tiggersbombed2
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What about getting her a friend?
What about getting her a friend?
I have 4 cats, but my two boys are inseparable litter mates and I dread the day when one of them goes before the other.They cry and wail if they can't find each other now.
I had the same - two inseparable litter mates - brothers. And the one left after death would wail every night after he passed. The same sound they used to call each other. And lived in a closet day in and day out. So after six months I was suffering so much with all the pain his/ours/mine- I gave in to get another cat.
It cured the wailing and the closet but -
Really, insane but he rarely leaves him regardless. It's cute. 




You can add my 17+ year-old, Bailey, to the list, too. Except that Bailey has whined that horrible, make-me-want-to-do-ANYTHING-lickity-split cry her entire life! It has a few different tones and accompanying connotations, ranging from "FEED ME NOW!" to "I'm tired and you people won't shut up so I can get my 23 hours of sleep" to "The pan is dirty and I'll poop on your rug if you don't fix this situation."
But, in the past year it's gotten a lot more excessive; whereas in the past the whine would go away when a need was met, now it continues on and on... and there's a new sound - the one we hear most often - that seems to mean "I'd like you to look upon me adoringly and scratch my ears while I purr." I'm also convinced that she's going deaf. Other than that, she gets rave reviews from the vet for good health, so it must be part of the aging process.
I hope the rest of the results are good OP!![]()

I got the results of her bloodwork today and she is in great health. the vet said there is nothing medically wrong with her, aside from the asthma and arthritis with which we are already aware. He said that she might be suffering from senility and there isn't much we can do for her.
So, we've decided to increase her before bedtime playing to tucker her out as much as possible. If she still can't sleep through the night, or let us sleep through the night, then we'll put her in the second bedroom.
I was hoping for some recommendations on behavior modification techniques, but if she is senile, then she can't help it and my DH and I will just have to suck it up and deal with her yowling. Thinking back on all of the wonderful time and love this little kitty has given us, it is the least we can do for her.
For those of you that experienced this same issue in your elderly cats that was NOT medically related, was there anything that lessened the crying? Did your kitty seem to suffer from the dementia and was uncomfortable? I hate to think of our sweet little lady in any discomfort.
My old girl is named Bailey, too.![]()
Glad to hear this!I got the results of her bloodwork today and she is in great health.
Sorry, I'm of no help there; my cat has NEVER responded to behavioral modification. However, we seem to, given that we've been trained to bend over backward to satisfy her every whim!For those of you that experienced this same issue in your elderly cats that was NOT medically related, was there anything that lessened the crying? Did your kitty seem to suffer from the dementia and was uncomfortable? I had to think of our sweet little lady in any discomfort.
Mine has also been a night-owl her entire life, so being up during the night isn't new. I wondered about that - is being awake at night new for your kitty? Mine definitely doesn't show signs of discomfort; the crying is always a signal of wanting something specific and once all of those specifics have been covered, she's satisfied and quiets down.My mother is loud when she doesn't wear her hearing aid; I'm pretty sure that applies to Fergie.
Same here!