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oh that is miserable. I hope you can get a nap in later.Well, for 4 hours....will be trying for more. I had been up for 30 with no end in sight.
oh that is miserable. I hope you can get a nap in later.Well, for 4 hours....will be trying for more. I had been up for 30 with no end in sight.
oh that is miserable. I hope you can get a nap in later.
Apology accepted-it's water under the bridge anyways.Oops, sorry. Seems wine and insomnia aren't a good combination. My apologies to all, especially Mackenzie Click-Mickelson.
Apology accepted-it's water under the bridge anyways.
It’s 10:45, I just made ds20 put on shorts so he could pick up my shoprite order. 15 minutes ago a pse&g guy rang the doorbell to check the basement for gas leaks, DH had to hide. DH is upstairs in his boxers still. We joke about them needing door pants (and me a door bra...)It's amazing how many pages a discussion can go on. Totally agree with TipsyTraveler and it was many pages back.
I have never really understood people walking around in their underwear. My children were taught early on that they should be dressed outside their bedrooms. Actually, not really taught. When they were babies/toddlers, I dressed them once pajamas were removed. They just naturally picked up that we dress for the day. My DH wears gym shorts around the house and my son did the same. I wouldn't try to impose my views at someone else's home. It would bother me though so I might limit my time there.
It’s 10:45, I just made ds20 put on shorts so he could pick up my shoprite order. 15 minutes ago a pse&g guy rang the doorbell to check the basement for gas leaks, DH had to hide. DH is upstairs in his boxers still. We joke about them needing door pants (and me a door bra...)
I've had several power struggles with my 5 year old daughter about what to wear. While she is a typically developing child, she is stubborn and argumentative. Dinner at grandma's house would probably not be the hill I'd want to die on.He had underwear on so I don't see the big deal and if I was his mom I'd be annoyed that you and your husband tried to parent my child over such a trivial matter. Little kids try to control their world in odd ways this just wouldn't be a hill I'd die on. Now, I would have something to say to my child about his rude response to his uncle.
I don’t think this thread is about clothing at all but about overstepping boundaries.I don't think this thread is really about pants at all. It's about whether you think kids (in this case, kindergarten age kids) should be held to a standard.
Pants are not the be all end all. However, in general pants are an expectation in our society.
What if they’re old enough to be BACK in diapers?
I think this thread is about ongoing tensions with her sister and wanting validation that the sister is a crappy parent.I don't think this thread is really about pants at all. It's about whether you think kids (in this case, kindergarten age kids) should be held to a standard.
Pants are not the be all end all. However, in general pants are an expectation in our society.
I don't think this thread is really about pants at all. It's about whether you think kids (in this case, kindergarten age kids) should be held to a standard.
Pants are not the be all end all. However, in general pants are an expectation in our society.
Exactly. I'm kind of surprised how little is expected from a five year-old. a five year-old is not a baby or a toddler; he is school-aged kid, old enough to know that you wear pants to sit down to eat (unless of course, they are special needs).
Five year old is not necessarily school-aged. According to OP, he has not started kindergarten. Not all that long ago (a little over 30 years ago), a lot of places did not have kindergarten...school started around age 6 at 1st grade. School is not compulsory where I live until 6.
Also, the kid was at his house with his family. For most kids, that is different rules.
I don't think the issue here is just with pants, it sound as if you may not agree with the way DSIL is raising the kids and this was a good chance to point it out. Maybe I am wrong, but I sense there are bigger issues.My reply is DBIL told DNephew to put pants/shorts on." DSIS was a little huffy and said
Like I said, I do make my kids wear pants, but I have to tell you that at our house, eating with your fingers is a MUCH bigger deal to my DH (who tends towards the germaphobe side) than pants (as long as there are underwear).Sure, pick up your green beans with your fingers but pants? Put some freaking pants on at the table.![]()
Like I said, I do make my kids wear pants, but I have to tell you that at our house, eating with your fingers is a MUCH bigger deal to my DH (who tends towards the germaphobe side) than pants (as long as there are underwear).
Often after dinner, we do wonder whether the children threw food on the floor and stomped on it and smeared it on themselves or if they ate. Point being, they are still learning.
Five year old is not necessarily school-aged. According to OP, he has not started kindergarten. Not all that long ago (a little over 30 years ago), a lot of places did not have kindergarten...school started around age 6 at 1st grade. School is not compulsory where I live until 6.