no doubt in his mind that his mom is going to get better, because "No God that loves me would take my Mommy from me". I remember those same feelings, but he's running from such a more innocent place... My heart is just broken for them.After I put michael to bed, I watched the Christmas Shoes, and had a good cleansing cry. OMG, what a tear jerker. I almost woke michael up when I went in to kiss and hug him goodnight after that movie. I feel good today. I am definitely in a better place this year than I was last year, enjoying the memories more.
Well, on to weight loss. 2. I am going to lose these 9 pounds and get into One-derland before the princess. I'm not going to try, I am going to do it.
That was so thoughtful of your parents, and a great gift! I'm sure the liquid diet is getting old. Did they give you any ideas for recipes that could be blended? I can do some research and see if I can come up with any that would be tasty and a bit more filling, without making you want to gag, if you would like. When my grandmother's alzheimers advanced, all her food had to be pureed, and I tell you, I wouldn't feed some of that to her. It made me want to vomit (pureed spaghetti???)He is still weak and a bit shaky, but getting around on his own. He is LOVING the new LazyBoy my parents bought him. What a super early Christmas gift. He is doing great drinking and talking with the jaw wired shut. Not consuming enough calories yet though. I think all of the liquids are getting boring. We are trying to settle into some sort of routine... but between VNA visits, therapy visits, and friend/co-worker visits, things were nuts here yesterday!
Good morning, everyone. I had every intention of multi-quoting and catching up with everyone, but my email inbox has exploded and my secretary is on vacation, so I'll comment quick on a couple things I remember. And those loving touches are free except for the time they take, but it is the time that is more valuable, if that makes sense.As for me, my first week on the new WW plan was a success and I lost 3.6
Unfortunately, Nicole, some of them weren't teasing. Without going into it a lot, most of my friends' husbands do a lot more "housework" and helping than mine, and they know it. Couple that with the things I do for him, and I catch the "you're stuck in the 50's, you'd never catch me doing that" stuff from a few. You've got some great goals there! I wish I could stomach tuna, it would be a cheap lunch! With AK, I was very, very, very sick for months during my pregnancy (lost 20 pounds) and my co-workers were all on a tuna kick. I couldn't even be in the cafeteria when they ate. That's one smell I'll hate forever!We're in the exact same place right now tooThere are a lot meals of hot dogs, grilled cheese sandwiches, and soups around this time of year. I probably would have been one of those friends to give you flack, but it would have been pure teasing on my part
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You are not being Bridezilla! You are totally correct. Now, if you ask them to wash your feet or something... LOL! The way I see it, this will be the single most expensive day of your life (not withstanding the long term effects of the day you have a child, if that's in your future HA!), and you should do what you want. What does DF want?I made an appointment to go see a Disney venue this sunday with DF, mom, and MIL! Im so excited. I hope I can convince my mom about my venue once she sees how great it is. So far the logistics of it isnt convincing her...events can only be held during the week, at night, and its price. Besides my DF, people have said maybe I should consider another venue. But if its my dream location and we're not asking anyone to pay for it, then why should I change it to accomadate others? If I get my dream wedding, it may turn out that many people wont go anyway. Well see.
That just sounds painful! You are such a trooper. Too funny that DH was at the casino!I'm home. Just had lunch. Procedure took just over 1 hour. Had one vein that ran from groin to near ankle done with laser and then lots of tiny injections on others. Really felt nothing worse than drawing blood type of prick. Only problem was that due to nerves my BP was 173/98 when I went in. During procedure was 156-164/87-93. As soon as the Dr. said 'all done' it dropped to 132/84. Gee, I wonder if I have white coat
THanks for sharing that, it shows a lot that numbers on the scale can vary so much, because I weigh considerably more than you, and that number has bothered me. In fact, when I get the "you've lost too much" and my response is usually "how much do you think I weigh?" to the people that I trust to tell me the truth, they guess closer to your weight than mine. But yet, we are both in 8s. I hope that doesn't sound bad, because I don't mean it to. But you made me smile this morning!I tried on 8's and they fit the other day...the fun part is I found some at goodwill for $2.50 that I love because they were a little stained on the cuff and the same day I found an "I survived the TOT" tshirt that is really pretty.![]()
I think goal setting is VITAL. A to-do list for the year, so to speak. The important part to me, in my list making mania, is to make a list of how to accomplish each one of those goals. Then, it becomes a true "working" list, than a "resolution" if that makes sense. When do we move to the new thread? I'll be glad to pull some time (LOL). Just not 30th-Jan. 2. What's the plan for the next challenge? I think Tracey mentioned being weightkeeper?But I do think goals are important because WISHing doesn't always cut it. I started the BL alumni thread. I am hoping to do a coach of the day rotation so if you are interested in coaching a day or two please let me know.![]()
So good that you are recognizing the warning signs. Get on top of that!I haven't been anorexic for a very long time but I can see myself going that way. I really don't want to do it though.
Skim milk, hands down. I LOVE milk, and could drink a half gallon a day. I have to watch not having those calories, but I love it! Did I mention I love milk? I've read a lot that says dairy helps weigh loss!QOTD for Friday, 12/10: What is your favorite dairy product or substitute?
Mini-Challenge: Enjoy your favorite dairy serving and 1 other serving of dairy today.
Glad you made it home safe! True Diser, checking in within an hour of return from a trip! I hate that swamped feeling when you get home!Got home about an hour ago.
I've only found it in Va/NC, so I doubt it! It's addictive, you're better off not to EVER find it!Thanks for the Sun Drop info. I'll have to see if there is any in Florida when I am there in February.
What a cool goal!I have been thinking about goals for next year though. I recently read a book about someone who spent a year working on a very difficult sweater. I am thinking about working on some applique with my quilting.
There is definitely a "snow day" mentality. I suffered from it this week. A lot of "I'm resting" kind of thing, not a lot of motivation. Since it looks like you're gonna have a bunch of it, here's a suggestion for you. Make a list, a looonnngggg listGood morning BL friends!
Back home, when we had the rare snow day or days, it was just a time to stay indoors until it was gone and cook lots of good foods like chilli, brownies, snow cream, hot chocolate, etc. Most everything would be cancelled or shut down. We would watch movies or TV, play cards, lay around, take naps, etc.
You definitely can get too few calories--especially if you are working out a lot. The trick is in realizing that it doesn't take a lot to get you where you need to be. I had trouble with this for a while, but have settled into pretty much eating 5 or 6 times a day. Breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, dinner, snack. The key is that the snacks are small and healthy--no 100 calorie packs. A lot of people will recommend some protein after running because it helps repair muscles.I know you ladies are all pros at this calorie intake stuff, but honestly I don't have much of a clue. My sister is getting her undergrad degree in nutrition and she likes to dole out the advice whenever possible (the know-it-all). So over Thanksgiving I mentioned to her that it seemed that I was following a strict calorie intake throughout the week but not showing any progress in weight loss, but on the weekends when I had thought I wasn't doing too good I seemed to be showing more progress. She told me I probably wasn't getting ENOUGH calories during the week to keep up with my new found metabolism, that I should add a fruit or vegetable as a snack during the day and that I absolutely needed to eat right after running whether I wanted to or not.
Of course I gave her a hard time about not being a doctor and told her to get over herself (what are big sisters for)But I looked into it when we got home, started tracking my calories, and realized that I was missing almost 600 calories a day!
So at her suggestion, I now eat right after running and I have a 3pm banana and it seems to be working!
At least I hope so.
Nicole
Great job on making it to the gym! And I hope the cholesterol numbers come back good!Then I went grocery shopping, bought more Tea at Teavana and WENT TO THE GYM! I finally dragged myself there. I don't know why I hate going there so much but I have to get over it. Especially if this snow keeps piling up. I did day 1 of C25k and did 8 of the 9 runs. Afterwards I spent 15 minutes on the recumbant bike (dr's suggestion for my knee) then made sure I did my stretching for my knee. I was home by noon, and parked on the street since the snow was still falling.
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Great job on the exercise! I have debated taking the scale on vacation, but I think Mike would have a fit! He is incredibly supportive but I know I'd get the "you can't possibly be serious" look! I say if it helps you to not worry about the weight, then go for it!QUOTD:
My keys
1) Exercise - I walk at least an hour every day - sometimes two.
2) I finally "got" how I could cook one meal for the three of us. It took awhile but we have a routine now. If I make pasta, they get the pasta and sauce and I just take the sauce and put it over Romaine lettuce - no pasta for me. The sauce is super healthy and I can have some of it. I also keep healthier snacks around for them and fill out their plates with that - pretzels for example.
3) Weighing every day - still debating whether or not to bring the scale on vacation. Probably will honestly.
The one thing I don't do (and haven't done in months) is journal. I worry about that sometimes.
First, I think soda in baby bottles should be a crime! (Ok, maybe that's extreme, but come on--do people really think that's a good choice???) And I agree with the bolded comment. I am going to be honest here--I have not bought a single gift yet!! My nieces and nephews and sisters are bils are just like us--no one really needs anything! For me, it's just the hassle of trying to buy stuff for people you don't see very often. Uggh. Ok, whine over. That's my goal for today. Try to get some of this shopping done.I told someone the other night that whoever said it was the most wonderful time of the year didn't have to pay for it. I've just tried to take it one day at a time, and lose myself in the magic of my girls' excitement. We've been DVR'ing Christmas movies, and watching one every night. That helps, just snuggling on the couch together!
BRB
I really hope you reach your next decade! We had similar rules for Ds. And I used the phrase--Mom in the room--a lot. One of ds's best friends said to me once--not my Mom. I knew he was messing with me, but I told him I would be happy to call his Mom, if he wanted to repeat what he just said.Our family rule is that you can talk with your buds any way that you want as long as younger kids don't overhear you, you don't talk that way at home and you don't get in trouble. I know it is stressful but you have to admit a good source of comic relief -- I think one of the hardest things about being a parent is not laughing at inappropriate times!
I'm going to work very hard the next seven days and see if I can get myself into that new decade. That would set me up for some good numbers before the Princess.I know what I need to do. It is just a matter of putting my good intentions into action!
Have a great day!
This is one of those mornings that my calories don't seem to make any sense! After all that calorie burn yesterday I did not lose anything! Look on the bright side, I am not gaining weight, I am just doing a great job of maintaining this week!
I think the issue for me is that even when I was overweight, my hair was the one part of me that I always liked. So just not ready for it to be grey yet.I don't know what the big deal is about grey hair anyway-- I like it. People go grey really young anyway.
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Great list Lisa!But I do think goals are important because WISHing doesn't always cut it.
Some of my goals for 2011 are:
1. Get to ONE-derland once and for all.
2. Complete the Princess Half.
3. Build back my bank reserves from the hit they've taken this past year.![]()
Ok, I'm worrying about you a little. I have ana thoughts on occasion, though I've never done it full blown. Anyhow, if you are at a good place weight wise, do you need to put a plan in place to make sure you are getting enough calories?Yeah! They were getting loose on me at 135--I just weighed myself (twice) and I'm 124 as of today, I've lost 4 pounds since Friday.
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Great goals Taryn. I think it's sweet that you wipe off Brad's car. If you want to do it, who cares what anyone else thinks!1. Reduce our debt by a lot by
2. Having a minimum of 4 pampered chefs shows a month
3. Hit the 140's and stay there
4. Not pay for anything on credit
5. Make sure my family gets 12 hugs a day (3 from each member daily will get us there)
6. Have "the talk" with AK
7. Develop an attitude of gratitude
I have been thinking about goals for next year though. I recently read a book about someone who spent a year working on a very difficult sweater. I am thinking about working on some applique with my quilting.
This week started out pure he** so I should have known, but it's a bit concerning. It's all ok now--I've been pulling out the big guns-- Bowie, and have put my p2p sharing site back on my pc.
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I am committed to joining weight watchers after the first of the year. Right now I'm just hanging onto maintaining through the holidays. I am so impressed by those of you that are losing![]()
ok, another slacker coaching day for me.But you all seemed to do ok with out me.
I skimmed and saw some great goals for next year! I will be back in the morning with some very late replies! Hope everyone has a nice evening.
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QOTD for Friday, 12/10: What is your favorite dairy product or substitute?
It can't be Winter forever! OMG, I just realized I don't think it is officially even Winter yetI think for today, I will have to put on some peppy music and make myself a list of tasks to do around the house. I may even venture out to the corner market or drugstore. I have been having fun putting little surprises in the guys' stockings. They are getting such a kick out of it. Yesterday DH got blistex and DS got some Haribo Happy Cola (gummy candy).
I'll be glad to pull some time (LOL). Just not 30th-Jan. 2. What's the plan for the next challenge? I think Tracey mentioned being weightkeeper?
Been introspective this am, thanks to you guys. All that's going on with everyone has made me stop and think what is really important and my thoughts about them.
1. Health - that's why were are here, is for our health. So we need to buckle down, get going, and do what we can. Not for vanity - which I am guilty of - but health. Scale numbers are just numbers, but they can be tied to other numbers (bp, cholesterol, etc) that do mean something. GET HEALTHY!
2. Mental health and attitude - how much of #1. is tied into this one! Lack of sleep, motivation, healthy attitudes about food, diet, OURSELVES. I found that getting my weight down helped my mental health, but I had to get to a mental place to focus on it. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEART, SOUL, AND BRAIN!
3. Memories - how many things are we sharing that are memories from our past, both positive and negative? They are all connected to who we are, our mental and physical health. Do we have a lot of memories about the financial stuff? I don't. Granted, I was never without a NEED growing up, which can be a HUGE factor, and I remember a few WANTS I had that I never got. Honestly, I can't tell you what I got for Christmas most years growing up. The things I do remember are the memories, and that's all that I am left with in one instance. SO GO MAKE SOME!
DH and I have really been wondering if we should cancel our HHI trip. Yes, it would be the financially responsible thing to do. There is not a lot of cost involved since we are staying on DVC points, basically just gas because we are taking food down. (Cereal, soups, sandwiches, etc). The other expense is the NYE parties for the kids. We decided that his aunt sends us money for Christmas, we'll use his for gas down, mine for gas back, and the girls' to pay for their parties. Part of me feels horrible about going, but we wouldn't take the girls' money to pay for bills, and the memories from our trip will get them through a lot. They've been such troopers, especially AK, with this whole thing. They both talk all the time about stuff we did last year there. I know, I know, I'm rationalizing this. I just felt the need to mention it, since I whine about money all the time, yet talk about this trip!
I hope the scale is good to each of you this am. I am proud to be back at maintenance weight, would love to have a good loss next week to get to the 140s, but since TOM is on his way, probably not!
HAVE A WONDERFUL FRIDAY ALL!
Taryn
The new WW program seems to be a success for a lot of people. Some of the folks on our BL list this week are WW people. Any of you folks who are doing it want to share your experiences? I'm toying with the idea, too. I got a little annoyed with WW math last time -- WW products calories not counting as much as other food -- but all the buzz is making me curious to try it myself again.
Kim--thanks so much for sharing this. I really like hearing that I am not the only one who really needs outside support to be successful. Congratulations on reaching 25 pounds. Your list is wonderful! When people ask me how I did it this time I have started saying--you need a support group. And I truly believe that! Thanks again for sharing!I've had my ups and downs with this....literally and have taken the attitude of one step at a time and slow and steady....mostly because there have been many weeks that I didn't lose and maintained even though I was sticking to the plan.
Milestones along the journey have been.....
1. Not having to squeeze into clothes...and being able to wear a smaller size
2. Enjoying food that's good and good for me
3. Loving to go to the gym and really missing it when I don't go
4. feelingwhen I go to the gym...sometimes sore but a good sore
5. fitting into my real wedding and engagement rings...not the fake ones I've been wearing for 9 years
6. realizing that I need outside support to lose weight
7. realizing that I HAVE to keep a food journal because I really have no idea how much I eat during any given day
everyone for listening and sharing your lives on the DIS BL board
......I look forward to continuing my journey with all of you in 2011.
Cheers,
Kim