Back Stabbing Friends!! So upset!!

[life of the party]

Okay, so in the beginning of this school year my best friend Jess, my [old] best friend chrissy, and I were like the bestest best friends in r lil trio lol. then chrissy made fun of me ALOT and embaressed me and i sucked it up so Jess wouldnt get stuck in the middle but.. my boyfriend broke up with me and she made fun of me SOO much for that!! and THAT is where i wouldnt stand it anymore!

so i threw a huge fit and we were in the BIGGEST fight and werent friends for about like 4 months and Jess was in the middle and Chrissy always was with her and i never got to talk to her so i got mad at jess a few times and cried to Jess about it and we would have LOOOOONG talks that seemed poetic (for some reason when i && jess r upset we sound poetic and dramtic when we have loong convos ) and Jess && I were being torn apart not being together && Jess was so upset because she was in the middle of THE biggest fight of the year! so i sucked it up and apologozed to chrissy and we were friends again for about a month.

me && jess started spending sooo much time together again!! and chrissy was a really good friend to and it all seemed to work out until YESTERDAY, (friday) at lunch my life seemed to turn upside down on me!!chrissy decided to be mad at everyone and was mad at JESS!!! because they r best friends to and jess spent ALOT of time with me and chrissy was mad because Jess has not been spending enough time with her and im like HELLO!! YOU DID THAT TO MEE!! and then she said she wasnt mad at me so jess and her were friends again by the end of lunch so i thought it was ok.

but NO i was wrong!! my school was preforming there play that night and Jess was in stage crew so i went. after everyone went to Friendlys and i asked jess what chrissy had said when they were talking and working it out and jess said "i cant tell you.. you'll be really hurt" i got a really bad feeling in my stomach like everything had just changed,, i gave her my signature look my "you better tell me right now!!" look and she said "okay, well, she said 'being friends with katie was a big mistake!! she makes me seem soo mean!! she makes me seem lik a bi**h and i hate her! she is stealing you!' " ONE she is all those things she sed i "made her seem like" and im really hurt.

so.. i really dont want advice.. i wanna feel better lol. i already have a plan for revenge. yes yes i know "revenge solves nothing just causes more problems" but it makes ya feel alot better!! lol. anway.. any other back stabbing friend(s) stories to share out there?

 

[maelstrom troll]

Don't believe anything you hear about the evils of revenge, it's great.

 

[life of the party]

Don't believe anything you hear about the evils of revenge, it's great.

haha yeh i totaly agree... i habe had some great revenge plans... most of them involves guys... oh boy TOTAL walk down evil memories lane. ohh yeh go me!! lol

 

[life of the party]

so.... any stories on back stabbing friends?? haha i have tons!! lol

 

[speedydisteen]

revenge is not a bad thing at all.
Feel better.
BTW i want to know your plan! PM me with it if you want to. I would love to know.

 

[speedydisteen]

P.S. this is what back stabbing friends are like.
except it doesn't end with a smile. but it does after revenge.

 

[coolshannie]

why stoop to that level?

 

[Sparx]

No. I actually have very nice friends whom I trust, and trust me.

thought that was what a real friend was.

 

[coolshannie]

No. I actually have very nice friends whom I trust, and trust me.

thought that was what a real friend was.

I agree, if a 'friend' were to treat me that way, they wouldn't be my friend any longer, nor would I go take out my anger in a 'revenge' act. Im sorry but that is just so childish, you are doing nothing but stooping to their level, and it is pointless. Just walk away, because they are not worth your time or energy.

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

i did.

this one girl all she would do was tell me about how crappy of a friend i was because "i didn't appreciate how she took me out of my funks" (oops almost wrote a different word)

and so then she got all mad at me and so did the rest of my friends. and then she was like your a selfish brat who just wants to become popular and i didn't change when she asked me to. let's rewind. just because i talk to some of the popular kids does NOT make me a wannabe popular person.so then they were all mad at me for a while. and then they all one by one became my friend again and saw how stupid this whole thing one. they tried to convince her that i had changed. but she didn't.

the ironic thing now is that she changed her hair, is wearing preppy clothes, and is trying to act all popular.

hypocritical much?

and i mean yeah it hurt real bad. but she's a big fat b***** who needs to get a life. so yeah. i'm over it. and now i have cool friends. super cool ones.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I agree, if a 'friend' were to treat me that way, they wouldn't be my friend any longer, nor would I go take out my anger in a 'revenge' act. Im sorry but that is just so childish, you are doing nothing but stooping to their level, and it is pointless. Just walk away, because they are not worth your time or energy.

 

[2HOT2touch]

yes, i have many stories and most of them are with the same girl...hmm. anyway the most recent is this.

I am generally a nice person, someone who would rather put my friends before myself. But when it comes to my love life, I would rather put my feelings and my bf's feelings about our relationship before our friend's feelings, because, i dont know maybe it is just me but the only people that really matter in a relationship are the people that are actually IN the relationship. So I srarted talking to this guy last year, I met him through a friend, she wasnt so thrilled about us talking but she seemed to get over it. But like a year later him and I found that we had more feelings for each other and started dating. When our friend found out she was less than happy. We got into a ton of fights, she said alot of mean things about me and the relationship. BUt she never said anything about my bf she would just talk to him and tell him how much of a mistake he is making. luckily my bf loves me and doesn't care what she thinks. but I used to consider her one of my best friends and now she has lost all of my trust and respect that I had for her. She constantly picks fights with me and says stuff about me, not even to my face but online or to other people who then say it to me online, and then of course when I say something back I am a horrible person. So there is just no way that I can win, and I am conserned that my bf is going to get fed up with all the drama and figure that it's just not worth it, and what makes it worse is that we go to differant schools so i dont get to see him that much and then when we are home(we go to boarding schools) we are thousands of miles away from each other, i live in TX he lives in NY. But I do go to the same school as the girl that thinks my life is too good and she needs to ruin it, so i see her every day in classes, at lunch, at study hall and then in the dorm at night. it is so annoying, I just wish people would grow up. because I really dont have time for little high school drama, I am trying to help my family, which I think is alot more important than what she thinks of my relationship. I know I grew up a little faster than most people my age, but that is just because of the life that I was thrown in to, but we are juniors in high school and starting to look at our futures I would think that my peers would at least be starting to become a little more mature. but it's what ever, I just hope she doesn't manipulate all my friends into hating me like she is known to have done before.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

why stoop to that level?

Exactly.

 

[chexie]

i hope everything works out for you i know how your feeling thats going on with me and my two best friends michelle and mandy right now we have it together but all year we've been off and on friends i hope we fix it before our sophmore year is through because i dont know what i'd do without them. .and just some helpful advice with the revenge thing think it through before you do it. .you dont want to have any regrets when you look back on it. .hope thats helps and were all here for you

 

[DisGirlAllie]

why stoop to that level?

has anything like that happen to you? If not then when it does happen this is all you'll think about.

 

[Arielfn93]

I so sorry that you are going through this

I know how backstabbing friends are..
My best friend yoyo93 and I went through one..

She used us it seems so she could get more popular, and we all were super friends..
but it is a long story that has lasted about three years, and now I dont even say hi to her in the hallways because she is too worried about her 'popular' friends.

 

[life of the party]

has anything like that happen to you? If not then when it does happen this is all you'll think about.

hahaha!! so true!! lol

but i know i know "why stoop down to her level" and stuff but... i will admit this (im known for it at school to lol), i am seriously a bi*** and i cant help it!! im VERY nice if your nice to me BUT if you do something bad/backstabbing/boyfriend stealing/minipulating/using ect. i WILL get p****d!!! lol


and thank you alll for your opionions!!

 

[CastawayJ]

my friends, every last one of them have all backstabd me(from my old school)

all of my new friends made me realize that i can now tell who are going to do something like that far in advance becouse of the different personalitys


and by the way. you've got us

 

[life of the party]

my friends, every last one of them have all backstabd me(from my old school)

all of my new friends made me realize that i can now tell who are going to do something like that far in advance becouse of the different personalitys


and by the way. you've got us

hahaha!! well i have to say i LOVE all the lil smilies!! lol



well since u sed to say it far in advance do you guys wanna hear my plan? lol

 

[coolshannie]

hahaha!! so true!! lol

but i know i know "why stoop down to her level" and stuff but... i will admit this (im known for it at school to lol), i am seriously a bi*** and i cant help it!! im VERY nice if your nice to me BUT if you do something bad/backstabbing/boyfriend stealing/minipulating/using ect. i WILL get p****d!!! lol


and thank you alll for your opionions!!

i guess later on in life you will have to learn the hard way that child-like behavior is not the route to take. Do you know what we say at our school when people partake in child like behavior like 'revenge' or other ongoings, we say.. ' Oh they must be some stupid freshmen.' No offense to you, but come on, have some dignity.