I am just absolutely not willing to do chiropractic, just because I don't want to take chances. I know it sounds strange, but I went through he** with the surgery. Actually before I found out about the chiari, someone talked me into trying a chiropractor, because I had back pain and numbness. After that adjustment, I had a headache so bad I could barely move!

My neurosurgeon told me that he probably exacerbated my problem when he adjusted me. See, with a CM, part of your brain is actually descending into your spinal canal and it impedes the flow of spinal fluid, as well as compressing the brain stem. Anything that stresses that area(like whiplash or an adjustment) can make the problem worse.
Marsha
That's fine. The other treatments can be done through a physical therapist.
I am not familiar with your condition. However, I have had migraines--I have a weak core--I have a psoas muscle that goes ballistic and causes all sorts of back pain if I do not keep up with my exercises.
I have learned in the past 15 years that the body has all sorts of little nuances that if you hvae one thing out--it can cause a chain reaction.
So it isn't "weird" to suggest that you "consider" seeing someone who might be able to help with that. Since you cannot do a Chiropractor--a PT may be an option for you. PT's do not do adjustments.
However--it should be noted--that sometimes when you get something treated--it will hurt. But it shouldn't hurt when you are finished. (when I had my hand treated for my migraine--I wanted to claw the person treating that trigger point b/c it hurt.)
Have you looked at the links I provided? Those are techniques that a masseuse familiar with "medical" massages (not swedish/relaxation massages--my body laughs when I get those. They are an oxymoron in my case!).
If you want to take meds, that is your preference. We were simply trying to offer that there are some non-medicinal treatments that you may not be aware of.
FWIW--my mother refuses to see a chiropractor as well. She had two vertabrae fused together from an undiagnosed fracture. She is on so many pain pills (that don't work but she's at the limits and they do take the edge off). She cannot do Naproxin and I do not think she can do Ibuprofen either and Tylenol doesn't do anything.
I so desperately want to get her to my PT--but she lives 7 hours away. She is so "tight" and out of shape that it isn't doing her spine any favors.
I'd go into more details--but it would be TMI.
My point is--she has accepted her broken body and now lives a life just trying to camaflouge the pain. She's 53 and disabled due to all of this.
I refused to let my neck injury and sacrum injury to do that to me. But it takes work and sometimes it hurts. But in the long run, my body is doing me good as long as I treat it right.