Hi Anna,
I am the next wedding. I think they said no because even though my ceremony does not start until 5 PM, the groomsmen will be there for pictures by 4:00. So maybe they need to set up prior to that

But I do not mind if you are there taking pictures
And the flower delivery, I can believe it...my cake is being made at GF and delivered to YC....$115 fee to move it
So are you counting down like I am???

We do not leave until next Saturday and my living room is a mess with everything I have to ship. But I will be doing laundry this weekend too

Still trying to decide if DF needs to go buy more luggage..I am not sure will his stuff will fit with all mine