I think it still comes down to the vibe you want to be in when you are vacation. For me I would want to be close to where I want to hang out even if not in parks. BWV/BCV would be great if you want the ability to stroll into EP - World Showcase (I love being a 15 min walk from Rose & Crown) plus the BW itself is awesome, the Poly has its cool feel (and Trader Sam's), BLT has so many amenities close by, but if you are looking at spending any time at Disney Springs, OKW or Saratoga would be ideal (in addition to the OKW description above). While I like to have it available, I just don't want to spend any more time on the transportation than I have to to get where I am going (which is why we own at BLT and BWV). We have not yet stayed at AKL so I can't offer any advice there.
Well, that narrows it down for OP!


I generally agree with all of the above!!
We have stayed at AKL on an adults only trip (before kids), did not go to the pools (which I hear are amazing), and really enjoyed ourselves. While there are plenty of kids at AKL/AKV (and any
DVC resort, for that matter), there are some great places to hang out that aren't necessarily overrun with kids. The restaurants are great, there is a great bar/lounge in the main building (Jambo). And the animals ... I also tend to think that the stroller set are less likely to book there than, say, an MK resort because you're getting buses anywhere, and that can be a pain for folding strollers. Also - no character meal at AKL. (Poly, GF, BLT all have popular character meals).
I also really like VGF/GF. The main lobby is gorgeous and we love hanging out there in the evenings and sometimes in the afternoons. It also has the most sit-down restaurants and 3 signature restaurants (Narcoosee's, Citrico's, V&A). They're renovating now to create a Beauty and the Beast-themed bar. There is almost always live music in the lobby. The VGF lobby is intimate, usually has water and coffee available.
Full disclosure - we own at BLT, VGF, RIV and have stayed/visited all the DVC resorts except OKW and SSR. I don't think you can go wrong - it really depends on your particular vibe. BLT has California Grill, DH's 2nd favorite restaurant on site, if we were ever taking an adults-only trip, I would be spending time at the bar/lounge there at sunset, and also TOTWL. We also love the BW area. Almost bought BWV a few times. I would only add, start small, and buy resale unless you have your heart set on Riviera. And even then, maybe start with a contract elsewhere so you can try out all the L14 resorts. Alternatively, if you're not sure you are ready to buy yet, rent points a few times and try out the other resorts. I really think you can't go wrong. You may be surprised at your reaction to a particular resort, but each of the resorts, especially the L14, have appeal for adults only and for families.