...and she doesn't even know I exist - UPDATE PAGE 9

[HollyJoy]

Oh, so sorry! Well, at least you tried!

 

[simpilotswife]

browneyes is exactly right.

 

[kar313]

Josh, glad you got up the courage to go back, sorry things didn't work out for you. It's definitely her loss. I hope this experience has made you want to keep trying for the right girl and not left you giving up on finding her.

 

[piglet too]

I am so glad to hear that you were able to follow through, even if it did not turn out so great. As others have mentioned, if she truly made refferance to your weight, than her beauty is only skin deep.

 

[4nana]

Awwww Josh

I am sorry after all this time things didn't work out like you were hoping. I honestly think it is a 'blessing in disguise' honey. IMO, she was rude and immature. Any nice, polite, caring young lady, when told she was cute, should've politely said 'thanks' and let it be.

I saw my son go through something like this when he was younger. He has his heart set on meeting this beautiful young lady, who he felt was out of his league. Like you, he felt intimidated and his friends helped set things up. He dated her awhile and quickly learned, sometimes 'beauty is only skin deep.' Turns out, she was vain, shallow, rude and lacked personality - so beauty took a second seat and it did not last long.

Life is all about stepping stones to help make us stonger honey and try to consider this as one. Please do not let it discourage you if it was not meant to be and move on. Years and some girlfriends later , DS did meet his soul mate, who the sun rises and sets for and he is most happy and content.

Rest assured and convenience yourself, there are plenty of nice girls out there just waiting to meet a nice, caring fellow such as yourself. It will happen when you least expect it if keep the faith ^i^.

Sandie

 

[Jungle Skipper]

Okay, here's the real question on everybody's mind: What kind of tip did you leave?
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not to worry, I still left a good tip...15%.

Thanks for all the kind words everybody.

Jungle Josh

 

[calypso*a*go-go]

JJ -- You are truly a gentleman!!!

What you need to do now is just go back in there and ignore her completely. That will drive her crazy wondering why her don't find her "attractive" anymore. Hee,hee,hee!!!

 

[mum4jenn]

Bummer.....I was so hoping for a great update!! My page was taking forever to load and I was screaming at the computer so I could read.


I am so sorry that things did not work out the way you hoped. You deserve someone very special.


Gee........If I was at least 20 years younger.............

 

[Jungle Skipper]

I am so sorry that things did not work out the way you hoped. You deserve someone very special.


Gee........If I was at least 20 years younger.............

I get that a lot....thanks. maybe I was just born 20 years late!

Jungle Josh

 

[chell]

Sorry Josh. You'll find the girl for you soon enough and she will appreciate everything about you. From all your posts that I have seen here over the years you sound like an amazing guy to me. Keep your chin up! Maybe you just need to go for an older woman.

 

[vettechick99]

Oh I'm sorry it didn't work out but you sound so brave for trying. I admire that alot!

ditto!!!

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

I'm sorry. Looks like you have my luck.

 

[Cebhfhionn]

I'm sorry, Josh!

I hate that "not my type" thing that people use. IMHO, you miss so much if you box yourself in to a certain type.

You'll find the one for you, I'm sure!

 

[Fantasmic303]

Well, I echo, again, what everyone else has said. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but, good for you for going for it!

You must be proud of yourself for atleast following through - I know I would be. And, honestly, haven't you been able to think a little more now that Fantasy Ginny wasn't a reality?

I've gotta tell ya...when I read your update and the comments she made to your friend, my first thought was, "I hope that turns him off from her." I hate people like that...I mean, even if you weren't her "type", it's rude and insensitive to use that as an excuse.

I'm sorry for you, but don't worry - just think, if the "wrong" girl can make you feel so wonderful, imagine what the "right" Princess will do for you!!

 

[Hollyann]

Josh, I was hoping for a fairy tale, magical ending. Sorry that didn't happen. However, at least you never have to wonder what could have happened....good for you for trying.

Believe me, if she was willing to put you in a "type" and not give you a chance - she's definitely not YOUR type! You deserve better....heck, we all deserve better!

You've got quite a little fan club here - myself included. Keep us posted on how your princess search is going.

 

[Hollyann]

Oops - double post!

 

[wdw4us]

Well, what happened? Did you die? Nope, just as I said. What's the worst that could happen? She'd say no. We ALL survived it. It didn't work out - which is hard to swallow now but in the long run, it probably is for the best.

I remember this to die for guy I wanted to go out with. I knew his sister and pleaded for a good word. She looked at me like I was green. She said I was way too good for him. He was so good looking and I was rather plain but in the end, I heard that his good looks went to his head, he was a love em and leave em type, got messed up with drugs and ended up losing his good looks.

She was right but I sure wanted that date, now I look back and know I have the right one for me. He asked me 3 times before I accepted. I don't recommend that- especially at her restaurant but you gave it a shot, that's about all you could do.

Good for you!

denise

 

[Jolie C]

Sorry it didn't work out, Josh. If my sister was still single.....

 

[Poohnatic]

Josh, kudos for trying. You're going to make someone very happy someday. I know, doesn't make you feel better right now.

My DH was a friend for many years before we hooked up (best friends with me and the ex husband). None of my female friends would consider dating him because he's a big guy. Ex and I split, I start dating him because he was the guy who supported me in anything I did. Suddenly, he looked mighty interesting to those friends who didn't give him a chance.

Got some single friends in NY...yep, 10 years later, they're still single...

Suzanne

 

[Jungle Skipper]

You've got quite a little fan club here - myself included. Keep us posted on how your princess search is going.

so it seems...makes me feel special having all you DISers as friends....thanks for the kind words everyone...I'm certainly not gonna let it bother me...nothing will ever knock this Jungle SKipper down and out.

guess it's back to the Princess finding drawing board!

Jungle Josh