I love all of these suggestions. You all seem to pretty much agree that the travel systems are not worth the cost - thank you for that. I was considering some of the travel systems but won't bother now.
When I look online, there seems to be a rather large range of costs for the Graco Snugride. I have some questions on these -
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_n...baby-products&field-keywords=snugride&x=0&y=0
1. does the base come separate from the Snugride?
2. do you recommend one over the other ?
I will go to the stores too and look over the models that are there, but thought I would ask you guys too!
I will also check the convertible car seats. If I can get her something that will last for a considerable amount of time, that would be great.
I also like the Pack N Play suggestion -
Any other ideas or baby info links that you recommend?
I saw a really cute idea on Martha Stewart yesterday where she created burp cloths from cloth diapers - just by sewing some cute ribbon to them.

I am not a great seamstress by any stretch of the imagination, but that much I CAN do....
Regarding the Graco Snugride...there are 3 different versions. The Snugride 22, 30, and 35. The numbers refer to the weight limits of each seat (there are height limits too). In general, the 22 is going to be the least expensive, and the 35 is the most expensive ($150 at Target). But, consider that the baby will be able to use the 35 model for the longest time. Yes, these do separate from the base...which is invaluable with a young baby in my opinion. Who wants to wake up a sleeping baby to take them out of a convertible car seat and carry them in the house? Also, it's nice to have the detachable seat because you can place it in the shopping cart at stores, carry it into a restaurant, etc.
All of the Snugride's have the option to purchase an extra base. That is handy if the baby will be riding in 2 different cars often, because you don't have to install the whole seat each time. The seat simply "snaps" in and out of the already installed base.
I personally don't recommend a convertible car seat for a young baby. The seats are larger than the seats like the Snugride, and young babies tend to flop around a bit. In addition (for various reasons mentioned above), they just aren't that convenient for young babies.
I use cloth diapers for burp cloths. I just use the cheap Gerber birds eye weave diapers...they're about $12 a dozen at
Walmart. I didn't sew ribbons, etc on them, since I'm not at all crafty. Also, by leaving them plain white, I can bleach them if I need to. When I'm finished using them as burp cloths in a year or so, they will make great cleaning cloths.
Other money saving tips....
I intended on breast feeding, but wasn't able to due to a medical reason. Our pediatrician was okay with us using a generic formula, which is about 1/3 of the cost of Enfamil or Similac. We use the Member's Mark powdered formula from Sam's Club, but the Parent's Choice (from Walmart) is made by the same company and is almost as cheap.
I've found that diapers are the cheapest at Sam's Club (Costco is probably similar). When looking at diapers, compare the price per diaper...not for the whole package. All of the different stores have different size packages of diapers. I already had a Sam's Club membership, but it would pay for itself in 2 or 3 months of diaper savings.
Don't fall into the trap of buying Dreft baby laundry detergent. Despite popular belief, it is not more gentle on baby's skin. Just give it a sniff and you'll smell all of the potentially irritating fragrances that are added to it. Most babies will do just fine with the same detergent that the family uses, or you can buy something like All Free & Clear detergent for a fraction of the cost of Dreft. The only baby laundry product that I do like is Totally Toddler spray stain remover. It works so much better at getting out formula stains than normal stain remover does.
Don't buy a huge amount of bottles at first. Some babies are picky and you have to end up trying 5 or 6 different brands of bottles before you find one that they will take. (Don't ask me how I know this, lol.

) Most stores will sell single bottles, so you can try them out before committing to a large multi-pack. In retrospect, I wouldn't have bothered with the small bottles. My daughter isn't quite 6 weeks old yet, and she is already taking 6 oz of formula at a time.