I probably will come off sounding like Scrooge, but we will spend a very short time at my Mother on Christmas Eve, and Christmas day is spent alone with just our little family. Me, DH, DD, and DS. I wouldn't have it any other way. When the kids were little we traveled all over the place. I have apologized to the kids since then. It wasn't fair to anyone. The stress was overboard. Everyone knows my door is open... The only people we may see our the kids friends on their way home from their families....