He will ask you if you want them or not. We had some kids at the wedding so we wanted to do fun things for them. He brought hats for the YMCA. It was funny b/c I didn't realize that some people (adults) had never done that. He will do whatever you want, he can modify his style. But his style was fun for me!! I just let him go and do his thing. He also did trivia during us during the normal pre-reception time. We didn't really have the formal pre-reception. I had an activity planned instead of food. Extra food like that was out of my budget. We did do the soft drink, juice, and water package. It was a brunch.