Hi there,
We are going on our 7th
Disney cruise next month and can not wait. We have been very fortunate on 5 of them to have excellent tablemates during dinner - however, we had a very bad experience on our last one with a homophobic tablemate. We are a gay couple in our 40s without kids and Disney always pairs us with other couples without kids. In some magical way, they have usually paired us with other gay couples (I do not know how they do this, or if there is just a higher number of childless couples who are gay on DCL?).
We complained to the maitre'd who said there were no other tables available but we could come back at dinner time to see if there were some no-shows (people who went to Remy) and he could get us a table - he was quite rude to us. He told us to go to guest services who did nothing but direct us back to him. They called and left him a message for him to call us with new table reservations, but he never did. Then when we showed up he said he called us (he never did). He was able to secure a table for us, although it was nearby the other table. We really wanted to eat in the dining room that night and were upset about the change in waiters as we liked our other waiters. We ended up having room service the other nights which was actually enjoyable, but I do like the atmosphere at dinner in the dining rooms. We also left a tip for the new waiters and the old ones as well.
Has anyone else had bad experiences with tablemates? Was there a better way we should have handled this? I want to eat in the dining room and I like having tablemates because I love making new friends, but this last experience burned my husband pretty good - he is more introverted anyway.
Hopefully this next cruise will go better - if not, we haven't tried Cabanas for dinner yet