I did finally watch it.
About made me cry.
I do wonder--how accurate of "based on a true story", the portrayal of the oldest child killed was. Did she really struggle to forgive?
I don't know much about the Amish in reality--but I guess I'm missing the parts of the film that were inaccurate depictions.
I had watched a documentary on this shooting a few weeks ago that was originally done months after the shooting.
The interviews jived with much of what I saw in the movie. The amish do accept help via transportation from others, they do not shun the English (though they do shun those who leave), and according to the documentary, the shooting brought the Amish and the English closer together. The Amish did forgive.
One thing that I thought was neat, but not covered--
The elders had to decide what to do with all of the financial contributions. (they did opt to keep them b/c it was the way the English like to help in tragedy and they shouldn't turn it down).
There was also a fundraiser by an artist--since there is no memorial, he created a picture memorial--very simple. And they did show him doing autographs and Amish were coming to buy the picture.
As far as Amish women not looking like Kimberly Williams..I'm not sure what that means.
While Amish women (and men) dress very plain, I'm sure they are not all "homely" looking. I'm also sure Ms. Williams was cast more for her acting skills
I felt the movie was tastefully made.