Here is my take on the whole tipping for room service issue. Had I not either read this on DIS or in the passporter, don’t remember where, I would not have tipped and wouldn’t have felt bad about it or thought I was in the wrong.
This is why in my opinion I wouldn’t expect to tip them, and use my first ever
DCL cruise as an example. When we boarded for the first time, we went to lunch in Parrot Cay and had incredible table service, better than most land based restaurants we have been too. When we went to leave, I was confused as to whether we should tip or not, we rightly didn’t.
Spin forward a few years and we had an incredible server at that first lunch and when he saw us throughout the cruise he lent a hand and said hi to us. We did give him a write up in our post cruise email, but did not tip.
Everyone on the boards makes a big deal that people should tip even if they don’t go to the MDR, etc. So can someone please tell me why I would know to tip someone that all they do is bring me free room service tray when I am not expected tip the breakfast and lunch servers that do much more for me? To me land based tipping rules are suspended once you step foot on the ship. Flame me if you want, but as I said, had I not read about it I would not have expected to tip. We are not cheap either, land based restaurants we generally tip 15-20%.