Do you want to minimize the amount of antics you also see? As I mentioned in a previous post, there is quieter area in the very back of the restaurant. There are only a handful of tables, but it's often referred to as the 'quiet area'. You'll be further removed from everything, so you might not even see much of the antics. Regarding asking the server to refrain from the antics, I would think that if you just ask politely at the start of the meal that you aren't really comfortable with the antics, the server would refrain.