I don't mean to be so hard on the OP, but seriously....there are some things we accept as
DVC owners...the first is that views are just requests....not guarantees. The "hassles" in this case (except for the room being dirty) were self-inflicted.
I know that you are both new DVC members, but I wish you could've read a CM's opinion of DVC'ers about a year ago. It was really eye-opening!!! And, while I think the CM probably needed to find a new job, I have witnessed a few "demanding" DVC owners in my short time as an owner, that I have wanted to run to the CM yelling, "I'm so sorry....we are not all like that, I promise!!!"
And, to keep changing rooms at all of our expense because of a view.....well, I hope this behaviour is not wide-spread....my dues are high enough!! Now, if the OP paid for the switches...that would be a different story.
But, storming to the manager about a view is the type of behaviour that makes CM's less willing to work with all DVC members....it makes CM's resent us, and makes all of our vacations "less magical". Behaviour such as this may eventually lead to "no view requests" becoming a policy. If you abuse, you lose.
The OP had three complaints:
1) Room was dirty....TOTALLY justified, but honestly...it happens a LOT at DVC. People leave rooms in SUCH disarray that it is embarassing to me. The morning of our last stay, we clean the room VERY well before we leave. We strip the beds and towels, and place them in one spot by the door, run the dishes, vacuum the floors, and take out the trash. And, then we leave a pretty "hefty" tip for the mousekeeper. Why...because I want them to think DVCer's are WONDERFUL and a joy to deal with. I totally believe what you put out comes back to you, and in this case....others as well.
2) Did not get requested view....okay, well...that is just a request. I understand that the OP was trying to be accomodating by staying in a room w/o the requested view, and switching the next day....but, per DVC policy the resort was being accomodating as well....they were not charging the $25 change fee. Personally, I think the resort was nice being able to allow the OP to switch at all....I'm sure this caused some "shuffling" on their part.
3) No one did anything special for their anniversary. And, the hotel said they would. I don't even think I have to elaborate on this one.
EVERYONE's trip to WDW is special...EVERYONE would like their view requests met. In DVC, sometimes it happens, sometimes it does not. But, causing a scene, or treating a cast member badly is NEVER acceptable. They do not "deliberately" try to sabotage your trip. BCV runs at almost 100% occupancy all the time...is it perfect? No....but, I think they do a really great job, and I am happy to get to be there.
FWIW, we were there in December with a 2nd floor Epcot view room. I had asked for 5th floor Epcot but did not get it. The location and view was WONDERFUL...I'd take it again in a heartbeat.
If expectations are too high....DVC will NEVER make such people happy. I cannot even imagine how upset the OP would've been to have received a smoking or HA room, and yet...it does happen to owners everyday. We are all equal, and deserve equal, not preferential treatment.
The search feature is down, or I would try to find that thread for you to read. If I remember, I will post as soon as the search feature comes up. If you want to try, it was called "Why CM's hate DVC members" or something like that. All members should be encouraged to read this.
Beca