When we were looking at booking OKW originally, we were really struggling trying to decide whether the extra £400 to upgrade from a studio to a 1 bed was worth it, we decided that it wasn't, and booked a studio. We were happy with our choice, otherwise we wouldn't have booked it in the first place.
The fact that Disney has since then upgraded others from another hotel, doesn't bother us one bit, in fact, I think it's great - upgrades are a great surprise and fantastic bonus when you get them. It also means that one of my mates will be joining us at OKW for the last few days of our holiday having got an upgrade themselves. It doesn't bother me one bit the fact that we've paid more, because he saved just as hard as we did to pay of his holiday.
I'm surprised that there's focus on what other people are getting, and what other people are doing, my only concern is making sure that my family and I have the most amazing holiday.