Ashley & Mike's SOG Wedding -06/25/09 - We're moving! And Randy pics are up!

[DISNEYMAGIC2005]

OMG ASH - 2 weeks! i cant believe it. im so excited for you! i cant wait til your wedding!!!!

That talk of cake... damn!!! yum!!!

Thanks Stacey! I can't believe it either

I don't want to have any more cake until it's time! I told DF that I think I ate way too much cake, but I was on official business so a girl has got to do what a girl has got to do!

 

[DISNEYMAGIC2005]

Time is flying by so fast! I wanted to post a quick update while I have a sec!

So for some reason I have started crying all of the time for no reason at all or for a really stupid reason. My seamstress said that it is just part of being a bride.... Also like Jenny I have been eating like crazy! I was so happy today during my final fitting because the dress still fits! I was a little worried because my diet hasn't been the best the past couple weeks but I was working luggage while I was @ WDW 2 weeks ago so I think it made everything even out.

My grandfather has decided that he won't be able to make the trip! I was absolutely devestated and I am still kind of upset but I know that if he thought that he was able to make the trip that he would be there. So this leaves the question who is going to walk me down the aisle. I haven't decided exactly what I am going to do. My mom basically raised my on her own but ever since I got engaged my dad has wanted to do everything for me and he was upset when I told him that I didn't want him to walk me down the aisle. But now he has said that he will have his suit ready just in case. Part of me is so frustrated with this that I just want to walk myself down the aisle but I don't think that that is an option.

I finally got my replacement engagement ring! I waited until the very last minute because I thought that I might find my original one but unfourtunately that didn't happen. Also for the first time I was able to try both my e-ring and wedding band on together and they are both sized and they look great together. Wanna see?

My flowers came in the mail and they are absolutely beautiful. I knew that I really like the colors but when I was actually holding them it was completely different. They have a navy and silver ballet tie on the stems and of course they have mickey crystals galore! DF still can't believe that I paid $3 a crystal but I think they really make it absolutely perfect!

OK well I think that is all for now. DF is at a military photography workshop all week pretty close to my moms house so I should be able to see him throughout the week and I am really excited! I don't mind going to VA to see him but with all of the wedding stuff going on I don't have too much extra time to be doing all of the extra driving. Ok so that is really all for now! I am sure that there is something that needs to be done so I am going to go and do it! (or try to.... wish me luck!)

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Here you go darling!
Hi Darling!
How is this?

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

the boquet is gorgeous omg!
Also, its easy to make programs, here is what you do:

Print the paper with the monogram FIRST then measure how far down (in microsoft word) your monogram is from the top.

Then measure that from the top of your word document, type in your info and viola...

Some alternating nice ideas that I have seen are when a bride rolls up the program and then ties it with a ribbon, and at the end of the ribbon a little tag with the monogram o n it...

You can do two programs on cardstock and cut in in half (easiest) lol...

let me look for some and ill send them your way!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

 

[DISNEYMAGIC2005]

Jenny I L-O-V-E it! It's soo perfect! I think if I have extra time I am going to do the Mickey fan programs! They are soo cute and I figured if I am going to make them I might as well do it the "Disney" way! Thanks again!

 

[princess22]

I was looking for my brick but I found Kelly's (Tink_Kel's) and I got all excited! So here is a pic of that too!

Ok so that's all for now but I'll have more to post in a little bit!

OH my gosh, I was at SOG the other day and totally did the same thing! My future in laws thought I was crazy. I was like I KNOW HER! I KNOW HER! Take a picture take a picture!!!

 

[DISNEYMAGIC2005]

So there have been some crazy things that have happened with my family over the past 24 hours and I can't even begin to explain or get into it because it hurts sooo bad!

I just wanted to say that it really hurts when people let you down and then they make you think that things have changed and they haven't and then in the end you are the one who is crying on your heart out because you have let this person get to you AGAIN.... I feel soo stupid and so hurt and I don't even know how to explain it but I am getting married in 15 days so I need to put this behind me and suck it up and try to be strong. I just had to get this off my chest because I hurt sooo bad! And now because of it I am an emotional wreck. I am going to get through this and I am going to have the most amazing wedding and I am going to have a happy life with the love of my life but for now I am hurt and if you could just say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it!

 

[MegKate]

So there have been some crazy things that have happened with my family over the past 24 hours and I can't even begin to explain or get into it because it hurts sooo bad!

I just wanted to say that it really hurts when people let you down and then they make you think that things have changed and they haven't and then in the end you are the one who is crying on your heart out because you have let this person get to you AGAIN.... I feel soo stupid and so hurt and I don't even know how to explain it but I am getting married in 15 days so I need to put this behind me and suck it up and try to be strong. I just had to get this off my chest because I hurt sooo bad! And now because of it I am an emotional wreck. I am going to get through this and I am going to have the most amazing wedding and I am going to have a happy life with the love of my life but for now I am hurt and if you could just say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it!

Oh Ash you don't need this right before your wedding. Huge hugs and equally as huge prayers for this to pass. You are going to have an amazing wedding with a wonderful guy. PM me if you need a chat - I'll be around.

 

[malibustacey]

i wont say a prayer-because i will come over to you and sort this person out! NO ONE UPSETS MY ASHLEY!

No one should be making you feel this way, whether its your wedding or not!!??? How could someone stoop so low as to butt in this close to your wedding and let you down and make you feel this way.

Heh, i understand when you say you think people have changed and then in the end you realise they havent changed at all, but what can you do- you cant change people. Argh, im angry for you.

You will get through this, you can have time to cry and be angry, but dont waste too much time doing this because its not worth it, and its not worth using up all the tears on someone who has hurt you like this.

Your wedding is in 15days darling... you should be happpy..... you need to smile! ...... Just think, you and Mike, in 15 days will be married (the Disney way!) and you are going to have a beautiful wedding and you both will be so happy.

Can i feel you smiling!? .... i know you are smiling now Ash... if your not then.... its time for the .....








hope that makes you smile!!

Bug hugs for you

if you want me to come over and kick some ***, just let me know!! No one upsets my Ash!

 

[malibustacey]

ah man - i got *** ... i SAID I WILL COME OVER AND KICK SOME A S S !!

 

[DISNEYMAGIC2005]

OH my gosh, I was at SOG the other day and totally did the same thing! My future in laws thought I was crazy. I was like I KNOW HER! I KNOW HER! Take a picture take a picture!!!

So there have been some crazy things that have happened with my family over the past 24 hours and I can't even begin to explain or get into it because it hurts sooo bad!

I just wanted to say that it really hurts when people let you down and then they make you think that things have changed and they haven't and then in the end you are the one who is crying on your heart out because you have let this person get to you AGAIN.... I feel soo stupid and so hurt and I don't even know how to explain it but I am getting married in 15 days so I need to put this behind me and suck it up and try to be strong. I just had to get this off my chest because I hurt sooo bad! And now because of it I am an emotional wreck. I am going to get through this and I am going to have the most amazing wedding and I am going to have a happy life with the love of my life but for now I am hurt and if you could just say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it!

Oh Ash you don't need this right before your wedding. Huge hugs and equally as huge prayers for this to pass. You are going to have an amazing wedding with a wonderful guy. PM me if you need a chat - I'll be around.

Thanks Meg! You are so right I really don't need this right now! I know the hurt will pass but I am just happy that this whole thing happened two weeks before the wedding rather than two days before or even the day of because then I really would have been devestated. I might just take you up on that chat but for now I am just trying to clear my head and get stuff done! Thanks hun!

i wont say a prayer-because i will come over to you and sort this person out! NO ONE UPSETS MY ASHLEY!

No one should be making you feel this way, whether its your wedding or not!!??? How could someone stoop so low as to butt in this close to your wedding and let you down and make you feel this way.

Heh, i understand when you say you think people have changed and then in the end you realise they havent changed at all, but what can you do- you cant change people. Argh, im angry for you.

You will get through this, you can have time to cry and be angry, but dont waste too much time doing this because its not worth it, and its not worth using up all the tears on someone who has hurt you like this.

Your wedding is in 15days darling... you should be happpy..... you need to smile! ...... Just think, you and Mike, in 15 days will be married (the Disney way!) and you are going to have a beautiful wedding and you both will be so happy.

Can i feel you smiling!? .... i know you are smiling now Ash... if your not then.... its time for the .....








hope that makes you smile!!

Bug hugs for you

if you want me to come over and kick some ***, just let me know!! No one upsets my Ash!

ah man - i got *** ... i SAID I WILL COME OVER AND KICK SOME A S S !!

Stacey I freakin luv ya girl! You are so right that I really don't have time to get upset! I am getting married in 14 DAYS!!!! I have soo much stuff to do! And I am NOT going to let this get in my way! And if I need you to come over here and take care of this I will! Mike and I are going to have a beautiful wedding and I am going to share all of the pics and details with all of you and it is going to be AMAZING! And by the end of your post I was laughing so hard! Thanks for the pick me up girl that was exactly what I needed!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

here you go hun!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

So there have been some crazy things that have happened with my family over the past 24 hours and I can't even begin to explain or get into it because it hurts sooo bad!

I just wanted to say that it really hurts when people let you down and then they make you think that things have changed and they haven't and then in the end you are the one who is crying on your heart out because you have let this person get to you AGAIN.... I feel soo stupid and so hurt and I don't even know how to explain it but I am getting married in 15 days so I need to put this behind me and suck it up and try to be strong. I just had to get this off my chest because I hurt sooo bad! And now because of it I am an emotional wreck. I am going to get through this and I am going to have the most amazing wedding and I am going to have a happy life with the love of my life but for now I am hurt and if you could just say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it!

I know we have discussed my familyb efore, so i hope you know... that I KNOW what it feels like when you have family who just wont care or care to change...
But, dont forget you have us, your second family here... <3

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

how do you do the brick? I would love to do that!

 

[DISNEYMAGIC2005]

here you go hun!

Thanks its absolutely perfect!

I know we have discussed my family before, so i hope you know... that I KNOW what it feels like when you have family who just wont care or care to change...
But, dont forget you have us, your second family here... <3

Yea I know that you know exactly what I am going through. Thanks I really appreciate you saying that!

how do you do the brick? I would love to do that!

The brick is done in front of the Shades of Green Gazebo. I think it was like 80 bucks to have it put in. If you want more details let me know and I can totally send u more info!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

So there have been some crazy things that have happened with my family over the past 24 hours and I can't even begin to explain or get into it because it hurts sooo bad!

I just wanted to say that it really hurts when people let you down and then they make you think that things have changed and they haven't and then in the end you are the one who is crying on your heart out because you have let this person get to you AGAIN.... I feel soo stupid and so hurt and I don't even know how to explain it but I am getting married in 15 days so I need to put this behind me and suck it up and try to be strong. I just had to get this off my chest because I hurt sooo bad! And now because of it I am an emotional wreck. I am going to get through this and I am going to have the most amazing wedding and I am going to have a happy life with the love of my life but for now I am hurt and if you could just say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it!

Thanks its absolutely perfect!


Yea I know that you know exactly what I am going through. Thanks I really appreciate you saying that!



The brick is done in front of the Shades of Green Gazebo. I think it was like 80 bucks to have it put in. If you want more details let me know and I can totally send u more info!

I would love that thanks!

 

[malibustacey]

yeah the brick thing is great - i would love to do one in epcot but they dont do it anymore apparently... and it'd be a great thing to do for a little wedding surprise for wayne (and me!!) heh let me know the details too if you have them?!!

Hope youre feeling better hun! x

 

[ghoulish delight]

I will absolutely say a prayer for you! Hope everything gets sorted out, and you have the most wonderfully perfect wedding ever! Try to focus on the positive right now... as difficult as that may be! There's lots of people in your corner, and you're going to be a beautiful bride!

 

[figment fan21]

So there have been some crazy things that have happened with my family over the past 24 hours and I can't even begin to explain or get into it because it hurts sooo bad!

I just wanted to say that it really hurts when people let you down and then they make you think that things have changed and they haven't and then in the end you are the one who is crying on your heart out because you have let this person get to you AGAIN.... I feel soo stupid and so hurt and I don't even know how to explain it but I am getting married in 15 days so I need to put this behind me and suck it up and try to be strong. I just had to get this off my chest because I hurt sooo bad! And now because of it I am an emotional wreck. I am going to get through this and I am going to have the most amazing wedding and I am going to have a happy life with the love of my life but for now I am hurt and if you could just say a little prayer for me I would really appreciate it!

I know exactly how you feel. I go through this with my mom. Its very hard to deal with someone who refused to better themselves for the sake of their family. Its very hard to wedding plan and deal with the family Bull Poop at the same time. But your wedding is soooo close that i would try as hard as you can NOT to let this family member ruin you and your DF's day. Its only about you two, no one else. Just remember how comforting it is to know that you have DF (soon to be DH) in your life to love you no matter what.

I'm here for ya girlie if you want to vent!